The Break Up Break Down

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Pionaire Podcasting

311 episodes

4 days ago

When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way.

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Episodes (20/311)

The Break Up Break Down

Break Down Replay: Identifying grooming behaviors by our elders, romantic partners, and friends w/ Sally Baker

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1 day ago

22 minutes 33 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When she said her mom & husband had an affair.... - S5Replay

This episode originally aired in season 5

We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce!

This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/

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Timestamps:

(00:00): Episode Intro

(04:41): How they met

(13:51): The first major problem in their relationship

(20:17): When her mom became enmeshed in the relationship

(28:56): Possible Grooming Behavior

(35:01): Discovering the affair

(47:11): Confronting her mother and husband

(57:30): The aftermath of the conflict

(01:05:00): The continuation of the affair post-conflict/divorce proceedings

(01:09:46): Therapy journey/domestic violence resources

(01:13:39): Reflecting/advice

(01:19:32): Teaser

[CONTENT WARNINGS: miscarriage/loss of child, infertility, domestic violence, grooming]

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4 days ago

1 hour 19 minutes 56 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When does religion become harmful in your relationship?

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1 week ago

16 minutes 47 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When a church prophet influenced her to marry him.... - S7E11

She married him after 'confirmation' from a church prophet who told her it was a divine match, but over time, her marriage turned dangerous. The final straw? An all-consuming fight over a Disney World burger that finally made her realize her life was worth more than a marriage that could leave her dead.

This week we're raising awareness for Family Violence Prevention Services in San Antonio, TX: https://fvps.org/

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Timestamps:

(00:00): Episode Intro

(03:25): How they met

(13:15): The prophet

(17:10): The start of the abuse

(25:27): The burger situation

(29:41): The end of the relationship

(36:43): Reflecting/advice

(49:33): Teaser

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1 week ago

46 minutes 7 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Break Down Bonus: When your mental health struggles impact your relationship w/ the Personality Hires

Check out the Personality Hires podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ddda6wKZg7n5sT9oaLSTJ

Attachment styles with Kat Schneider, LCSW: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d5a44e5000113fcf9f

Attachment styles + healthy conflict: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d5a44e5000113fcfb9

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2 weeks ago

19 minutes 8 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When she said he had a new girl 12 days later.... - S7E10

When this week's guest ended her relationship, she expected to have time to heal, only to discover that her ex moved on with someone new just 12 days after their split. As her suspicion grows, she wonders if his new flame and him got together before the breakup or if he was simply that quick to replace her. We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

This week we're raising awareness for Hope Center in Pittsburgh: https://akhopecenter.org/

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Timestamps:

(00:00): Episode Intro

(03:05): How they met

(10:24): Red flags

(17:24): The end of the relationship

(20:15): The aftermath

(23:26): Reflecting/advice

(34:02): Teaser

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2 weeks ago

30 minutes 32 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Break Down Bonus: Finding out your partner is cheating from a website?! w/ the Personality Hires

Check out the Personality Hires podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ddda6wKZg7n5sT9oaLSTJ

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3 weeks ago

11 minutes 30 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When she became 'the other woman' after she was cheated on.... - S7E9

After her divorce, she falls for a charming, attentive man, believing she’s finally found a fresh start. But when she learns he’s married, she’s forced to face the painful irony of becoming what once shattered her. Why did she stay even after finding out about his other relationship? We'll dig into the details when we break down this week's break up.

This week we're raising awareness for Safe Space in Stuart, FL: https://safespacefl.org/

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3 weeks ago

23 minutes 4 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Break Down Bonus: Do men deprioritize friends more or less than women in new relationships?

Check out the Personality Hires podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ddda6wKZg7n5sT9oaLSTJ

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1 month ago

16 minutes 20 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When she said he sued her when their relationship ended.... - S7E8

She says she endured a breakup so intense that she suffered cardiac arrest twice, barely surviving the emotional and physical toll. As she fights to recover, her ex sues her, completely blindsiding her. What happened within the nearly five years of their relationship? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

This week we're raising awareness for Care Lodge in Meridian, MS: https://www.carelodge.com/

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1 month ago

31 minutes 48 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Break Down Bonus: Childhood sexual trauma's impact on relationships w/ Claire Horner LPC, LPCC

[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]

