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Submissive Guide
Submissive Guide
33 episodes
3 days ago
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. In this episode, we explore one of the most common questions submissives ask when starting their journey: “What’s really expected of me?” We talk about what healthy expectations look like in a D/s relationship—from the early days of self-discovery to building communication with your Dominant. You’ll learn practical ways to define your own boundaries, clarify mutual expectations, and avoid the common traps that lead to confusion or ov...
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Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. In this episode, we explore one of the most common questions submissives ask when starting their journey: “What’s really expected of me?” We talk about what healthy expectations look like in a D/s relationship—from the early days of self-discovery to building communication with your Dominant. You’ll learn practical ways to define your own boundaries, clarify mutual expectations, and avoid the common traps that lead to confusion or ov...
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Society & Culture,
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Relationships
Episodes (20/33)
Submissive Guide
Expectations of a Submissive: What You Need to Know (and What You Don’t) | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. In this episode, we explore one of the most common questions submissives ask when starting their journey: “What’s really expected of me?” We talk about what healthy expectations look like in a D/s relationship—from the early days of self-discovery to building communication with your Dominant. You’ll learn practical ways to define your own boundaries, clarify mutual expectations, and avoid the common traps that lead to confusion or ov...
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3 days ago
18 minutes

Submissive Guide
Writing Submissive Affirmations That Actually Work | Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. Affirmations can be more than feel-good words—they can reshape your submissive mindset. In this episode, I share how I’ve used affirmations for over a decade to shift negative self-talk, strengthen my confidence, and reconnect with my submission. You’ll learn how to create affirmations that feel believable and personal, plus easy ways to make them part of your daily life. Read the full article: Writing Submissive Affirmations That Ac...
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2 months ago
18 minutes

Submissive Guide
You’re Allowed to Have Needs—Even in Submission | Submissive Guide
Send us a text In this episode, we’re unpacking one of the most common—and most misunderstood—pieces of advice given to submissives: “Know your wants and needs.” But what does that really mean, and how do you figure out the difference? You’ll learn how to identify your core needs, why honoring them is essential to a healthy D/s relationship, and what happens when you settle for less than what truly fulfills you. We’ll also explore common submissive-specific needs, how to communicate them, and...
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5 months ago
21 minutes

Submissive Guide
Perfection Isn’t the Goal: Finding Joy in Your Unique Submissive Journey | Submissive Guide
Send us a text This episode challenges the myth of the “perfect submissive” and explores how chasing flawlessness can lead to burnout, self-doubt, and disconnection. Instead of striving for an impossible ideal, submissives are encouraged to embrace authenticity, growth, and the beauty of their unique journey. Real submission isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being present, vulnerable, and enough just as you are. Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://patreon.com...
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6 months ago
16 minutes

Submissive Guide
After “Red”: How to Manage the Emotional Aftermath When You’ve Used Your Safeword | Submissive Guide
Send us a text Using your safeword is never something to be afraid of. While it may sometimes mean stopping the scene, it also prevents you from going to places you’re not ready to explore. Yet, guilt or self-disappointment can make using a safeword feel like a failure for many. Fortunately, there are ways to address the guilt, disappointment, or fear around using or not using your safeword when it truly matters. Thoughts to Ponder What is your opinion about safewords? What value do they ha...
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7 months ago
16 minutes

Submissive Guide
Breaking the Apology Habit: Alternatives to Overusing ‘I’m Sorry’ | Submissive Guide
Send us a text Most people say ‘sorry’ or ‘I’m sorry’ far too often. You’re probably aware of whether this is an issue for you. If you struggle with frequent apologizing, you may need to take a different approach to find ways to express what you really mean. The Art of Apology Series - Submissive Guide Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today. ►http://patreon.com/subguide A very special thank you to all who have joined our Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Gui...
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9 months ago
16 minutes

