Failure isn’t the opposite of success — it’s the path to it.
In this episode of The 5 to 9 Job Podcast, we explore Denzel Washington’s powerful philosophy of falling forward. Behind every success story lies a trail of setbacks, rejections, and struggles. What separates winners from quitters is the courage to rise one more time than they fall.
You’ll discover:
Why every failed experiment is a step closer to success.
How risk-taking and rejection fuel growth.
The mindset shift that turns setbacks into stepping stones.
Why the ghosts of untapped potential are scarier than failure itself.
👉🏽 Don’t fear failure. Embrace it. Learn from it. Fall forward.
Fear isn’t just yours — it’s everyone’s.
In this episode of The 5 to 9 Job, I get raw and real about my own fears — from the worry of failing in business, to the fear of being a bad dad one day, to the quiet voice that whispers: “What if you’re not enough?”
But here’s the truth: fear is normal. It’s proof you care. It’s proof you’re trying. The real danger isn’t fear itself, but letting fear stop you from moving forward.
You’ll learn:
Where fear actually comes from (hint: uncertainty).
Why waiting for “certainty” will paralyze you.
3 practical tools to face fear: Fear Mapping, Tiny Bold Steps, and Future Gratitude.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, anxious, or like you’re holding yourself back — this conversation is for you.
👉🏽 Don’t wait for perfect conditions. Don’t wait until you “feel ready.”
Start scared. Start imperfect. Just start.
What happens when the world’s most visionary founder gets fired from his own company?
In this episode, we revisit Steve Jobs’ legendary 2005 Stanford commencement speech — the story of love and loss. Jobs built Apple from his parents’ garage into a $2 billion giant, only to be forced out at 30. Broken and humiliated, he thought about leaving Silicon Valley forever.
But that painful ending became a new beginning. He launched Pixar and NeXT, reshaped modern technology, and even returned to Apple stronger than ever. Along the way, he discovered love, purpose, and the power of resilience.
This story is a reminder that sometimes the lowest points in our lives become the foundation for our greatest breakthroughs.
👉 If you’ve ever faced failure, rejection, or heartbreak — this one’s for you.
This bonus episode is a mix of updates, reflections, and big ideas that I’ve been wrestling with lately. From why choosing the hard road now creates an easier life later, to how to prepare for life’s unpredictable seasons, to saying “no” when a job offer threatened my integrity—even though I needed the money.
I also talk about the cost of chasing visibility (“If you want the spotlight, get ready for the shade”) and share a radical idea I’ve been developing: a Life Risk Fund—a safety net for dreamers to take risks and build without being crushed by survival needs.
It’s an honest, unfiltered diary-style episode that brings together everything The 5 to 9 Job stands for: growth, reflection, and building without a blueprint.
💪 Why doing the hard things now leads to an easier, more meaningful life later
🌱 How to organize yourself to outlast life’s seasons—the good, the bad, and the in-between
🚫 Why I turned down a job opportunity despite needing the money—and what it taught me about integrity and boundaries
🔦 The reality of visibility: if you want the spotlight, you have to be ready for the shade
💡 A bold idea: the Life Risk Fund—a financial runway for creators and entrepreneurs to build without fear of survival
Creator of the Week: Another Day of Growth with Moses Mubiru (TikTok, YouTube, LinkedIn)
Original reflections from my LinkedIn post on the Life Risk Fund
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What You’ll LearnResources & MentionsCall to Action
In this episode, we dive into Denzel Washington’s unforgettable message on the power of failure, discipline, and purpose. Too often, fear keeps us from chasing what we’re passionate about. But failure isn’t the end—it’s the process. Denzel reminds us that dreams without goals are just dreams, busyness is not progress, and real success comes from discipline, consistency, and the courage to fail big.
I’ll break down these principles, then you’ll hear the powerful reminder from Denzel himself.
🌱 Why failure is not your enemy but your teacher
🎯 How to turn dreams into reality with structured goals
⚡ The difference between movement and real progress
🔑 Why discipline and consistency separate achievers from dreamers
🚀 How to reframe failure as part of your success formula
Original Speech by Denzel Washington (all rights to the original creators)
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What You’ll LearnResources & CreditsCall to Action
This episode is different—it’s not about business, real estate, or even motivation. It’s about why this podcast exists in the first place.
