In this episode of That Punjabi Couple podcast, Tania and Manpreet dive into the popular festivals trending this time of year—from Karva Chauth to Diwali—and how they relate to Sikh culture and identity.
We discuss:
- Why Karva Chauth doesn't align with Sikh values (and why fasting is against Sikhi)
- The real history behind Diwali vs. Bandi Chhor Divas
- How social media influences festival celebrations today
- Why knowing the "why" behind traditions matters
- Celebrating other cultures while staying true to your own values
This conversation isn't about judging others—it's about understanding our own history, questioning meaningless rituals, and raising our kids with awareness about what we celebrate and why.
Whether you're Sikh, Hindu, or just curious about South Asian festivals, this episode encourages thoughtful reflection on tradition, culture, and the stories we pass down.
Real conversations about culture, identity, and modern Punjabi life.
Welcome back to That Punjabi Couple! After a brief hiatus, we're diving into an important conversation about success in Punjabi culture and what it truly means in today's world.
In this episode, Manpreet Singh and Tania Kaur discuss how the definition of success has evolved from the immigrant generation to today.
We explore:
The Traditional View: How money and material success dominated our parents' immigrant experience
💰 Money vs. Fulfillment: Why financial freedom matters, but it's not everything
⏰ Time Freedom: The often-overlooked aspect of true success
💪 The Hustle Mentality: When it helps and when it holds us back
🎯 Finding Your Why: How to discover what really drives you
📱 Side Hustles & Social Media: Using your free time to pursue your passions
👨👩👧👦 Generational Differences: What we're teaching our kids about success
🧠 Self-Reflection: Why inner work is just as important as outer achievements
We're sending love and support to everyone affected by the recent floods in Punjab (both India and Pakistan). Our hearts go out to all the families, and we encourage everyone to contribute and support relief efforts however they can.
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Join Tania and Manpreet on That Punjabi Couple podcast as we explore the evolution of Punjabi movies - from classic gems to modern blockbusters!
Remembering to Jaswinder Bhalla - Remembering the legendary comedian who passed away at 65
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Do you agree with our takes? Drop your favorite Punjabi movie in the comments below!
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Join Manpreet Singh and Tania Kaur from "That Punjabi Couple" as they dive deep into the rich world of Punjabi music! In this episode, we explore our musical journey from childhood favorites to today's chart-toppers.
What We Cover:
Old School Legends: Our love for classics like Gurdas Maan, Jazzy B, Kuldeep Manak, and the unforgettable Rahat Fateh Ali Khan
Modern Icons: Breaking down Diljit Dosanjh's global success, his authentic representation of Sikh identity, and his journey from local hero to international superstar
Lyrical Masters: Appreciating artists like Karan Aujla and his songwriting genius (including his work on Diljit's "GOAT")
Female Pioneers: Celebrating Miss Pooja's groundbreaking impact and discussing today's rising female artists
Cultural Impact: How Punjabi music influences Bollywood and dominates Indian entertainment
Key Artists Discussed:
Diljit Dosanjh
Gurdas Maan
Karan Aujla
Jazzy B
Miss Pooja
Satinder Sartaaj
Sidhu Moose Wala
Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan
And many more!
What's your favorite Punjabi song right now?
After 13 years together, Tania and Manpreet Jassal share their honest insights on maintaining excitement, connection, and love in their marriage. From working together at home to raising two young kids (5 and 3 years old), they've learned what really works to keep their relationship thriving.
What We Cover:
Quality Time - How this podcast became our weekly date night
The Power of Humor - Why laughing together is non-negotiable
Physical Fitness - How working out together changed our attraction
Food as Love Language - The underrated intimacy of eating together
Physical Connection - Keeping romance alive (yes, we went there!)
Communication - Breaking Punjabi household patterns of silence
Prioritizing Each Other - Why your spouse should come before your kids
Fighting Fair - How to apologize and move forward quickly
Key Takeaways:
Our Background:
Join Manpreet and Tania Singh from "That Punjabi Couple" as they dive deep into the world of Punjabi stereotypes - both positive and negative. This honest, unfiltered conversation explores what's true, what's not, and what needs to change in our community.POSITIVE STEREOTYPES (& Are They True?):
NEGATIVE STEREOTYPES (The Hard Truths):
INTERNAL COMMUNITY ISSUES:
🔥 Key Moments:
Whether you're Punjabi, South Asian, or just curious about cultural dynamics, this conversation offers insights into how stereotypes shape communities from within and without.
