Excuse the absence, shall we continue? It’s been a while so let’s catch up a tad I’ll hit a few bullet points and then e can carry on

Sometimes life will life and it has no warning. Let’s catch up shall we and get back on track here.

Just some words of encouragement to help you continue on with your journey or path that you choose to be on. I hope nothing about the best and positive vibes rushing through you day in and day out

Kicking off the first episode of season 5 with some TEA!!! Let’s get to it!

Here we are at the ending of our series 24 first and last and it’s a wild one. Yes, it is much longer than other episodes (my bad), but we have to keep our mental state intact when we’re dealing with these emotional situations. Myself as a lover, I have had the habit of allowing the heart to overcome logic and that’s how most of us end up in rocky situations. Take a moment to have those talks, take a moment to make your partner feel valued or important in your life because if they weren’t, then why are you here. Time is invaluable, spend it wisely, and when you come to a cross roads where things may go far left, take your time on how your handling that situation and give yourself a chance to really make the decision for you. Let’s be mature adults and handle the rough and the tough as we would with the ups and great experiences we encounter in life.

Partnership should be equal, equal parts of loving communication, sharing, caring, thinking about each other, doing acts of service, love language, etc. When you start to see that you are a second thought to your partner in an obvious way in multiple occasions, what does that really say about how your partner thinks of you? Where are you in their life as far as a priority? No one wants to say “put me over anyone else” but I should be a consideration one of the first few and feeling like I was none, definitely not OK, and really, it sucks thinking about it.

Why you reading the description? The title says it all. Men want respect, but sits so common how often we let our guard down around those we’ve failed to establish boundaries with. Yes being patient has it perks, but don’t be overly patient. Don’t be some else’s rug, not for a partner, family and especially no “friend”. Set you boundaries, demand your respect (none aggressively of course) & be true to you and love yourself enough to do these things.

It’s a shorty but still some good stuff here make sure you’re taking care of you before you try to appease of other people

Here we are talking about how the mother and I had gotten into a heated debate that definitely went way too far. There was too many people exposed to what had happened and it’s important for us to take a moment to realize how much our actions affect those around us.

So here we go! We are a day away from the climax in my opinion but let’s dive into subtle events that add to a much bigger picture.

We’re heating up here with some tidbits on filler infirm on what’s going on with mom and the whole move in situation. We’re definitely getting to some real crucial mentally challenging situations that could have long term effects, if not looked out for.

Here we are and it’s time to really pick things up. There’s always going to be a moment in life where you’re gonna be in position where some you know needs help and you can do it, but how do you handle these things. Truthfully the beginning of a wild roller coaster.

All is good with showing your affection, but are you love bombing? We’re jumping into the next bridge of when things start to take a turn externally and internally. It’s time to take a step back and make sure we’re approaching each situation with delicately for not only for others, but to ourselves.

Traveling can be beautiful, traveling can be stressful, either way, at some point we travel even within inner city limits, it’s joy you can take away from breaking out of the norm to spend time with loved ones!

How vulnerable are you with your partner? In this episode we dive into a topic about being vulnerable about your deepest traumas with your partner, and how that circles back to the impact on your mental development growing up. It’s not our choice on how, when or why we grew up the way that we did, but ultimately it’s up to us on how we continue to live furthermore.

In this episode we take a walk through memory lane and revisit the first date that set the ton for everything.

This episode kicks off the first of twenty-four episodes to conclude season 4. “The Beginning” takes us back to the beginning of a 24 month long journey. From Hollywood love to heartbreak, we can all take away with us the fact that love and relationships will happen, and when some come to an unfortunate end, we still have to make sure that we are able to keep our mental intact, learn what we can from the experience & move forward, being a better person.

Thank you all for a wonderful, amazing and very eventful season 4! Until next year l, many blessings and many thanks, happy holidays yall!

Honestly, it’s ok for us to take a break when we’ve been going so hard trying to accomplish goals and dreams and it’s all right. I understand that the sooner you get it the better off you are, but if you’re going to burn yourself out in the process of trying to accomplish your goal, then is it really beneficial for you? Give your mind and your body a break before your spirit becomes overwhelmed

There is a thin line between love and lust, and we all to commonly find ourselves blurring the lines. It’s ok to find yourself very infatuated with someone, but you have to be mindful of making sure you’re making time for yourself to heal from previous experiences before you lunge into something new.