Tune into Claire's podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/claire-and-sadohl/episodes/The-Trauma-Therapy-Network-A-Resource-for-Survivors-and-Therapists-e2k26c6/a-aba0t9h

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[CW: Mention of rape, sexual assault, incest, molestation]

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1 month ago

21 minutes 58 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When she said her ex cheated with his COUSIN.... - S7E7

[SCROLL FOR CW]

This week we're raising awareness for Harbor House in Orlando, FL: https://www.harborhousefl.com/give-help/about/contact/

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[CW: Incest, mention of molestation, mention of sexual abuse, mention of rape]

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1 month ago

29 minutes 20 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Break Down Bonus: The Trashy Divorces Podcast Reacts to S2E5 [Replay]

Stacie and Alicia from the Trashy Divorces podcast join Abby to talk about ethical polyamory, healthy relationship dynamics, and expecting more from your love life. Check out their podcast below and tune in to hear them break down this week's break up!

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1 month ago

17 minutes 33 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When it was the "throuple" from hell.... - S2Replay

When her husband abruptly announced he wanted a polyamorous marriage, she tried to be open-minded by welcoming a third into their relationship. She tried her best to make it work until it became clear what he really wanted out of this relationship...we'll hear the story when we break down this week's break up.

This episode originally aired in August of 2021.

This week we're raising awareness for Children & Families of Iowa: https://cfiowa.ejoinme.org/MyPages/DonationPage/tabid/441383/Default.aspx

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Timestamps:

(00:00-03:45): Episode Intro

(03:45-04:50): How they met

(06:50-08:56): When she was blindsided

(08:56-11:34): When they became a "throuple"

(11:34-13:43): The worst part of this "three person relationship" (for her)

(13:43)-18:09): When she started to think about leaving....

(18:09-21:11): What led to the marriage ending

(21:11-25:17): She decides to leave the marriage/the divorce

(25:17-31:34): Moving on after marrying your high school sweetheart

(31:34:33:15): Advice for leaving a toxic relationship

(33:15-33:34): Teaser Clip

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1 month ago

31 minutes 35 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When childhood besties split after a series of traumatic events.... - S7E6

[SCROLL FOR CW]

These childhood best friends were inseparable until one of them made a series of life-threatening mistakes that pushed the other away for good. This week's interviewee will recount the frightening events that led to their split when we break down this week's break up.

This week we're raising awareness for 1736 Family Crisis Center in Los Angeles, CA: https://www.1736fcc.org/

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[CW: Alcoholism, addiction, car accident w/ loss of life]

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1 month ago

40 minutes 58 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Break Down Bonus: Can you mix business and pleasure? w/ the Personality Hires

Check out the Personality Hires podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7ddda6wKZg7n5sT9oaLSTJ

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1 month ago

16 minutes 17 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When the viral TikTok 'sepia bride' got a divorce.... - S7E5

The "Sepia Bride" went viral on TikTok after calling out her photographer for editing her wedding photos with a brown-ish filter, but many users couldn’t help speculating about her relationship dynamics after watching her videos. Did the bad omens from their wedding predict their split?! We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

This week we're raising awareness for Safe Alliance in Charlotte, NC: https://www.safealliance.org/

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Timestamps:

(00:00): Episode Intro

(07:07): How they met

(14:37): Red flags/leading to divorce

(19:48): The end of the relationship

(21:10): The 'sepia bride' controversy

(26:02): Dating after divorce

(32:19): Reflecting/advice

(35:07): Teaser

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2 months ago

31 minutes 30 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

Break Down Bonus: How to reconcile with friends after conflict w/ Danielle Bayard Jackson

Thank you to Danielle Bayard Jackson for joining the podcast!

daniellebayardjackson.com / betterfemalefriendships.com

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2 months ago

24 minutes 45 seconds

The Break Up Break Down

When the maid of honor got demoted at the wedding.... - S7E4

She says gave everything to be the best maid of honor, believing their friendship would last a lifetime. But after the wedding, her best friend texts her three reasons why their friendship can't continue. Why did their years long friendship come to an end? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.

This week we're raising awareness for Family Justice Center in Buffalo, NY: http://www.fjcsafe.org/

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Timestamps:

(00:00): Episode Intro

(03:39): How they met

(11:21): Becoming/being maid of honor

(14:28): Was this one person the catalyst to the break up?