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The Break Up Break Down

Pionaire Podcasting

332 episodes

1 day ago

When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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Episodes (20/332)

The Break Up Break Down

When she ended up with her ex's boss.... - S8E14

The week we're raising awareness for Cornerstone Minneapolis: https://cornerstonemn.org/

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If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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12 hours ago

39 minutes 17 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Break Down Bonus: What does emotional abuse look like in romantic relationships? w/ Jessica L. Hutchison, LCPC

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Check out the Honest Women Podcast: https://www.honestwomenpodcast.com/

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Follow Jessica on IG!: https://www.instagram.com/jlhutchisonlcpc/

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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5 days ago

25 minutes 23 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When she said she accidentally got married.... - Season 4 Replay

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This episode originaly aired in 2023 in Season 4

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Accidentally?! This week we're chatting with someone who says her partner asked her for a domestic partnership, but she was ready to break up. So how did she end up in a legally binding agreement that led her to getting a divorce lawyer!?

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This week we're raising awareness for Family safety center in Tulsa: https://fsctulsa.org/

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:36): How they met

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(07:51): First signs of problems in the relationship

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(13:23): When she wanted to break up with her partner

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(16:03): Why her her gf wanted a domestic partnership

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(21:34): The actual break up

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(26:24): The aftermath of the break up

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(37:23): Working through things in therapy

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(45:15): Dating again/moving on

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(51:37): Teaser

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[CONTENT WARNINGS: emotional abuse]

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1 week ago

52 minutes

The Break Up Break Down

He said he couldn't date her because she didn't have parents?! | Break Down Bonus

Check out the Personality Hires podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ddda6wKZg7n5sT9oaLSTJ

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Follow the podcast!

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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1 week ago

9 minutes 26 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When their love went 'overboard' after a cruise gone wrong.... - S8E13

The week we're raising awareness for Women's Resource Center to End DV in ATL: https://www.wrcdv.org/about

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If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Check out author Jaclyn Michelle Smith: www.jaclynmichellesmith.com

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Her Book, I'm sorry I Cremated You: https://www.amazon.com/Im-Sorry-Cremated-You-Finding/dp/1642259497

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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2 weeks ago

27 minutes 34 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Childhood sexual trauma's impact on relationships w/ Claire Horner LPC, LPCC | Break Down Bonus Replay

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This episode Originally aired in Feb. 2025

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Tune into Claire's podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/claire-and-sadohl/episodes/The-Trauma-Therapy-Network-A-Resource-for-Survivors-and-Therapists-e2k26c6/a-aba0t9h

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Follow the podcast!

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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[CW: Mention of rape, sexual assault, incest, molestation]

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2 weeks ago

21 minutes 58 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When his mom called and exposed a dark secret.... - S8E12

[SCROLL FOR CW]

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The week we're raising awareness for Away in West Virginia: https://www.awaywv.org/contact-us/

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If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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[CW: Intimate partner violence, incest]

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3 weeks ago

33 minutes 5 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Why do men care so much about your body count? | Break Down Bonus

Check out the Personality Hires podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ddda6wKZg7n5sT9oaLSTJ

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Follow the podcast!

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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3 weeks ago

14 minutes 2 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When one question from him said it all.... - S8E11

The week we're raising awareness for the Crisis Line & Safe House in Central GA: https://cl-sh.org

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If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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4 weeks ago

40 minutes 8 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Do bad relationships emotionally stunt you? | S8E10 Part 2

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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1 month ago

24 minutes 39 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When work wasn't the only thing he was bringing home.... - S8E10

The week we're raising awareness for the Family Rescue in Chicago: https://familyrescueinc.org/

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If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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[CW: Intimate partner violence]

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1 month ago

46 minutes 6 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

You have to take a 600 question test to get on 'The Bachelorette'?! | Break Down Bonus

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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1 month ago

11 minutes 35 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When he knew The Bachelorette was sending him home.... - S8E9

The week we're raising awareness for the The Nest in Lexington, KY: https://www.thenestlexington.org/

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If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:18): How they met

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1 month ago

32 minutes 44 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Recognizing power dynamics in your relationships w/ Coworker Jackson | Break Down Bonus

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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National Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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1 month ago

11 minutes 39 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When both her 'ex's' were taken.... - S8E8

She thought she’d found love, but both relationships were built on lies. She says she was manipulated by two older, taken men. How does her story reveal how emotional cheating can blur the line between romance and control? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

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The week we're raising awareness for the Family Justice Center in New Orleans: https://www.nofjc.org/

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If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(04:18): How they met

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[CW: Sexual Harassment]

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1 month ago

29 minutes 2 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

The step-bro scandal & other big deal breakers w/ Jackson Kim | Break Down Bonus

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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National Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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1 month ago

12 minutes 16 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When she dated her step-brother.... - S2Replay

This week we're raising awareness for the Help Now Shelter in Orlando, FL: https://www.helpnowshelter.org/donate

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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Timestamps: - (00:00-06:54): Episode Intro - (06:54-11:44): How they (and their parents) got together - (11:44-23:43): Challenges when dating someone in the family/main conflict - (23:43-24:41): What the family dynamic is like now - (24:41-27:47): Her step-brother's new relationship/when friends(?) date your ex - (27:47)-35:00): Advice from our interviewee - (35:00-35:30): Episode Teaser

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1 month ago

35 minutes 22 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Break Down Bonus: Protecting your mental health in casual relationships w/ Jessica Hutchison

Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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National Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/

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What proof do you need for a protective order?:https://www.findlaw.com/legalblogs/law-and-life/what-proof-do-you-need-to-get-a-restraining-order/

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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2 months ago

22 minutes 22 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When "the other woman's" housewarming gift exposed his infidelity.... - S8E7

She thought she was just hooking up with a friend...until his girlfriend confronted her on social media. Suddenly, she realized she was the other woman without even knowing it. But instead of walking away quietly, she plotted the ultimate goodbye: a gift at his housewarming party that exposed his cheating to everyone.

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The week we're raising awareness for Cornerstone in Minneapolis: https://dayoneservices.org/

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If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Follow the podcast!

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(02:56): How they met

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2 months ago

21 minutes 3 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Are you crossing a line into emotional infidelity? w/ Laurie Poole, LPC | Break Down Bonus

Follow the podcast!

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Thank you, Laurie Poole, LPC, for joining us this week!

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Learn more about Laurie, her podcast, and The Montford Group: https://themontfortgroup.com/laurie-poole

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Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8

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Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/

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Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/

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The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/

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Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9

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2 months ago

16 minutes 31 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.