Submissive Guide
Some of the Best Kept Secrets to Sub Drop Recovery | Submissive Guide
Send us a textGet Your Copy of “Becoming a Service Submissive” Today! Sub drop is a natural part of the BDSM experience, but it doesn't have to derail your enjoyment. Learn how to recognize the signs, prevent severe symptoms, and create a personalized aftercare plan that supports both your physical and emotional recovery. From building a drop kit to mastering self-care strategies, this guide empowers you to take control of your well-being and embrace every part of the journey with ...
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10 months ago
20 minutes

Submissive Guide
Exploring Online Submission: Truths, Risks, and Safety Tips | Submissive Guide
Send us a textWe’ll cover the complexities of online submission, offering various safe environments to explore and learn the nuances of BDSM and discuss the potential benefits and dangers. We’ll help you navigate the online BDSM landscape with confidence and care.Become a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://patreon.com/subguideA very special thank you to all who have joined our Patreon. You have helped transform Submissive Guide into one of the leading BDSM education sourc...
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1 year ago
18 minutes

Submissive Guide
10 Things You Can Start Today To Be a Better Submissive | Submissive Guide
Send us a textA question I see asked all the time is, "How can I be a better submissive?" Here are a few things you can do to improve your submission and service without much work.Resources - Non-sexual Service and How To Add It To Your DynamicHow Making a Cup of Coffee Centers MeRitual Ideas: High Tea, Japanese Tea Ceremony and Formal Dining3 Reasons a "Perpetual Student" Mindset Is Vital to KinkCreate SMART Goals For Your New Year's Resolutions and Reach Your Goals This Year!The Import...
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1 year ago
23 minutes

Submissive Guide
Creating a Safe Space: Enhancing Communication in D/s Relationships | Submissive Guide
Send us a textLet's discuss how to build healthy communication skills in our D/s relationship and what a safe environment for difficult conversations looks like. I’ll give you the tools to develop a report with your partner that is full of trust, shared vulnerability, and compassion. You’ll learn that a safe environment for those challenging talks requires planning and mutual agreements to work as they should. Resources:Conversation Starters for Difficult Conversations: https://www.wikih...
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1 year ago
17 minutes

Submissive Guide
Navigating the Challenges of a Vanilla Partner in a Kink World | Submissive Guide
Send us a textOften, we discover our desire to be submissive or kinky when we are already in a relationship and are not sure really how to proceed with that. Let’s cover what you should do to prepare to talk to your partner about your newfound interest, how you can encourage a submissive mindset on your own, and how you can slowly bring kink into the bedroom. Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/making-him-the-dom-of-your-dreams-working-with-the-man-you-have&...
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1 year ago
14 minutes

Submissive Guide
Crafting Your Collaring Ceremony: Themes, Rituals, and Celebrations | Submissive Guide
Send us a textReceiving your collar is a special occasion for many submissives and slaves. When a collar comes into view, some people want to commemorate that with a ceremony. Let’s discuss collars, their symbolism in D/s and M/s relationships, and how you can build a formal ceremony around declaring your commitment to each other.Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/how-to-plan-a-formal-collaring-ceremony Resources: Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are Yo...
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1 year ago
11 minutes

Submissive Guide
The Truth About Topping from the Bottom | Submissive Guide
Send us a text Let’s break down what topping from the bottom is, why it’s so bad, how it can be good, and learn some tricks to stop the poor behavior in its tracks that leads to it.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/why-you-should-know-the-truth-about-topping-from-the-bottomChat with the Discord community! https://subgui.de/chatResources:Arcane Advice article on Topping from the Bottom: https://arcaneadvice.com/all-lessons-a-z/topping-from-the-bottom-why-...
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1 year ago
15 minutes

Submissive Guide
Every Good Conversation Starts with Active Listening | Submissive Guide
Send us a textCommunication is a key topic to developing and maintaining healthy, open relationships. But many of us need to learn what good communication looks like and have problems with at least one part of good communication techniques.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/communication/articles/every-good-conversation-starts-with-good-listeningBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://patreon.com/subguideA very special thank you to all who have joined our P...
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1 year ago
11 minutes

