The patriarchy was built to outlive us. So I learned its rules, blindspots, loopholes, and lies so I could tear it apart from the inside out. If the system won’t burn down on its own, then we enter the building and light the match. 💋
"To learn the rules, you must play the game. To change the game, you must break the rules" - Anonymous
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The patriarchy was built to outlive us. So I learned its rules, blindspots, loopholes, and lies so I could tear it apart from the inside out. If the system won’t burn down on its own, then we enter the building and light the match. 💋
"To learn the rules, you must play the game. To change the game, you must break the rules" - Anonymous
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Niceness is a scam. Being "nice" describes someone who is polite and pleasant to be around, focusing on surface-level interactions and social harmony. It's a performance. It's how the patriarchy grooms us for exploitation and disrespect, because the nice girl is taught to that being liked is more important than being respected.
Being mean is the opposite of that -- it's prioritizing being respected more than being liked. (& I don't mean acting like Regina George.)
In this episode, we discuss:
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You're not a Pokemon or some kind of collectible, but the wrong type of people will see you as a commodity, something to collect.
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We've been bamboozled into thinking that the more we're present and the more we prove ourselves, the more people will respect us. This is a load of crap. The truth is that the more people see you, the less they notice you. They'll take you for granted and respect you less. In this episode, we'll discuss:
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Being a woman is a gift, it's the highest form of being. Everything exists because of a woman, and we should celebrate and love ourselves unconditionally.
Lately, there’s been a wave of online “divine femininity” content that looks empowering at first… but it’s really patriarchy dressed up as spirituality. It tells women that to be “in our feminine” we need to sit back, receive, and let men lead, provide, and decide.
In this episode, I discuss:
If you’ve ever scrolled past those videos about “being in your feminine” and felt something was off, this episode is for you.
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"People never do something just once" - Robert Greene
There's no such thing as an isolated incident, because people's actions are always part of a pattern of behaviour. However, the patriarchy made us believe the complete opposite, because accepting excuses keeps power where it is. The patriarchy is based on repetition: people repeat the same behaviours, institutions repeat the same patterns, cultures repeat the same stories.
The thing is, excuses are data, they reveal so much info!!! They're breadcrumbs people leave behind because they're not careful in covering their tracks...
In this episode, we'll discuss:
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People pleasing is rooted in superstitions like "If I give everything, then I'll finally be enough" and "If someone likes me, then I'll finally like myself." This way of thinking puts us in mental poverty, which keeps us trapped in survival mode. It's perfect for people who want to exploit our lack of boundaries, and it's harmful for us in every way.
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We're taught from a very young age that our social acceptance depends on being liked. However, the patriarchy assumes women will always want to be liked, so it relies on that desire to keep us compliant & constantly seeking social approval.
The thing is, most people don't even like themselves. So who cares if they don't like you. Besides, you're in a much better position to get what you want from the world when you don't give two hoots what others think.
In this episode, we get into:
Oh and enjoy the extremely unserious skit at the beginning of this episode.
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We tend to think that the alpha, macho men are dangerous because of their superiority complex (which is rooted in an inferiority complex). BUT what if I told you there's a category of men who are even more dangerous? They have a hidden agenda, a goal in mind, and they're clever enough to know how to push a woman's buttons. In this episode (whose topic you baddies voted on!), I get into why we need to be cautious of "woke" men (let's call them the deltas), especially romantically and professionally.
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Scarcity leads to competition which leads to dehumanization.
One of the gears that keeps the patriarchy turning is zero-sum thinking -- the belief that there's only a fixed amount of success, power, attention, or value to go around. So if someone else gets more, you must get less. This brainwashes us into believing in a scarcity mindset, which keeps us in the eternal rat race. Instead of seeing other women as allies, we perceive them as threats. Jealousy and envy oil the wheels of the patriarchy, and zero-sum thinking keeps those wheels turning on autopilot.
We'll discuss:
The opposite of competing isn't collaborating -- it's creating. As women, we already ARE creators. It's time to exit the rat race and get back in touch with the essence of our being.
✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.
Love, Neeki xo
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As little girls, many of us fantasize about falling in love and getting married. But boys don't do the same. Men don't romanticize falling in love, getting married, and being husbands in the way women do. It's not their life's goal to fall in love. They don't see marriage as an accomplishment. In this episode, we'll get into the truth behind "love."
I'll discuss what's really happening to our brains and hormones when we're "falling in love" (hint: it's a chemical reaction to push us to reproduce). Then we'll get into the social elements of falling in love, including the creation of marriage, and how love was weaponized as a tool to control women from the very start.
Btw here's the book The Female Brain by Dr. Louann Brizendine
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This one's crazy because we'll be discussing how to use an FBI-backed technique to get past the gatekeepers and the egos controlling the patriarchy. Because when we really boil it down, the patriarchy is just a bunch of insecure dudes who've institutionalized gatekeeping.
We'll discuss:
Btw here's Chase Hughes, the former military chief and expert on elicitation
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If you're a sharp, clever woman but you find yourself being taken advantage of, this law is for you. While grace and forgiveness can be good things, giving most people the benefit of the doubt is a naive thing to do, especially as a woman. Because who benefits? Not you.
On top of that, we're often told that our intuition isn't reliable and we should focus on the cold, hard facts...which is idiotic because a gut feeling is the OUTCOME of empirical INPUTS that our brain has gathered unconsciously. So yeah, it's hard to explain why we have a gut feeling. But that doesn't make it any less valid.
In this episode, we'll discuss:
Btw here's the article I mentioned on short-term thinking
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Welcome to part 2 of my two-part series on 🌹seduction🌹
If you've ever felt frustrated that people don't seem to listen to you and take you seriously, or if you struggle with hyper-independence, self-sabotage, and masculine tendencies -- this is for you babe. This episode is all about 🥀anti-seduction🥀 and how it might be interfering with your ability to navigate and hack the patriarchy.
We discuss:
Let's put our insecurities by the curb where they belong.
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WE HIT LAW 2️⃣0️⃣!!! To celebrate making it to this milestone, I’ve prepared a 2-part series for you on 🌹seduction🌹 If you're listening to this today, you're one of the OG baddies and I'm sosososo grateful for you ❤️
In this episode, I’m going to discuss how you can use the art of non-sexual seduction to grease people up (especially men), put them under your enchantment, and get what you want from them. Next week's episode will be about 🥀anti-seduction🥀
Because this is a special episode, we’re going to uno reverse the patriarchy onto the boys and dive into a patriarchy loophole that affects men. We’ll discuss:
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I'm back with Talia and we're discussing one of our fave topics: mOraLitY. In this chaotic convo we dive into:
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We've been socialized to hide half of who we are. To repress traits that would help our success, like assertiveness, ambition, and self-prioritization. To be nice, agreeable, non-confrontational girls. To be the version of the woman who keeps the patriarchy alive. I say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!
In this episode, we discuss:
I know this episode is longer than usual, and that's because we're going to go through 5 common traits/emotions that most women suppress, including their job titles, job descriptions, and how you can flip the script & make them serve you. It's time to put these hoes on your payroll!
Btw here's the lifetraps quiz
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I’m sure many of y’all know Abigail Porter aka @z00mie aka “The Girl With The List.” Abigail has built a following of over 1 million people with her content on destigmatizing the childfree lifestyle and educating women on what having kids is really like.
🍒 Follow Abigail on TikTok and Instagram, and check out her upcoming merch line here
PS remember to take your birth control!!
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The woman no one can label is the woman no one can control, because you can't control what you can't define.
In this episode, we discuss:
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