And we are BACK with the final season of the show, y'all. Yes, the show is officially coming to an end this year. It was a fantasti 6+ year run and like all good things, must come to an end.
Joining me on this last leg of the podcast is Elizabeth Fields, a SWer based in Vancouver, Canada. Elizabeth brings to us an important topic: the ability to see red flags within our own industry. The adult industry is not immune to bad players, even if they are or appear to be one of this. Predators come in all shapes and sizes -- in the form of photographers, collaborators, agents, and organizations.
Elizabeth and I take the hour to discuss what red flags you should be looking out for -- seasoned SWer or not -- and best practices on how to avoid and to keep yourself safe.
On the last episode of Season 7, I invite Max Chabanel, a former corporate executive turned companion, to discuss the intricacies of the Fly Me To You (FMTY) service in the adult industry. We explore Max's journey from corporate life to sex work, the dynamics of traveling with clients, and the importance of setting boundaries and expectations. The conversation emphasizes the need for clear communication, understanding personal limits, and navigating intimacy during extended bookings. Max shares valuable insights and tips for both companions and clients, highlighting the realities of FMTY beyond the glamor. In this conversation, we also discuss the intricacies of being a travel companion, focusing on client expectations, setting boundaries, and the importance of self-care. We delve into how to manage personal energy, set appropriate rates, and navigate travel logistics while ensuring safety. The dialogue emphasizes the need for clear communication and mutual understanding between companions and clients to foster a positive experience.
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Very excited to bring on Pepper Kat, a cam girl and podcast host, to discuss the complexities of emotional connectivity and relationships within the sex work industry. They explore themes of male loneliness, the changing landscape of relationships, and the blurred lines between intimacy and transactional interactions. The conversation delves into the impact of technology on connection, the challenges of setting boundaries, and the societal pressures faced by men today. In this conversation, we also delve into the complexities of sex work, discussing the emotional labor involved, the stigma faced, and the importance of personalization in adult content. We explore the shifting power dynamics in the industry, emphasizing the need for clear boundaries and ethical considerations when interacting with clients. The discussion highlights the necessity of understanding the emotional needs of clients while maintaining a safe and respectful environment for sex workers.
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I'm excited to bring on fellow cam model, Minnie St. Claire, on the show to demonstrate the challenges faced by disabled sex workers. The conversation delves into personal stories, the evolution of webcamming, and the realities of navigating the adult industry whilst having a disability. We explore the complexities of navigating the adult industry, particularly focusing on the intersection of disability and sex work. Minnie details her experiences with trauma, mental health challenges, and the flexibility that sex work provides. Minnie discusses the complexities of navigating disability benefits, income as a content creator, and the duality of identity in the sex work industry. She highlights the challenges of mental health, societal expectations, and the stigma surrounding both sex work and disability.
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A very special episode today! This week, I invite Marston Hefner, the son of Hugh Hefner, who is now making his mark in the adult content industry. We discuss the challenges and dynamics of being a parent in the adult industry, the motivations behind joining adult platforms, and the stigma surrounding sex work. Marston shares his experiences growing up in a famous family and how it shaped his views on nudity and sex work. The conversation also touches on gender dynamics in parenting and the launch of Marston's new adult platform, RM11, a new adult content platform designed to prioritize the needs and earnings of content creators. He emphasizes the importance of a creator-centric approach, offering a favorable commission split and fostering a respectful environment for creators. The discussion also covers challenges related to traffic and visibility, the platform's commitment to creative freedom, and innovative features like interactive content. Marston highlights the significance of privacy and security for creators, the need for diversification in revenue streams, and the importance of community feedback for continuous improvement.
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This week, we welcome Emily Adaire, a trans performer and adult creator based in Germany. They discuss the journey of Emily into sex work, the differences in production standards between Europe and the USA, and the landscape of sex work in Germany, including its legal status and the protections available to sex workers. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced by trans performers in the industry and the importance of destigmatizing sex work. In this conversation, they explore various themes surrounding trans representation in the adult film industry, cultural differences between Europe and the US, and the evolving dynamics of collaboration in adult entertainment. They discuss the importance of representation, the impact of legislation on the industry, and the challenges of health standards and testing. The conversation highlights the progress made in trans visibility and the ongoing struggles faced by trans individuals in both personal and professional contexts. We also discuss the financial challenges faced by performers, particularly in relation to testing costs and the overall expenses of being in the industry. The discussion also touches on the importance of agency and creative control for performers, as well as the balance between financial stability and personal fulfillment in their work. Emily shares her journey towards finding this balance and her desire to use her platform for positive change.
***TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual assault, kidnapping, pimping, physical assault.***
We've talked about how much I loved stripping over the years but this year, we will be discussing the complexities of strip club culture. Joining me this week is my guest Dahlia, a former NY-based dancer. The conversation highlights the challenges faced by dancers, the impact of economic changes, and the empowerment that comes from taking control of one's body and choices and the culture of fear that often silences dancers. They highlight the predatory behaviors that can occur within the industry and the struggles dancers face in navigating relationships while maintaining their professional personas. The conversation emphasizes the need for empowerment and the importance of speaking out against injustices in the workplace. We emphasize the need for a humane approach to interactions, the significance of making customers feel valued, and the necessity of setting boundaries when engaging with clients. We also highlights the critical aspects of health and safety, particularly regarding sexual health and the risks associated with extras in the industry. Lastly, we reflect on the evolution of strip club culture, the accessibility of sex work through platforms like OnlyFans, and their personal journeys within the industry. The conversation highlights the camaraderie and struggles faced by dancers, emphasizing the need for self-care and awareness in a challenging environment.
