
You've been lying to yourself, to others, about what you need and who you are. That fragmentation is destroying your self-worth from the inside out. Connor Beaton reveals why modern men are stuck in perpetual boyhood, how fatherless generations created an initiation crisis, and the brutal truth about becoming a man in a culture that abandoned masculine maturation. This isn't about testosterone optimization or alpha posturing—it's about the coherence that comes when you stop abandoning yourself. If you've ever felt like a lost boy wearing a man's responsibilities, this conversation maps the way forward. The question: Are you ready to stop running from other men and finally trust yourself?Connect with Connor Beaton:Watch on Youtube: www.youtube.com/@mantalksRead his Book: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Key Timestamps : 00:00 – Trusting Yourself as a Man01:09 – The Myth of Toxic Masculinity06:00 – The Power of Truth and Integrity09:55 – The Trap of Mental Overload13:15 – The Rise of the Man Child17:42 – The Crisis of Missing Male Role Models23:00 – What Healthy Masculinity Actually Looks Like32:35 – The Death of Male Initiation42:10 – The War for the Hearts and Minds of Men49:45 – Healing the Wound Between Men