Stop Saying These 3 Words (They Make You Look Weak)

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Stu Murray

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Become the man your family chooses to follow and you respect when you're alone. I'm Stu Murray, a men's leadership coach focused on relationship transformation. This podcast supports your journey with honest conversations about authentic leadership, relationship transformation, and what it takes to stop performing and start being real. Topics include: Relationship dynamics, masculine leadership, purpose, self-trust, and becoming a man worth following. You're the one doing the work. I'm here to help you see what's possible. New episodes weekly.

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Stop Saying These 3 Words (They Make You Look Weak)

Stu Murray

15 minutes 49 seconds

1 month ago

Stop Saying These 3 Words (They Make You Look Weak)

Strong men don’t say "I have to," "I need to," or "I should"—but most guys leak power through this victim language without realizing it. These three phrases instantly signal weakness and make you appear untrustworthy to your wife, kids, and colleagues.If you're tired of feeling powerless, resentful, or like you're constantly seeking approval, this simple language shift will help you reclaim your masculine authority. I'll show you exactly how to reframe weak language into confident leadership communication that makes people want to follow you.The result? You'll stop giving your power away, eliminate resentment, and become the grounded leader your family needs.CONNECT WITH WAYNEwww.instagram.com/asacredking🔥 READY TO STOP DRIFTING? → Take The 7-Day Reset for High-Performing Men: https://www.stumurray.com/7-day-reset Seven questions that separate the men who change from the men who stay stuck. Most won't finish it.ABOUT STU MURRAY & BROTHRI help high-performing men break free from the performance prison that's left them successful on the outside but hollow within. This channel is your roadmap from isolation to brotherhood, from achievement to fulfillment, from doing to being.🔺Key Timestamps :00:00 - The 3 phrases that secretly weaken men ("I have to, I need to, I should") 00:01:00 - A real story: a man on the edge of divorce repeating "I have to" 00:02:30 - Why saying "I need to" kills confidence and trust 00:03:50 - Reframing chores: from "I need to" → "I choose to" 00:06:00 - The powerful framework: "I choose to [action] because I value [belief]" 00:08:00 - How childhood trains us to give away our choices 00:12:50 - The path to fulfillment: reclaiming power through conscious choice