Join Tania and Manpreet Singh as they dive deep into the beautiful traditions and modern realities of Sikh Punjabi weddings!
What We Cover:
Pre-Wedding Traditions: Understanding the Roka ceremony and its significance
The Sacred Anand Karaj: Why couples should study the Laavan before their wedding day
Wedding Ceremony Etiquette: Proper conduct according to the Rehat Maryada
Personal Wedding Stories: Our own wedding experience and lessons learned
Modern Wedding Scene: Today's grand celebrations vs. traditional values
Interfaith Marriages: Navigating religious considerations in Sikh weddings
Family Traditions: The importance of involving women in ceremony roles
Connect With Us!
- Like this video if it helped you understand Sikh wedding traditions
- Subscribe for more cultural discussions
- Share your wedding experiences in the comments
In this episode, Manpreet Singh and Tania Kaur dive deep into one of the most misunderstood topics in our community - the crucial differences between Sikh culture and Punjabi culture.
Breaking Down Misconceptions
- Why these two cultures are often confused but are fundamentally different
The Non-Conformist Spirit
- How Sikh culture encourages challenging the status quo vs. Punjabi culture's emphasis on community approval
Gender Equality Issues
- Examining male dominance in Gurdwaras and how it contradicts Sikh principles
Food & Spirituality
- The truth about Sikh dietary practices and why vegetarianism isn't a requirement
Political Engagement
- Why being politically active is a Sikh duty, not something to avoid
Raising Fearless Kids
- How to instill authentic Sikh values in the next generation
Key Takeaways:
✅ Sikh culture is universal and open to all, regardless of background
✅ True Sikhi encourages questioning authority and standing up for what's right
✅ Cultural practices have often overshadowed authentic Sikh principles
✅ Understanding the difference helps preserve the revolutionary spirit of Sikhi
Hot Takes Alert! 🔥We discuss some controversial topics including:
- Women's roles in Gurdwara leadership
- The alcohol vs. vegetarianism confusion
- How Punjabi ego has influenced Sikh institutions
- Why being "nice" isn't always the Sikh way
Join the Conversation:
Do you agree with our perspective? Have you noticed these cultural conflicts in your own community?
Join us for an honest conversation about parenting two young girls (ages 3 and 6) in a Punjabi household, navigating the beautiful chaos of multicultural family life!
What We Cover:
Daily Life & Discipline - Real talk about handling conflicts without punishment-based methods
Screen Time Reality - Why one-size-fits-all limits don't work for every family
Character Over Grades - Prioritizing social skills, kindness, and emotional intelligence
Cultural Identity - Blending American and Sikh traditions while preserving heritage
Life Skills - Teaching money values, charity beyond Gurudwara, and age-appropriate responsibilities
Our Philosophy: We believe in raising good humans first - respectful, emotionally intelligent kids who embrace both their American and Sikh identities. We focus on communication skills over perfect grades, work with natural inclinations, and trust the parenting process.
Whether you're navigating multicultural parenting, academic pressures, or looking for authentic conversations about raising confident, kind kids - this offers real insights from parents in the trenches!
Join us on this vulnerable and heartwarming episode as we take a trip down memory lane, sharing the romantic Punjabi poetry and Rumi lines we exchanged while dating! From Facebook comments to text messages, we're revealing the poetic courtship that started our love story.What You'll Hear:
"Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along." - RumiWhether you're looking for romantic inspiration, want to learn about Punjabi culture, or just love hearing real love stories, this episode is for you! We get vulnerable, share some laughs, and hopefully inspire others to embrace the beauty of poetic expression in relationships.
In this episode, we dive deep into the often challenging topic of finances in relationships, especially within the Punjabi community. We share our personal journey of managing money as a couple, discussing everything from combining accounts to setting financial goals together.
- The importance of financial conversations before marriage
- Why we believe in combining finances as a married couple
- Cultural perspectives on money management in Punjabi families
- The balance between saving, investing, and enjoying your money
- The declining culture of charitable giving in the community
- Different approaches to defining success beyond material possessions
Share your thoughts in the comments: How do you and your partner handle finances? What money conversations do you wish you'd had before getting married?
