Send us a text You thought dating women would be easier? Think again. This Pride Month, I’m pulling back the sheets on what it really looks like when women date women. Spoiler alert: it’s not just soft touches, flannel, and U-Hauls. There’s bi-phobia, late-in-life confusion, misread signals, and emotional landmines no one warned us about. But there’s also unmatched heat, intimacy, and magic—when you know what you’re doing. In this collab episode, I’m joined by Dr. Frankie Bashan, clinical psy...

Send us a text This Pride Month, we’re celebrating one of the most iconic, empowering, and downright delicious acts: face sitting. Whether you call it queening, throne work, or just your favorite seat in the house—this episode is your step-by-step guide to doing it with confidence, control, and unapologetic joy. We’ll break down: What face sitting actually is—and why it’s more than just a sexy poseThe myths that keep people (especially femmes and queers) from fully enjoying itHow to find the ...

Send us a text Can you be a mom and a sexual being? Our culture loves moms—as long as they’re selfless, sleepless, and silent about their desire. But what happens when a mother wants to reclaim her seductress energy? In this raw and radically honest episode, I’m joined by licensed therapist Emma Shandy Anway to take a wrecking ball to the Madonna/Whore complex and everything it’s done to women’s sex lives. We talk about: Why birth trauma and invisible labor silently sabotage libidoThe myth o...

Send us a text Most men go straight for missionary, or cowgirl—and completely miss the one position that practically hands her an orgasm on a silver platter. In this episode, I’m walking you through the best sex position you’re probably not using—and exactly why it works. We’re talking G-spot access, A-spot pressure, clit contact without a circus of props or acrobatics. You’ll get: The science behind why this angle turns her onStep-by-step breakdown of how to set it upTips for keeping her in ...

Send us a text You’ve heard the whispers. Maybe even fantasized about it. But what actually happens behind closed doors at high-end sex parties? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the velvet curtain with special guest Shannon Wong—a performer, kink educator, and fierce advocate for sex-positive, female-led spaces. From her roots as a SuicideGirl and burlesque dancer to curating experiences in the world of ethical non-monogamy, Shannon gives us the inside scoop on wha...

Send us a text You think she wants you because of how good you were during sex? Think again. What you do after sex is what sets you apart—and makes her crave you all over again. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re flipping the script and diving into what happens in the 5 minutes after you come. Because that window? It’s not downtime—it’s prime time. You’ll learn: 🔥 How to use touch, talk, and energy to leave her shaking for more🧠 The science behind afterglow oxytocin—and how to us...

Send us a text You’ve heard the jokes. Seen it in porn. Maybe even whispered about it with a friend. But fisting—when done right—isn’t about shock. It’s about trust, surrender, and full-body pleasure that goes way deeper than you think. In this episode, I’m joined by sex therapist Chelsea Newton, and we’re diving into the truth about vaginal fisting: What it really feels like, why it’s healing for so many women and queer folks, and how to explore it safely—with confidence, consent, and...

Send us a text This is your step-by-step guide to vaginal fisting done right—for real connection, full-body pleasure, and the kind of deep, slow sex that leaves her saying “holy fck.”* In this episode, I walk you through: 💦 What fisting actually is (hint: it’s not what you’ve seen online) 🧠 The science behind why it feels so good 🔥 How to build up to it with care, trust, and a ton of lube 🤲 A full technique breakdown—from yoni massage to entry, external stimulation, or...

Send us a text Is it true that girth matters more than length? Or is it all in your head… and maybe hers too? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the sheets on one of the most common questions men obsess over: Am I thick enough? Joining me is Dr. Amy Pearlman, board-certified urologist and sexual health expert, here to break down the science behind penile girth, sexual satisfaction, and why so many men tie their self-worth to size. We’re covering: 🔥 What girth ...

Send us a text Turn touch into trust. Grip into pleasure. And make her feel so safe, she’ll come undone in your hands. Most men think they know how to touch a woman—but if you’ve ever wondered why she isn’t melting into your hands, moaning before the sex even starts, or coming back for more? This episode is your wake-up call. I’m breaking down the 5 specific steps every man needs to know to handle a woman’s body with confidence, clarity, and emotional precision—from the first touch to the fin...

