We talk about love bombing like it’s something that just happens to us. But what if it’s not that simple? In this episode, I’m unpacking why I believe “love bombing” isn’t as simple as one manipulator and one victim, it’s often two people caught in the same obsessive cycle. One giving, one receiving, both chasing the high of validation. I share my own story of spiralling thoughts, the need for validation, and why I think modern dating culture feeds these addictive patterns, ...
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We talk about love bombing like it’s something that just happens to us. But what if it’s not that simple? In this episode, I’m unpacking why I believe “love bombing” isn’t as simple as one manipulator and one victim, it’s often two people caught in the same obsessive cycle. One giving, one receiving, both chasing the high of validation. I share my own story of spiralling thoughts, the need for validation, and why I think modern dating culture feeds these addictive patterns, ...
#15 - If I hurt me first, you can’t: A conversation on Emotional Self-Sabotage
That Makeup Gal
50 minutes
5 months ago
#15 - If I hurt me first, you can’t: A conversation on Emotional Self-Sabotage
Ever feel like you’re dating with one hand on your heart and the other on the eject button? Same. In this episode, I’m talking sabotage, specifically, how I’ve masterfully self-destructed potential relationships before they had a chance to disappoint me. From wearing the “unbothered cool girl ” mask while emotionally dissociating, to mistaking my anxious attachment for “gut instinct,” I’m unpacking how I got in my own damn way. Plus, we’re chatting about what emotional availability actu...
That Makeup Gal
We talk about love bombing like it’s something that just happens to us. But what if it’s not that simple? In this episode, I’m unpacking why I believe “love bombing” isn’t as simple as one manipulator and one victim, it’s often two people caught in the same obsessive cycle. One giving, one receiving, both chasing the high of validation. I share my own story of spiralling thoughts, the need for validation, and why I think modern dating culture feeds these addictive patterns, ...