This week, I welcome adult film stars, Ameena Green and Willow Ryder, to discuss their experiences in the adult industry. The conversation covers their personal journeys, the importance of research and preparation before entering the industry, financial discipline, and the dynamics of living and working together. They also touch on the significance of communication on set, self-care practices, and maintaining boundaries with fans while fostering a genuine connection. We also delve into the complexities of navigating fan expectations, the importance of community support, and the challenges of building a positive reputation in the adult industry. They discuss the need for clear boundaries with fans, the significance of having a supportive network, and how to address harmful behavior within the industry. The conversation also touches on the pros and cons of working in the adult industry, offering valuable advice for those considering entering this field.
Very excited to bring Isabelle Fox of The Escort Academy to discuss the complexities of being a sex worker, particularly the decision to go 'face out' in the industry. We explore the stigma surrounding sex work, the journey of becoming a mentor and business coach for escorts, and the differences between being face in and face out. The conversation highlights personal stories, challenges, and the importance of de-stigmatizing the adult industry. In this conversation, we discuss personal boundaries, safety precautions, legal ramifications, and the impact of privilege. We also discuss the challenges of recognition, the importance of family support, and the difficulties faced with financial institutions. The dialogue emphasizes the need for careful consideration and personal choice in navigating these issues. We chat about the financial implications of these choices, the importance of mentorship, and the need for support within the community. Isabelle shares her personal journey of going face out and the positive response she received, while also addressing criticism and misunderstandings about her advice. The episode concludes with a reminder of the importance of giving back and supporting one another in the industry.
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In this episode of Stripped by Sia, host Steph Sia engages in a deep conversation with Todd Spates, co-founder of Yanks, a 100% female-produced adult content platform. They discuss the journey of sex work, the importance of ethical porn, and the appeal of amateur content. Todd shares insights into the origin of Yanks, the significance of creating safe spaces for models, and the challenges of navigating male representation in a female-centric industry. The conversation emphasizes the need for transparency and understanding in the adult industry, aiming to destigmatize sex work and promote female empowerment. In this conversation, Todd discusses the importance of creating a safe space in adult production, the differences between the male and female gaze in adult content, and the concept of ethical pornography. He emphasizes the need for transparency and accountability within the adult industry, particularly in light of the challenges faced by models and creators. Todd also shares insights about Yanks, a platform that focuses on authentic adult content, and highlights innovative projects, including the integration of AI and global outreach efforts to diversify representation in adult entertainment.
This week, I invite Laura Desiree, an intimacy coordinator and sex worker, about the importance of destigmatizing sex work and the role of intimacy coordinators in ensuring safety and consent in adult entertainment. They discuss the challenges faced by sex workers, the significance of community, and the impact of viral content on the industry. The conversation highlights the need for responsible storytelling and the implications of shock content in shaping societal perceptions of sex work. In this conversation, Laura Desiree and Steph Sia delve into the complexities of the sex work industry, discussing the harmful stereotypes and stigma that persist. They explore the impact of fame and the dehumanization of sex workers, emphasizing the need for more nuanced and respectful conversations. The discussion highlights the responsibility of content creators in shaping narratives around sex work and the importance of recognizing the diversity within the industry. Ultimately, they call for a shift in societal perceptions and a deeper understanding of the realities faced by sex workers.
This week, we engage in a deep conversation with Diana Prince, a seasoned professional in the adult industry. They explore the concept of authentic relating, its significance in the context of sex work, and the importance of self-care. Diana shares her journey in the adult industry, discussing the challenges and shifts she has experienced over the years. The conversation emphasizes the need for genuine connection and communication in a highly stigmatized field, highlighting the role of practices like authentic relating in fostering community and personal growth. In this conversation, we delve into the concept of authentic relating, exploring various practices such as T-Group, which emphasizes emotional awareness and communication skills. They discuss the importance of boundaries in the context of sex work, highlighting how these boundaries can shift based on personal experiences and interactions. The dialogue also touches on conflict resolution, emphasizing the value of clear communication and self-awareness in navigating difficult conversations. Diana shares insights on how authenticity can influence financial success and the flow of money in one's work. Finally, they discuss the benefits of group sessions and community support for personal growth and connection.