Send us a text Is it sex if you’re just soaking? What about butt stuff? Or dry humping in your underwear? In this quick follow-up to our viral episode on virginity, I sit down with Dr. Sue Milstein to unpack the wild “workarounds” people use to technically stay virgins… even when they're doing everything but. We touch on: Soaking Anal sex in purity cultureand how kids are getting crabs in their armpitsThis isn’t just about religious shame. It’s about the myths we carry into adulthood — a...

Send us a text Ever wonder why your tongue isn't getting the reaction you want down there? In this episode, I'm showing you the real oral sex techniques that make women lose their minds—with step-by-step breakdowns that go way beyond the basic swirl-and-hope-for-the-best. As a sex and intimacy coach, I’ve talked to hundreds of women about what actually makes oral unforgettable—and spoiler: it’s not about speed or pressure. It’s about rhythm, teasing, tension, and tuning in. ✅ The #1 technique...

Send us a text What if I told you virginity is a scam—and you’ve been sold a lie that’s screwing with your pleasure, your confidence, and maybe even your relationships? In this no-BS conversation with certified sexologist Dr. Susan Milstein, we unpack the toxic history of virginity, the science that debunks it, and the shame it’s still spreading in bedrooms everywhere. From the myth of the hymen to the double standards that teach women to expect pain instead of pleasure—we're ripping th...

Send us a text Most people think "slow sex" means sweet, romantic, or boring. Wrong. When you master slow sex the right way — the savage, dominant, craving-inducing way — you don't just turn someone on, you burn yourself into their memory. In this episode, I’m breaking down the science behind why fast sex short-circuits orgasmic satisfaction, and how slowing your movements, stacking sensations, and taking full control can leave your partner begging, shaking, and obsessed. Plus, I’ll tea...

Send us a text What if the thing that turns you on the most… is also the thing you’ve been too afraid to admit? This episode pulls back the curtain on one of the fastest-growing—and most misunderstood—kinks: pregnancy and lactation play. And no, it’s not just a guy thing. Some women say it’s the sexiest they’ve ever felt. Others say it helped them reclaim their bodies after birth. And for many, it’s about erotic power, healing shame, and exploring deeper levels of intimacy. My guest, Chelsea ...

Send us a text You don’t have to be “kinky” to completely blow her mind—you just need a little curiosity. In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 beginner-friendly kinks that are: ✅ Easy to try ✅ Expert-approved ✅ And absolutely guaranteed to take your bedroom game from basic to bold We’re talking praise kink, anal play (yes, for her and you), light restraint, power dynamics, and erotic punishment—all explained in a way that feels approachable, sexy, and real. These are the kinks she secretly ...

Send us a text If you think dating over 40 is just ghosting, gym bros, and endless swiping with no spark—think again. In this episode, I’m joined by Andrea McGinty, the matchmaking powerhouse who’s set up over 33,000 dates and 4,200 marriages. She’s been on Oprah, CNN, and now she’s here to spill the secrets from her new book 2nd Acts: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 40. Whether you're divorced, widowed, or just sick of the apps, Andrea’s insights will flip everything you thought you...

Send us a text Most men have no idea just how kinky their partner might secretly be. We've all heard the tired myths—“women aren’t as into sex,” or “guys are the freaky ones.” But here’s the truth: women are just as kinky, just as curious, and often have wild desires they’re too afraid to say out loud. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m diving into 5 surprising, research-backed kinks that women love—yes, love—that will flip the script on what you think you know. These aren’t ...

Send us a text Think women don’t want sex as much as men? Think again. In this episode, I sit down with renowned somatic sex therapist Susan Morgan Taylor to bust one of the most damaging myths about women’s sexuality: that we have a “naturally low libido.” We unpack the real reasons so many women struggle with desire—and spoiler alert—it’s not about hormones or aging. You’ll learn the top causes of low sex drive, how to reignite your partner’s pleasure (or your own), and why rewriting this n...

Send us a text Want to turn him into putty in your hands—without saying a word? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m sharing 14+ playful power moves that will have your man gasping, grinding, and flat-out begging for more. This isn’t about leather whips and dungeon gear (unless you're into that). It’s about seductive control—grip strength, pu$$y pulses, whispered commands, and little things you can do with your voice, your eyes, even your silence—that flip the switch in his bra...