After more than 100 episodes, I felt the need to step back, reflect, and re-center on the vision that started The 5 to 9 Job: creating a space for people who are trying, failing, rebuilding, and pushing through—one small discipline at a time.
I’ll share why I launched the podcast, what’s changed since Episode 1, the struggles that almost made me quit, and the intentional decisions I’ve made to protect quality and stay true to myself.
If you’ve ever wondered what this podcast is really about—or if you’re building something yourself and sometimes lose sight of your “why”—this is the episode for you.
What You’ll Learn
The story behind The 5 to 9 Job and why the name matters.
How chasing growth almost made me lose sight of the vision.
The decision to scale back for more quality and authenticity.
Why every episode you hear now is fully written by me.
What this podcast will always stand for: people who are building, with no blueprint—but with fire in their gut.
Resources & Acknowledgments
Thank you to all listeners, old and new—you’re the reason this show keeps going.
Call to Action
If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who’s building their own “5 to 9 job.” Together, we’re figuring it out—one episode at a time.
“You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking back.”
In this episode of The 5 to 9 Job, we break down one of the most powerful stories from Steve Jobs’ 2005 Stanford commencement speech—the calligraphy class that changed everything. From dropping out of college to shaping the future of personal computing, Jobs shows us that trusting our curiosity and following the unknown can lead to life-changing outcomes.
If you’ve ever felt lost, uncertain about the future, or overwhelmed by choices—you’ll want to hear this.
What You’ll Learn
How Steve Jobs’ detour at Reed College shaped Apple’s design legacy.
Why following your curiosity—even when it doesn’t “make sense”—matters.
The importance of trusting your gut when the path ahead feels uncertain.
How today’s small decisions may shape tomorrow’s breakthroughs.
Resources & Acknowledgments
Steve Jobs, Stanford Commencement Speech (2005)
Credit: Steve Jobs & Stanford University
Call to Action
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We all have dreams, goals, and ambitions. But sometimes the biggest thing standing in our way…is ourselves.
In this episode of The 5 to 9 Job, I’m diving deep into the psychology of self-sabotage, fear of success, fear of being judged, and why so many of us quietly hold ourselves back without even realizing it. Drawing from research, personal reflection, and real-world examples, I’ll walk you through the hidden forces that stop us—and give you 5 practical strategies to finally break through.
If you’ve ever caught yourself procrastinating, making excuses, or shrinking from opportunities you know you want—this conversation is for you.
Key Takeaways
Fear of success is real—and it often hides under comfort.
The fear of being judged stops more people than failure ever could.
Self-sabotage is your brain clinging to the “old you” for safety.
Success changes your identity, and that’s why it feels scary.
5 tools to beat self-sabotage:
Define your goals clearly.
Catch your excuses in real time.
Normalize fear—it means you’re on the right track.
Build courage like a habit, not a feeling.
Use tiny wins to create momentum.
Referenced Research & Thinkers
Dr. Gay Hendricks, The Big Leap (fear of success & upper limits)
Psychological Science (fear of judgment & performance anxiety)
Insights from Elon Musk, Dr. Jordan B. Peterson, Steven Bartlett
🎧 Tune in and let’s get out of our own way—together.
In this episode, I lean into Steve Harvey’s perspective on hardship and success. The road to greatness is never straight—it comes with detours, delays, and struggles that often feel unfair. But here’s the truth: hardship isn’t punishment, it’s preparation. Every closed door, every setback, and every season of struggle is shaping you into the person you’re meant to become.
If you’re in a tough season right now, this conversation will remind you why you need to keep pushing, keep trusting, and keep believing that your breakthrough is on the other side.
Key Takeaways
Hardship is not punishment—it’s preparation.
Life gives you the challenges you need to grow.
Stop comparing your journey to others—your process is unique.
Trust the process, even when it feels unfair or confusing.
The struggles you face today are building your future strength.
