39 - The Real Reason “Nice Guys” Stay Stuck (And What It Costs You) w/ Dr. Robert Glover

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Stu Murray

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Become the man your family chooses to follow and you respect when you're alone. I'm Stu Murray, a men's leadership coach focused on relationship transformation. This podcast supports your journey with honest conversations about authentic leadership, relationship transformation, and what it takes to stop performing and start being real. Topics include: Relationship dynamics, masculine leadership, purpose, self-trust, and becoming a man worth following. You're the one doing the work. I'm here to help you see what's possible. New episodes weekly.

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39 - The Real Reason “Nice Guys” Stay Stuck (And What It Costs You) w/ Dr. Robert Glover

Stu Murray

1 hour 13 minutes 30 seconds

4 months ago

39 - The Real Reason “Nice Guys” Stay Stuck (And What It Costs You) w/ Dr. Robert Glover

You were told being a good man would lead to love, respect, and connection. But if you're honest, all it's brought is resentment, rejection, and feeling like you're never enough.

In this raw conversation with Dr. Robert Glover, we expose the hidden patterns sabotaging high-performing men—especially the covert contracts silently destroying your relationships, sex life, and self-respect.

This isn't about blame. It's about ownership. It's about reclaiming the parts of you you've buried beneath performance and perfection.

Connect with Dr. Robert Glover:Website: https://www.drglover.com/Integration Nation: https://integrationnation.net/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drgloverofficial

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ABOUT STU MURRAY & BROTHR

I help high-performing men break free from the performance prison that's left them successful on the outside but hollow within. This channel is your roadmap from isolation to brotherhood, from achievement to fulfillment, from doing to being.Men who join us report deeper connections, clearer purpose, and the courage to lead from truth within 30 days.

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🔺Key Timestamps

00:02:22 – The crisis that sparked No More Mr. Nice Guy

00:06:30 – Why “nice guys” always finish last in relationships

00:19:29 – Resentment in relationships and the root cause

00:23:07 – “Unexpressed expectations are premeditated resentments”

00:30:13 – Why Nice Guys suck at receiving love and support

00:34:48 – Seeking mommy’s approval vs masculine initiation

00:42:09 – The myth of the lone wolf & male isolation epidemic

00:50:04 – Why Dr. Glover went all-in on helping men at 69

01:08:09 – The ineffable feeling of being seen by other men

01:12:23 – Where to find Dr. Glover & closing thoughts on men’s work