Grab your spot in The Conscious Love Challenge here.   You’ve heard the story: women are evolving, men are falling behind. But what if that’s not the whole truth?   In this episode, I open a conversation most people aren’t willing to have—one that might challenge everything you’ve been told about men, love, and the real reasons relationships feel so out of balance today. It’s not a defense. It’s not an attack. It’s an invitation.   To listen deeper. To see what you’ve been missing. And maybe, to change the way you see the men in your life—forever.

Click Here to learn more about the Inspired Love Program and Book Your Intro Call   I'm officially a father to a beautiful little girl and as I step into this new chapter of my life, I wanted to add something new to the podcast. Once monthly, I'm going to do a Shane's Diary episode where I take a pause from the regular content and share personal reflections, stories and insights from my journey to let you get to know the man behind the message and give you glimpses into how I embody the work in my personal life and witness my own process of  evolution. In this episode, I talk about crossing the threshold into fatherhood, my thoughts on raising a girl, my relationship to my own parents, trauma, addiction, jail time, and the journey I've taken to be ready to nurture a soul in her human experience. Thank you for listening and I hope you enjoy this peek behind the curtain. 

Why do we get so swept up by charm and chemistry, only to find ourselves in relationships that lack true emotional depth? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the magnetic pull of initial attraction and why it often leads us into patterns with emotionally unavailable partners. You’ll learn what emotional availability really looks like, why we unconsciously gravitate toward avoidance or inconsistency, and how to break the cycle. Together, we’ll uncover the deeper connection between self-worth and the types of partners we attract—and how healing our inner patterns can transform our love lives. We’ll also dive into practical strategies for recognizing emotionally available partners and redefining what chemistry means in a way that aligns with your long-term goals for love. If you’re ready to move beyond the surface and attract a partner who shows up with kindness, consistency, and vulnerability, this episode is for you!

In this week's episode we explore choosing the right partner, not in a way that applies to everyone, but in a way that applies to you personally.  This episode is a deep dive into exploring your own values, needs, and desires, in a relationship.  What are the things that are truly non-negotiable for you?  And what can you be flexible about?  The answers might surprise you!   If you're listening to this episode and are interested in joining our next breathwork event, please email info@thelivingrelationship.com to be added to our waiting list! 

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a frustrating relationship dynamic: What to do when he goes dark for days? If you’ve ever experienced the emotional rollercoaster of being left in the dark, unsure of where you stand with someone, this episode will offer the clarity and guidance you need. We’ll explore the reasons why someone might pull away, the signs of emotional unavailability, and how to protect your own emotional well-being in these situations. I’ll also share how to set boundaries, communicate your needs, and decide whether to invest further in the relationship or move on. If you’ve been feeling uncertain about how to respond when he goes quiet, this episode will help you navigate the situation with confidence and self-respect.

In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we do a deep dive on how to choose the right partner.  Shane does a detailed exploration of how to identify true compatibility with someone, covering important red and green flags that reveal the character of a person. In this Part 1 of a 2 part episode, we focus more on the universal aspects of compatibility that apply to everyone.  In part two we'll look at compatibility in more of an individual sense and how to choose the partner that's right for you specifically. 

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a question that many people with anxiety face: How to stop my anxiety from ruining a relationship? If you’ve ever found your anxiety taking over in a relationship, causing overthinking, insecurity, or unnecessary conflict, this episode will help you gain control and find peace. I’ll share strategies for managing anxiety in a relationship, how to communicate your feelings without overwhelming your partner, and how to build trust and security with both yourself and your partner. We’ll also dive into understanding how anxiety stems from past experiences and how to reframe those fears to create healthier dynamics. If you’re ready to stop letting anxiety dictate your relationships and start fostering love, calm, and connection, this episode will give you the tools to create more balance and harmony.

