This conversation changed me.

I sat down with a Black American woman and a Korean woman to discuss what it’s like to navigate the world in our different bodies.

We spoke about dating, stereotypes, safety, visibility, and how each of us has been shaped, sometimes praised, sometimes punished, for who we are.

And somewhere in that space between our stories, I started to understand something deeper about privilege.

Not as a weapon. Not as a shame-label.
But as a lens. A structure. A responsibility.

This episode isn’t about blame.
It’s about noticing.
About making space for voices we might not hear when we only stay in our own lane.

I’m still learning. I always will be.
But this moment — this conversation — opened something I want to keep open.

🎧 If that kind of opening speaks to you too, I’d love to hear from you.

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