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In this episode, we finally share the complete story of how we met, fell in love, and navigated the challenges of bringing our traditional Punjabi families together. From our first awkward introduction at a birthday party (that neither of us wanted to attend!) to Facebook friend requests, late-night messages, and the memorable "enamored" text that started it all.
Listen as we discuss:
- The unexpected party where we first met but barely spoke
- How our Facebook conversations turned into something deeper
- The cultural challenges we faced with traditional Punjabi families
- That one moment when we briefly broke up (and got back together a day later!)
- Meeting each other's families for the first time (awkward questions included!)
- How our shared Sikh values helped bring our families together
This isn't your typical "love at first sight" story - it's a real journey about finding courage, respecting family traditions, and recognizing when something is meant to be. A reminder that true love doesn't always follow the Hollywood script, but sometimes creates an even more beautiful story.
In this heartfelt conversation, we open up about our 13-year marriage journey, sharing how we met at a birthday party in 2010, our year of getting to know each other before our "Roka" (pre-engagement), and the beautiful reality of building a life together.
We discuss:
- The expectations we had going into marriage and how reality compared
- Why the "50/50" marriage advice is flawed (and what works instead)
- The dangers of keeping score in relationships
- How we've adapted to each other's different personalities
- Our secret to having minimal arguments in 13 years
- Why public disagreements damage relationships
Whether you're newly married, considering marriage, or have been together for decades, this conversation offers honest insights about maintaining that "honeymoon phase" long after the actual honeymoon ends.
Join us as we dive into the world of Punjabi culture with our latest podcast episode!
We answer questions from ChatGPT about what makes us Punjabi, our biggest cultural clashes, and how we balance tradition with modern life.
From our favorite Punjabi songs and artists to our go-to comfort foods and how we handle nosy aunties, we dish out the laughs and the real talk. Whether you're marrying into a Punjabi family or just curious about the culture, we've got you covered.Tune in for laughs, cultural insights, and a celebration of all things Punjabi! Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share!
We discuss the challenges facing Gurdwaras today and why younger generations are increasingly disconnected from these important Sikh community centers. We share nostalgic memories of attending Gurdwaras as children, from running through the halls to participating in family events, and explore how the experience changes as we grow older.
The discussion tackles controversial topics including:
We also examine the tension between maintaining traditions and creating spaces that truly engage today's Sikh community. Join us for this honest conversation about preserving the spirit of Sikhi while adapting to contemporary needs.
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Join hosts Tania and Manpreet Singh as they share their candid experiences and insights about living with in-laws after getting married. In this heartfelt conversation, they discuss the challenges and rewards of joint family living from both the bride and groom's perspectives.They explore the delicate balance of adjusting to new family dynamics, communication challenges in Punjabi households, and navigating different expectations around household routines, personal space, and family traditions. From awkward movie-watching moments to kitchen dynamics and decorating dilemmas, they share how they managed these adjustments with patience and understanding.#punjabi
Join us as we reminisce about our experiences growing up as children of Punjabi immigrants in America. From our families' journeys arriving in the 1980s to building communities in Richmond Hill, Queens, we share the unique perspective of being raised between two cultures.
In this episode, we discuss:
Whether you're from an immigrant family or interested in multicultural perspectives, this episode offers authentic insights into the Punjabi-American experience.
Join Manpreet and Tania as they dive into the complexities of the modern Panjabi dating scene!
In this candid and hilarious podcast, we break down:
- The challenges of dating within Panjabi culture
- Why having unrealistic expectations is killing your love life
- The impact of dating apps on real-life connections
- Cultural pressures around marriage and relationships
- Tips for finding genuine love (hint: it's not about the perfect biodata!)
Controversial takes, real experiences, and laugh-out-loud moments guaranteed!
Relationship advice from two people who've been there, done that, and found love.
Drop a comment below: What's YOUR experience with dating in the Panjabi community? We want to hear your stories!
Join us for a candid conversation about the cultural obsession with having a son (Munda) in Panjabi families. We explore the double standards that come with it, from the pressure to have a boy to the differing expectations for boys and girls growing up. Manpreet and Tania share their personal experiences and observations, discussing how these cultural norms affect relationships, marriage, and family dynamics.
Join us for our first podcast episode as a Panjabi couple living in America! We discuss our experiences growing up in different cultural backgrounds within the Panjabi community, exploring topics like:
Tune in for an honest and insightful conversation about our shared heritage and personal experiences. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes!