Send us a text Hi my dears! In this episode, I was inspired by Kanye and some tik toks to share my betrayal list! Hope you enjoy! let me know what's on yours! Support the show

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Send us a text HIIII MY DEARSSSS Welcome to season 3!! The first episode is on CTRL and I hope you enjoy! see you next week :) Links: Video on the making of the weekend --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eM9Rrwnco8Q https://www.redbull.com/us-en/a-night-with-sza-at-red-bull-studios-los-angeles http://www.embodiedmag.com/sza-ctrl MY college Article: https://goldengatexpress.org/80007/ae/im-going-to-let-yall-finish-but-sza-had-the-best-album-of-the-year/ Support the show

Send us a text hey....how y'all doin?? It's been a minute!!!! I wanted to give you an update on my life, the podcast and what's next!!! I am starting season 3 real soon and can't wait to share with you all what's to come! Hope you enjoy!! In the meantime, get the book of the season "Can't get enough by Kennedy Ryan" AMAZON LINK TO BOOK: https://www.amazon.com/Cant-Get-Enough-Kennedy-Ryan/dp/1538706857 Tell me what you think of the new intro and jingle (which was made by AY GABE!) Foll...

Send us a text Hi my dears, it's the last episode for the second season!!!! in this episode, I reflect on the season by asking and answering some questions! it's been fun exploring more of myself and the world around me but time to regroup ...... and see what's next!! I'll see you soon! THANK YOU!!!! FOLLOW ME: socials:@THATSSOTHINKATIVE <333 IG: THATSSOTHINKATIVE TIKTOK: THATSSOTHINKATIVE YOUTUBE: THATSSOTHINKATIVE Support the show

Send us a text Hi my dears!! In this episode, I talk about how the iconic song, “Cranes in the sky” and how it changed my whole BRAIN CHEMISTRY!! This song opened me up, spit me out but then wrapped me up in a blanket so tight! Thank you Solange for creating this beautiful song. ALSO, THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR SHARING YOUR VOICES! Solange Interview: https://www.interviewmagazine.com/music/solange Link to my heavy days playlist: A playlist to cry to but also YOU WILL FEEL BETTER AF...

Send us a text Hi, Hope you enjoy! links to things mentioned: BELL HOOKS ALL ABOUT LOVE SUMMARY https://theblackbookblogg.com/all-about-love-bell-hooks/ FALL IN LOVE PLAYLIST: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/lets-fall-in-love-babe/pl.u-r2yBYzxCPDLPvq6 FOLLOW ME: socials:@THATSSOTHINKATIVE <333 IG: THATSSOTHINKATIVE TIKTOK: THATSSOTHINKATIVE YOUTUBE: THATSSOTHINKATIVE Support the show

Send us a text Hi My dears!! In this episode, I chat about my favorite basketball team during my favorite era!! It's a bit traumatizing to relive some of it but I went through the 4 most important seasons during that era. I also included a little story time of how and when I became a clipper fan! At the end of the episode, I share y'all responses to the question of the week and again thank you to all who submitted! Let's all hope and pray that the clippers win a championship in my lif...

Send us a text STILL UP? THIS IS A SPECIAL LATE NIGHT EPISODE TO WINE DOWN TO OR SPARK A JOINT TO <3 I chat about greek mythology, TikTok ban and read 2 pages from a book i’m currently reading <3 Book I read: Nita Prose - The Maid https://www.amazon.com/Maid-Novel-Nita-Prose/dp/0593356152 Greek Mythology VIDEO I MENTIONED: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIPSv5hw4ZA&list=LL&index=5 Link to help those affected by LA FIRES: MASTER LIST OF FAMILIES IN NEED: https://docs.go...

Send us a text Hi my dears!! In this episode, I chat about all things astrology!!! I share some aspects of my birth chart, give some brief astrology descriptions and call a few friends for a little game! As someone who is always trying to understand myself and the world around me, astrology has helped me so much with that! -da baddest Link to Resources: MASTER LIST OF FAMILIES IN NEED: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1pK5omSsD4KGhjEHCVgcVw-rd4FZP9haoijEx1mSAm5c/htmlview?fbclid=PAZXh0...

Send us a text Hi my dears!! Happy New Year!! Hope you are well! In this episode, I chat about my main New Year resolution themes, how I plan to complete them, and I share a voice memo from last year that I recorded right before I released this podcast. Hope you enjoy! Helpful podcast FOR 2025: @SLAYGIRLSLAY Helpful Book for 2025: The mountain is you FOLLOW ME: socials:@THATSSOTHINKATIVE <333 IG: THATSSOTHINKATIVE TIKTOK: THATSSOTHINKATIVE YOUTUBE: THATSSOTHINKATIVE THANK YOU FOR LI...