Referenced Source
This episode is inspired by Steve Harvey’s wisdom on embracing life’s challenges as necessary preparation for success.
🎧 Tune in now, and let’s find purpose in your process.
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👉 “The Season You’re In: Why It Feels Heavy (and How to Get Through It)”
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Some days you’re on fire. Other days? You can barely show up.
That’s not failure—it’s a season.
In this unfiltered therapy-style episode of The 5 to 9 Job, I share openly about my own slump, the doubts, the ridicule, and the feeling of being stuck. But I also unpack what I learned—that seasons don’t last forever, and you’re not broken just because you’re tired.
Here’s what we’ll cover:
✅ Why success stories (like David Goggins’) aren’t as simple as they look
✅ How to recognize when you’re just tired—not lost
✅ Why tough seasons feel permanent (and why they’re not)
✅ 4 practical ways to navigate burnout and rediscover momentum
You don’t need to bounce back in a day. You don’t need to have all the answers.
You just need to remember: it’s a season. And seasons change.
🎧 Press play for a dose of honesty, perspective, and space to breathe.
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Quitting sounds tempting. Walking out, chasing freedom, starting fresh.
But here’s the truth most highlight reels don’t show: it’s not that simple.
Before you hand in your resignation, you need to ask yourself some hard questions. Are you running toward something better—or just running away from what’s hard?
In this episode of The 5 to 9 Job, I break down:
✅ The real reasons you feel like quitting (burnout, boredom, comparison)
✅ How to know if you’ve truly outgrown your job—or just hit a rough patch
✅ The 3 questions to ask before making the leap
✅ What actually happens after you quit (the freedom and the fear)
Don’t quit because it’s hard. Quit because you’ve done the work to move forward intentionally.
🎧 Hit play now and let’s unpack one of the biggest decisions of your life.
This episode is part rant, part reflection, and part truth-telling. I open up about why I record these bonus episodes, how creating content has reshaped the way I see myself, and what I’ve been learning about work, leadership, and growth. From Steve Jobs on self-managed people, to the messy realities of the job market, to the debate on whether you really need a master’s degree, I share the lessons and questions I’m wrestling with in real time. And yes—we even get into the controversial but honest conversation: is it wrong to look at a beautiful woman?
This one is unfiltered, uncomfortable at times, but all about growth and perspective.
This episode is a mix of raw truths and practical reflections on business, mindset, and growth. I cover why the market doesn’t care about your effort, how to reframe problems, what the $3M question reveals about your readiness for success, and why you can’t rush the process. From outsourcing weaknesses to passing the mirror test, these are lessons I’m learning and sharing in real time. If you’ve ever felt like hard work isn’t enough or that you’re moving slower than you’d like, this one’s for you.
Deadlines, office politics, capped earnings, and toxic environments—nobody tells you these things when you’re signing that employment contract. But here’s the twist: the same job that drains you today might be the exact one you prayed for yesterday.
In this episode of The 5 to 9 Job, Raymond keeps it real with a professional rant about the hidden truths of 9 to 5 life—and how to deal with them without losing your mind.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
🔥 The #1 hardest part of any job (hint: it’s not the work).
💸 Why your earning is capped—and what to do about it.
⚠️ The false illusion of safety every 9 to 5 sells you.
✅ Two clear paths: escape and build something of your own—or thrive and climb inside the system.
This isn’t about quitting your job in frustration. It’s about balancing gratitude with growth—seeing your job as either a launchpad or a lockdown, and making intentional moves forward.
If you’re feeling stuck, stressed, or questioning your 9 to 5, this episode is for you.
Have you ever noticed how a single experience can change your entire perspective?
That’s the power of exposure.
In this episode of The 5 to 9 Job, we dive deep into how exposure—what you see, who you meet, what you read, and the environments you step into—can completely reshape your mindset, your pace, and your opportunities.
Here’s what we’ll explore together:
🌍 Why exposure is the invisible force pulling the strings of your success.
🔑 How key moments of exposure shifted my own life and ambitions.
⚡ Practical ways to increase exposure that pushes you forward, not backwards.