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Have you been around in SW for as long as I have, in the stripping world, specifically? Then you'll know who know whoJacq Francesis, formerly known as Jacq the Stripper. Jacq us a multifaceted performer, artist and educator and we discuss Jacq's journey from stripping to comedy, her experiences in different countries, and her current exploration of life beyond sex work. The conversation highlights the challenges and triumphs of being a sex worker, the importance of destigmatization, and the transferable skills gained through performance art. In this conversation, Jacq Frances shares her journey from struggling financially to becoming a stripper, highlighting the importance of mentorship and financial wisdom in the industry. She discusses her experiences in the film industry, particularly her role as a consultant on the movie Hustlers, and emphasizes the need for authentic representation of sex workers in media. Jacq also addresses the challenges of transitioning out of sex work and offers advice on how to navigate this change while cherishing the positive aspects of the experience.
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This week, we dive into a deep conversation with Savannah, a South Asian sex worker, about the complexities of race play in the sex work industry. They explore Savannah's journey from being a full-service sex worker to a cam model, the intersection of art and sex work, and the cultural perspectives surrounding sex work, particularly for people of colour. The discussion also delves into the profitability and problematic nature of race play, highlighting the nuances and challenges faced by sex workers in navigating their identities and the demands of their clients. We discuss the performative aspects of roles, the dynamics of power in domination and submission, and the necessity of healthy detachment from their work personas. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-care, setting boundaries, and the ability to say no, while also encouraging clients to explore their sexuality in a safe and respectful manner.
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Ever thought of being a faceless creator? I speak with Gal Mariya Rivers, a faceless creator on Reddit and OnlyFans. Gal Mariya shares her journey from being a lurker on Reddit to becoming a confident content creator, emphasizing the importance of consent and the positive feedback she receives from her audience. The conversation highlights the struggles and triumphs of embracing one's identity while remaining faceless in a visually-driven industry. In this conversation, Gal Mariya Rivers discusses the complexities of being a faceless creator in the adult industry, exploring the positives and negatives of anonymity. She shares her experiences with online criticism, the importance of body image, and the concept of body liberation. The discussion also touches on the profitability of faceless content creation and the unique challenges faced by creators in this space.
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Very excited to introduce Carol-Anne Kreiser, the owner of Fly Fitness Aerial Studio, who shares her journey of establishing a pole studio in a conservative town. The conversation explores the challenges faced by sex workers, the importance of allyship, and the efforts to create an inclusive environment for all individuals, regardless of their background. The episode emphasizes the need for education and community engagement to break down stereotypes and foster understanding. In this conversation, Steph Sia and Carolanne Kreiser discuss the importance of inclusivity in pole studios, emphasizing the need for open-mindedness and receptiveness to feedback from students, particularly those from diverse backgrounds. They explore the role of sex workers in pole fitness, advocating for more opportunities for them to teach and share their skills. The discussion also highlights the significance of understanding and respecting the roots of pole dancing, which originated in strip clubs, and the importance of bridging the gap between strippers and pole hobbyists. discussion also touches on the challenges of accessibility and affordability in pole classes, emphasizing the importance of empowering strippers and ensuring their voices are heard in the community.
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Really excited to debut this episode! I invite, fellow SWer, Savannah Sly, onto the show to discuss her journey into activism, the work of New Moon Network in supporting sex workers' rights, and the challenges faced in securing funding for these initiatives. The discussion highlights the importance of community support, philanthropy, and the need for education and capacity building within the movement. Savannah emphasizes the role of New Moon as an intermediary fund that connects large philanthropic organizations with grassroots sex worker-led groups, while also addressing the difficulties in navigating the funding landscape. We discuss the critical funding landscape for sex workers' rights, highlighting the challenges and opportunities within the sector. Lastly, Savannah also provides valuable resources for accessing funding and encourages listeners to engage with the community.
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Welcome back, listeners! Kicking off 2025 with male p*rnstar and adult content creator, Alex Charger. This episode shares insights into the complexities of performing in the adult film industry, discussing the challenges male performers face, including maintaining an erection under pressure, the use of performance enhancers like Viagra, and the mental health implications of these expectations. He also explores the physical demands of the job and the differences between the American and European adult film markets, highlighting cultural barriers and the impact on performers' careers. We also dive into the evolving landscape of inclusivity, the significance of marketing and personal branding, and the shift in power dynamics for performers in the industry. The discussion emphasizes collaboration and strategy in content creation, highlighting how performers can leverage their unique strengths to succeed in a competitive market.
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Last episode of the year is a bonus episode - my gift to all of you wonderful listeners! It's just me on this episode guest lecturing at my alma mater, Simon Fraser University, back in October.
Happy holidays and brand new episodes will be starting up again in the new year!
It's the last (new) episode of the year! To go out with a bang, I've brought on Nicole Aria, a rising star in the adult entertainment industry, on the show. We discuss Nicole's journey from a traditional career to embracing her passion for sex work, the challenges of family acceptance, and the realities of working in the adult industry. Nicole Aria shares her experiences in the adult industry, focusing on her love for anal content, the importance of personal enjoyment over monetary gain, and the journey from studio work to self-produced content. She discusses preparation techniques for anal scenes, the impact of dietary changes on performance, and the significance of sobriety in her life. She reflects on her experiences at work events, the challenges of maintaining a healthy lifestyle in the adult industry, and the significance of finding balance between work and personal life. Nicole also discusses her future aspirations, including creative projects she is excited to pursue, showcasing her dedication to both her craft and her well-being.
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