You’ve felt it—that slow fade, the sudden shift in energy, the uncertainty that creeps in when a connection that once felt promising starts to feel… off. You start wondering if you’re asking for too much. You question whether to speak up or stay silent. And deep down, you just want to feel chosen without having to chase. This is the moment when we unconsciously sabotage connection the most.  This episode is for anyone who’s tired of overthinking, tired of pretending you don’t care, tired of trying to “play it right” while your deeper truth goes unspoken. If you’ve ever found yourself in the grey zone—unsure whether to wait, reach out, pull back, or move on—this conversation will meet you right there. Not with rules or strategies, but with clarity, truth, and the kind of self-respect that doesn’t flinch in the face of uncertainty.

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle the challenge of standing out in modern dating—especially in the world of dating apps. If you’ve ever felt lost in the sea of profiles or wondered how to make a meaningful connection in a swipe-happy world, this episode is for you. I’ll share practical strategies on how to present your authentic self, write a profile that attracts the right kind of attention, and navigate the virtual dating world with confidence. We’ll also explore how to shift the focus from superficial connections to deeper, more meaningful conversations that lead to real relationships. Whether you’re new to online dating or have been navigating it for a while, this episode will offer you the tools to stand out and attract the love you truly deserve.

You’ve been patient, understanding, and endlessly hopeful—believing if you just give him enough time, he’ll finally see your worth. But deep down, you wonder: Am I being loving… or just losing myself?   In this episode, “Is He Worth the Wait… or Are You Wasting Time?”, we dive into the confusing space between staying open and staying stuck. We’ll explore the subtle but critical line between patience rooted in love and waiting that comes from fear of not being chosen. You’ll discover the signs that his uncertainty isn’t about timing—it’s about incompatibility—and how every day you spend in limbo teaches him how to value you. Most importantly, we’ll talk about what it takes to choose yourself with confidence, release the fantasy of “one day,” and create space for a relationship that’s ready for you now. If you’ve ever felt trapped between hoping he’ll step up and fearing you’re wasting your time, this conversation will bring the clarity and courage you’ve been searching for.

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a question many women face: How long should I wait for him to choose me? If you’ve been waiting for a partner to make a decision about your future together, or wondering if you’re putting your life on hold while he takes his time, this episode will help you gain clarity. I’ll guide you through understanding the dynamics of waiting for someone to choose you, what it truly means to be chosen, and how to evaluate whether waiting aligns with your needs and desires. We’ll discuss how to honor your worth and set boundaries, while also learning how to move forward with or without him. If you’re stuck in limbo and unsure whether to keep waiting or walk away, this episode will offer the tools to make a decision that honors your heart and your future.

You’ve done the work. You’ve cried the tears, read the books, maybe even taken the courses. You know your patterns. You’ve said no to the toxic ones, sworn off the avoidants, and promised yourself: Never again. And then… it happens again. You meet someone. He’s charming. He sees you. There’s chemistry. And somewhere deep in your gut, it feels like a homecoming. But before long, it starts to unravel. You realize you’re bending. Shrinking. Questioning yourself. And you’re back in something that feels hauntingly familiar. This episode is for the woman who thought she was past this. Who’s asking herself: – Why am I still attracting this? – What am I missing? – How did I not see this coming? I’ll show you why your self-trust might not be broken at all—and how attracting a familiar pattern isn’t always a sign of failure. In fact, it might mean you’re finally ready to break it. This isn’t about blame. This is about clarity, compassion, and claiming your power—again.

