Sis, let’s be honest — there is no reward for being the “Strong Black Woman.” We’re expected to grind, hold everyone down, and never break… but at what cost?

In this episode of That’s What She Said, we’re talking to you, girl — the one chasing the bag, building the dream, but also craving softness, ease, and love that lets you exhale. Can African women really have it all? Can we be both ambitious and spoiled?