Send us a text Hi my dears!!! In this episode, I chat with my bestie, Roxy, about our takes on the Harry Potter series!! I finished all the books this year and wanted to GO IN ON MY THOUGHTS with my dear friend who has been obsessed with the series since she was in middle school!!! Thank you so much Roxy for coming on and it was so fun to geek out with you on all things Harry!! Hope you guys enjoy the episode <3 FOLLOW ME: socials:@THATSSOTHINKATIVE <333 IG: THATSSOTHINKATIVE TIKTOK: T...

Send us a text Hi my dears!!! In this episode, I do a deep dive on the ICONIC, BEAUTIFUL and today’s birthday girl, TRINA aka da baddest!!!! Her confident flow and boss bitch mentality instilled a confidence in me that is still unshakeable to this day. Her music makes me feel sexy but also POWERFUL! Learning more about her life and the similarities we share was insane! Hope you guys enjoy the episode <3 Book mentioned: Da Baddest by Trina Sesali Bowen - contributor NARRATED ...

Send us a text Hi my dears, First, my apologies for this inconvenience of a man's voice, opinions and thoughts. In this episode, I chat with my friend Manny and dive into the mind of man so you don't have to! We talk about empathy, love, relationships, sex, exes and amongst other things! It was so fun chatting with Manny and I hope you guys enjoy it as much as I did! FOLLOW ME: socials:@THATSSOTHINKATIVE <333 IG: THATSSOTHINKATIVE TIKTOK: THATSSOTHINKATIVE YOUTUBE: THATSSOTHINKATIVE ...

Send us a text Hi my dears, This week I asked y'all why do you think a lot of men seem to lack true empathy for others???!! if you want to be on an episode, check out my instagram @thatssothinkative on all the deets! There is 4 ways you can submit and there is a new question almost every week!!! Thank you so much to the beautiful people who submitted their voices for this episode, it truly means the world to me so THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! Support the show

Send us a text Hi MY DEARS, Hope all is well! Voting for a black woman for president was a moment of hope that quickly turned into a whirlwind of emotions with the unexpected election results. Join me on this emotional journey as I navigate the aftermath of political upheaval, confronting the harsh realities of those around me who supported an opposing candidate. This episode of That's so Thinkative offers a deeply personal reflection on resilience, particularly the resilience of black women...

Send us a text Hi my dears, ......It is Election Day and ya girl is simply..... PRAYING for the BEST!!! This is not a super political podcast nor will it ever be but I wanted to take this time to do an episode listing a few random and UNUSUAL facts about a few former presidents. I talk about who I voted for and we also hear from my alter ego Nelly Nel! I pray that this day is a step forward and wishing us all A HOPEFUL AND HAPPY DAY!!! Sending you all my love!! FOLLOW ME:...

Send us a text Hi my dears!!! In this episode, I talk with one of my favorite people ever, Ay Gabe! I met Gabe back in college when we were both journalism majors and realized we share the same birthdayyy!! We've been friends ever since! <3 We talk about his latest project, “Objects in the mirror,” his musical influences and what he wants to do next. Hope you guys enjoy this episode as much as I enjoyed catching up with him! FOLLOW ME: socials:@THATSSOTHINKATIVE <333 IG: THATSSOTHINKAT...

Send us a text Hi!<3 In this episode, I talk about my journey with myself! I reflect on my negative beliefs and learning to accept all versions of me! THIS IS MY FAVORITE EPISODE I THINK I EVER DONE?? No lie.... as I'm typing this I am listening to it with my feet in the air <3 What a gift it is to rebuild yourself. What a gift it is to exist. I hope you enjoy this episode and wishing you a safe journey back to you, MY DEAR. -da baddest Shout out Asia @https.asiaj for your submission ...

Send us a text Hi, my dears!! Hope all is well! In this episode, I do my FIRST DEEP DIVE OF THE SEASON and talk about Ms. Eartha Kitt!! Learning about her and her life felt so inspirational and I was in awe of the woman she became after her rough upbringing. She was kind, curious, mighty, RESILIENT, and ICONIC!! I read the book "Eartha and Kitt" by Kitt Shapiro, Eartha's only child. I shared the stories I read about in the book and how their relationship reminded me of my own relationship ...