Submissive Guide
Learning Good Observation Skills for Better Submissive Awareness | Submissive Guide
Send us a textOne of the best skills a submissive can learn is observation. Observation can also be neglected in your daily and work life, so learning requires you to reteach your mind, eyes, focus, and attention. It's so worth it.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/learning-good-observation-skillsFurther Reading:Anticipatory ServicePersonality and Behavior Tests:Meyers-Briggs Type IndicatorThe Big FivePredictive IndexStrengths FinderBecome a member and get more from...
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2 years ago
12 minutes

Submissive Guide
What Everyone Ought to Know About Finding and Managing BDSM Limits | Submissive Guide
Send us a textYour limits are unique to you and may change over time as you gain experience and self-awareness. Embrace the opportunity for self-discovery and pleasure as you unlock the secrets to understanding and embracing your BDSM limits.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/what-everyone-ought-to-know-about-finding-and-managing-limits Further Reading:BDSM Limits ExplainedUsing Checklists to Figure Out Your Kinky LimitsEstablishing Boundaries & Limits in ...
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2 years ago
16 minutes

Submissive Guide
Moans, Groans, and Beyond: A Beginner’s Guide to Dirty Talk | Submissive Guide
Send us a textExplore the journey of embracing dirty talk. With practical tips, personal stories, and valuable resources, readers are encouraged to break free from inhibitions and discover the liberating potential of vocalizing desires and fantasies.Read the article: https://submissiveguide.com/fundamentals/articles/how-to-talk-dirtyFurther Reading:How to Be Responsive During PlayExhibitionism for the Shy: Show Off, Dress Up and Talk Hot! by Carol QueenSex Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Explo...
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2 years ago
16 minutes

Submissive Guide
On-Demand Ecstasy: Initiating Your Orgasm Control Training | Submissive Guide
Send us a textA beginner's guide that explores the practice of orgasm control and its potential for enhancing pleasure. The first in the series, this article covers the first steps to exploring orgasm control in your play.Resources on Orgasm Control Mechanics:Orgasm Control by RoverOrgasm Control Conditioning of Females on FetLifeTrain Your Body to Orgasm on CommandOrgasm Control Training: They Can’t ResistOrgasm Control by ginaStudy: Women's Attributions Regarding Why They Have Difficulty Re...
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2 years ago
12 minutes

Submissive Guide
The Importance of Rules and Structure in D/s Relationships | Submissive Guide
Send us a textIn D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships, rules are often used to provide structure and establish boundaries within the power exchange dynamic. These rules serve as a guide for submissives to follow, which allows us to focus on our submission and the expectations of our Dominant partner.Read the Article: https://submissiveguide.com/dsrelationships/articles/structure-rulesBecome a member and get more from Submissive Guide today.►http://patreon.com/subguideA very special thank y...
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2 years ago
12 minutes

Submissive Guide
How to Use Erotic Begging to Intensify Your Kinky Playtime | Submissive Guide
Send us a text Being asked to beg for something is one of the simplest forms of erotic humiliation within a BDSM scenario. It’s also one that can be quite difficult for people to learn.Read the article on Submissive Guide: https://submissiveguide.com/skills/articles/how-to-beg-when-asked Submissive Guide FetLife Group: http://subgui.de/fetlifeOther people's thoughts on begging:Begging In BDSM by Raven ShadowborneA Kinkster’s Guide to Begging on A Kinkster’s GuideHow Do I Beg/Plead Better...
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2 years ago
14 minutes

Submissive Guide
Like the show? Let us know! Comments, suggestions are open. In this episode, we explore one of the most common questions submissives ask when starting their journey: “What’s really expected of me?” We talk about what healthy expectations look like in a D/s relationship—from the early days of self-discovery to building communication with your Dominant. You’ll learn practical ways to define your own boundaries, clarify mutual expectations, and avoid the common traps that lead to confusion or ov...