📱 How to reshape your “after-hours exposure” (social media, news, content) into fuel for growth.
Because once you’ve been exposed to a higher possibility—you can’t go back. And you shouldn’t.
If you’re ready to break out of your comfort zone and start playing at a different level, this episode is for you.
“Hey everyone, I just want to take a moment to say thank you. After an incredible journey of sharing these stories, lessons, and conversations, I’m taking a break from The 5 to 9 Job Podcast.
This isn’t goodbye forever—it’s just a pause. I’m grateful for every listen, download, and message from you along the way. Your support has meant the world, and I can’t wait to come back with fresh episodes in the future.
Until then, keep growing, keep striving, and remember: your journey is just as important as your destination. Thank you for listening.”
Where’s the safest place to store your wealth? A bank? Real estate? Stocks?
No.
The safest place to store your wealth is in you—your skills, your reputation, your character, and the value you bring to others. Because no matter what happens, if you’ve built yourself, you can rebuild everything else.
In this episode of The 5 to 9 Job, I break down how life is less about guarantees and more about bets, odds, and strategies. We’ll explore:
🎲 Why every decision is a bet (and how to play the odds).
🏆 The three biggest life choices (and why they matter most).
⚡ The power of failing fast vs. failing recklessly.
🧠 Common mental traps (like sunk cost fallacy & gambler’s bias) that keep people stuck.
🔑 Why betting on yourself always pays the highest return.
This isn’t theory—it’s a mindset shift that changes how you see risk, failure, and success.
👉 Tune in, and let’s talk about how to own the table, not just play at it.
We’ve all been there: starting something with fire—then waking up one day with no energy, no motivation, and the haunting thought: “Why did I even start this?”
In this episode of The 5 to 9 Job, I get honest about my own season of burnout, procrastination, and self-doubt. But instead of quitting, I discovered lessons that changed how I see progress, success, and momentum.
Here’s what we’ll explore together:
⚡ The one small action that pulled me out of a rut.
🎯 Why success doesn’t always look like the picture in your head (and how to see the bigger gallery of life).
🧩 How to avoid losing what you already have while chasing what you don’t.
🔑 Simple principles to reset—exercise, rest, responsibility, and contribution.
❤️ A reminder that you already have what it takes—sometimes you just need someone cheering you on.
This isn’t a highlight reel. It’s real, messy, lived—and I hope it meets you where you are.
👉 Listen in. Reflect. Reset. And remember: failure isn’t the end. It’s the game.
Quitting your job sounds freeing—but is it the right move for you?
In this episode of The 5 to 9 Job, we cut through the highlight reels on social media and get real about one of the biggest decisions you’ll ever make: leaving your 9–5.
Here’s what we’ll unpack together:
💭 Why you feel like quitting → burnout, comparison, or genuine misalignment?
❓ The hard questions you need to ask before handing in that resignation letter.
💼 How to quit with intention—saving money, building a plan, and leaving gracefully.
🎢 What comes after—the emotional rollercoaster, the grind, and the growth.
Quitting isn’t about escape. It’s about evolution. And if you’re going to take that leap, you need to do it with clarity and strategy.
👉 Listen in before you make your move. This episode could save you months—or even years—of regret.
This week was messy. Procrastination. Late nights. Almost missed uploading this podcast. But through all that chaos—I stumbled on a truth I think you’ll relate to:
👉 Where you are right now doesn’t matter. Your trajectory does.
In this episode, I share raw reflections from my week plus lessons I’m learning about direction, growth, and why most of us stay stuck longer than we need to.
Here’s what we get into:
✅ The trap of comparing your position instead of fixing your trajectory
✅ Campus freedom vs. the urgency of the real world (and why I’m jealous of students)
✅ How the 80/20 rule can reshape your business or side hustle
✅ Why I still hate exercise but force myself to do it anyway
✅ The power of building your own “clan” of people who sharpen you
This one is real, unfiltered, and full of things I’m actually wrestling with right now.
🎯 Question for you: Are you focused on where you are—or where you’re headed?
Hit play. Let’s figure this out together.