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive into a thought-provoking question: Is my independence keeping me single? If you’ve ever wondered whether your strong sense of independence is making it harder to attract or maintain a relationship, this episode will help you explore that dynamic. I’ll discuss the balance between maintaining your autonomy and being open to partnership, how to navigate the fear of losing your independence in a relationship, and how to create space for love without compromising who you are. We’ll also explore how to align your desires for independence and connection in a way that supports both your personal growth and your ability to attract a fulfilling relationship. If you’ve been questioning whether your independence is a barrier to love, this episode will give you valuable insights to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

Why do some men pull away even when love is present? In this episode, we break down one of the most confusing dynamics in modern dating: when emotional connection exists, but commitment never fully arrives.  I’ll unpack the deeper fears, unspoken blocks, and hidden conflicts that cause men to hesitate—even when they genuinely care. You’ll learn how to recognize these patterns early, avoid getting trapped in limbo, and position yourself for the kind of partnership that doesn’t leave you waiting and wondering.  If you’ve ever been stuck in the almost, this is the clarity you’ve been looking for.

Grab your spot in my upcoming 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge here. In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we tackle a complex question: What if someone aligns with what I want but I'm not physically attracted to them? If you’ve ever found yourself in a situation where a person seems perfect on paper but the physical attraction just isn’t there, this episode will offer guidance on how to navigate this challenge. We’ll explore the role of physical attraction in relationships, how to assess whether it can develop over time, and how to honor your feelings without rushing into decisions. I’ll share insights on what to do when you feel emotionally and intellectually connected, but aren’t sure if the chemistry will ever be there. If you're grappling with the balance between emotional alignment and physical attraction, this episode will help you navigate your heart and your desires with clarity and self-awareness.

Grab your spot in my upcoming 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge here.   You say you’re happy and single — and maybe you are. But what if that happiness is secretly a barrier? A quiet defense against the love you crave.In this episode, we explore the seven subtle beliefs that often hide beneath independence and self-sufficiency — the ones that sound like empowerment, but may actually be keeping you from the deep connection your heart truly wants.If you’re single life feels safe and comfortable, but you still long for love and connection that feels far away. This is for you.

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a powerful question: How can I want love and still be happy without it? If you’ve ever felt torn between desiring a romantic relationship and learning how to find contentment in your own company, this episode is for you. I’ll share insights on how to cultivate self-love, personal fulfillment, and inner happiness while still holding space for the desire for love. We’ll discuss how to embrace your current season of life, find joy and purpose outside of romance, and create a mindset where you can fully appreciate the love already present in your life. If you’ve been struggling to balance your longing for love with your need for personal happiness, this episode will offer the clarity and encouragement you need to find peace within yourself, no matter your relationship status.

You want love—but are you turning your life into a self-imposed prison because you haven’t found it yet? In this episode, we unpack the quiet ways people punish themselves for being single, stuck, or in love-limbo. From numbing your joy to turning dating into a full-time emotional job, we explore how romantic longing can morph into identity and self-worth issues. You’ll learn how to stop chasing love like a cure and start showing up to your life like the love you're seeking is already here, because it is.

In today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we address a vulnerable and important question: How do I share body insecurity with a partner? If you’ve ever felt uncomfortable opening up about your body insecurities, or worried about how your partner might respond, this episode will guide you through the process of sharing in a healthy, supportive way. Join me, as we explore how to communicate your feelings with honesty and vulnerability, while ensuring your partner understands your needs without feeling ashamed or judged. I’ll share tips on how to foster a safe space for these conversations and how to embrace self-compassion as you navigate your insecurities together. If you’ve been holding back from sharing these personal feelings, this episode will empower you to open up and build a deeper, more connected relationship.

You’ve read the books. You’ve done the mindset work. So why do you still feel uncomfortable in your skin? In this episode, we’re unpacking the deeper layers of body shame—where it actually comes from, why it lingers even after years of healing, and what it really takes to feel confident, grounded, and beautiful in your body again. This isn’t about changing how you look. It’s about changing how you relate to the vessel that holds you. We’ll talk about: Why body shame isn’t just about appearance—but about survival and protection How your nervous system may still be bracing, even when your mind says you’re “healed” What it looks like to reclaim confidence from the inside out—without faking it or forcing it This conversation is an invitation to soften, to release the old story, and to come home to the body you’ve spent years trying to fix. Because your confidence was never meant to be curated. It was meant to be remembered.