Entitlement has been a word that has come up a lot of times throughout this podcast, so we decided to dedicate an episode to discuss it. So many people are entitled in this world; children entitled to their parents time, money and life (or vice versa), siblings, family member and friends being entitled to each other's time, space, money and decision making or friends and strangers being entitled to another individual's life.
In other news, this will be our last episode for a while. We will be going on a hiatus but will be back soon. If you miss us too much, listen to an old episode 🙂. Thank you so much for sticking with us for 102 episodes so far!!!!
How do you cope with marrying a man with multiple baby mamas? How do you manage the relationship with the mother of his other kids? What kinds of boundaries are required with the mothers without impacting the relationship between the father and his kids?
It's the 100th Episode!!!!!!! Thank you to all our avid listeners who have been with us since the very beginning. It has been an amazing journey so far and it is so exciting to see that we have reached the 100 episode mark already.
On our Big Brother Naija update this week, smelly lady parts and gossips are discussed. Meanwhile Timini Egbuson was trending again recently and being dragged by an ex.
A new King has been crowned in Warri.
Ghanaians abroad ask their president to fix things so they can return home.
It's raining broken relationships and marriages...what is going on?
Afghanistan has been on fire since the US and UK exited after 20years. The Taliban took over and the president fled in less than a week. Why has this caused such an issue?
Can Kayanmata be equated to using a date rape drug on someone?
The question is simple - Should Christians pray "die by fire" prayers against their enemies? Or should they take the high road and forgive even when they have legitimate grievances?
We also tackle yet another way the Nigerian government wants to frustrate Tech businesses.
Who sets the body count standard for both genders? Why is the body count conversation so important?
Inspired by one of the many big brother naija fights last week, we discuss slut-shaming. What really is considered slut-shaming?
Lastly, please and please, do not carry packages for people when you are travelling except you have thoroughly inspected the package.
What is the role of a 'friends with benefits' and what are the standard rules guiding this relationship?
It is a religious episode ladies (and gentlemen). We talk about how the northern morality police (Hisbah) turns a blind eye to "sins" of the rich but harass the poor when they commit the same "sins". Then we move on to whether or not religious rules and doctrines should evolve as the world does....which then leads us to discover that "thou shall not fornicate" is not part of the 10 Commandments. Does that give you a pass even though the Bible says your body is His temple?
Nigerian Police Officer, DCP Abba Kyari became extremely famous recently for all the wrong reasons. His name has been linked to big time fraudster, Hushpuppi, who is currently undergoing trial in the US. According to FBI, Hushpuppi allegedly paid DCP Abba Kyari N8m to detain fellow fraudster, Chibuzo. Abba Kyari, has come out to say that the only conversation he has had with Hushpuppi is about his tailor.
The Central Bank of Nigeria has ban the sale of foreign currencies to Bureau de Change operators. What was the point of the ban? How does this not make life more difficult for Nigerians? We discuss!
What will you do if your husband keeps declining every work or business proposal you bring to him? He takes care of you and gives you more than enough money, but you do not want to be a housewife anymore. All you want to do is work or invest the money you have saved over the years but he doesn't want you to do that.
The girls are split 2 vs. 1 on this debate. Should pastors have performance targets to meet? Would your answer change if the performance target was about winning more souls for God vs. making more money for the church?
The Netflix series, Sex Life has been ringing a bell in our ear for a while now so we decided to watch it and give our take on the many lessons that can actually be learnt from the show.
Oba, Anambra State was put on the map last weekend as money flowed without reservation. We discuss what went down in Oba last weekend!
What is the point of the Nigerian NYSC scheme when it is apparently not required for a ministerial position as per the Nigerian constitution?
The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) scheme is a compulsory requirement for every Nigerian that graduates from university. It is basically a requirement for employment. A while ago, the former Finance Minister appointed by President Buhari had too step down because of a lack of an authentic NYSC certificate. She took it to court and recently won the case. The court stated that a Minister of the Federal Republic of Nigeria is not required to do NYSC to be appointed. Does this make sense at all?
The case of molestation of a 14 year old girl by an actor in the Yoruba movie industry...drags on. This week, a colleague of the alleged molester makes a movie about the real life case and even uses real names. The movie seems more like a mockery of the situation. His colleagues call him out, the governing body summons him.....why are we still dragging this issue without severe consequences being dished out? How do we dismantle rape culture in Nigeria?
Another shocker! How does a sitting president get assassinated in his own home? That is what recently happened in Haiti.
On this episode, we question parenting skills. We raise this question because it is hard to wrap our head around how a 21 year old lady stabbed her supposed sugar daddy multiple times. Secondly, we see Mbong and Jeta Amata's daughter crying for help on social media, asking us to help her find her mum. Lastly, why will a broke jobless lady date a broke jobless man and reproduce multiple children that they cant take care of? Where is the sense in that?
Basically in Nigeria, it is a big deal to call out an elder for going out of line. Is this culture holding us back as a nation or should we uphold this culture?