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Stories That Shape Us
Samuel Agbede
55 episodes
4 days ago
Stories That Shape Us is a podcast which celebrates the power of personal stories to inspire and connect us. Everyone has a story worth telling and our aim is to curate life-defining lessons, experiences and stories of people around the world and democratise these to people who need them in their journeys. From tales of personal growth to tales of resilience, we explore how these stories have shaped the lives of our guests and how they can inspire us to live our own lives more fully and empathetically. Join us as we uncover the stories that shape us all.
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Stories That Shape Us is a podcast which celebrates the power of personal stories to inspire and connect us. Everyone has a story worth telling and our aim is to curate life-defining lessons, experiences and stories of people around the world and democratise these to people who need them in their journeys. From tales of personal growth to tales of resilience, we explore how these stories have shaped the lives of our guests and how they can inspire us to live our own lives more fully and empathetically. Join us as we uncover the stories that shape us all.
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Stories That Shape Us
How She’s Travelled to 40 Countries — While Working a 9-to-5 | Ritika Thakkar

What if you could see the world — without quitting your job? 🌍✈️In this episode of Stories That Shape Us, Ritika Thakkar shares how she’s travelled to over 40 countries while working a full-time 9-to-5. From finding £30 flight deals on Skyscanner to learning confidence through solo travel, Ritika’s story is a masterclass in freedom through intention — proving that time isn’t found, it’s made.Timestamps00:00 - Introduction to Finding Cheap Flights00:22 - Benefits of Traveling00:49 - Welcome to Stories that Shape Us02:03 - Rapid Fire Questions with RitIka10:33 - Navigating Visa Challenges16:52 - Budget-Friendly Travel Tips20:57 - Good and Bad Travel Experiences26:50 - Heartwarming Travel Experiences28:01 - The Benefits of Traveling28:52 - Travel Tips for Students on a Budget36:06 - Travel Tips for Busy Professionals39:58 - Romantic Getaways for Couples41:57 - Exploring Unique and Unusual Destinations48:17 - Final Reflections and Travel Challenge🎧 Whether you’re a mid-career professional dreaming of travel or someone craving balance between work and wonder, this episode will remind you that you always have time for what matters.Follow Ritika:Facebook –   / ritika.rajput.16940  LinkedIn –   / thakkarritika  Gear I Use📷 Sony ZV-E10 - https://amzn.to/41nuUqP📸 Sigma 16mm F1.4 lens - https://amzn.to/4ieZJ7Y🌞 Variable ND filter - https://amzn.to/3QEMGku🎤 Rode Wireless Pro - https://amzn.to/4ipDjAO📍 Tripod - https://amzn.to/3F5hSqA💡 Lights - https://amzn.to/43fFVgu🎛️ Spider Greycard -https://amzn.to/43jYFv8Disclaimer - the links above are affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission—at no extra cost to you—if you choose to buy through them. It’s one of the ways I support this channel and keep creating content. Thanks for the support!

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3 weeks ago
52 minutes 43 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
How to Overcome Perfectionism and Finally Put Yourself Out There

Are you struggling with perfectionism, imposter syndrome, or feeling invisible in your career? In this inspiring conversation, singer-songwriter and podcaster Unoma Okudo shares her journey of evolving beyond boxes, finding courage to share her story, and creating an authentic personal brand rooted in both faith and creativity.We talk about:

  • How to overcome perfectionism and give yourself permission to fail
  • Practical ways to promote yourself without feeling fake
  • The truth about rejection as part of success (and how to handle it)
  • Navigating career growth and visibility as a creative or early career professional
  • Small steps to build confidence and put yourself out there without fear
  • Finding emotional freedom through faith and therapy as a Christian
  • Why courage, not perfection, is the key to living fully

If you’ve ever wondered how to stop imposter syndrome or struggled to show up authentically in your career or creative journey, this episode will help you take the next brave step.

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2 months ago
36 minutes 1 second

Stories That Shape Us
Why Curiosity Might Be the Missing Key In Your Career | José Enrique Calderón

🎙️ From Curious Kid to Fortune 500 Tech Leader | Career Reinvention & Joy in TechIn this episode, we sit down with Jose, a senior software engineer at a Fortune 500 financial institution, whose technology career journey started in a cyber café in Venezuela. With no formal training at first, Jose taught himself to code through curiosity, community, and pure joy. Today, he leads global teams—still driven by the same playful spirit.We dive into:🔹 How to be a good software engineer (without losing your soul)🔹 How to make your career more fun — even in a traditional 9-5🔹 Joy as a strategy for career growth (not just a “nice-to-have”)🔹 Career reinvention stories in tech that inspire🔹 Why fun matters in your tech career and how to bring it back🔹 Why joy matters in deciding your career, especially when stakes are highWhether you’re early in your journey or stuck in a rut, Jose’s story will remind you: your career doesn’t have to be linear—and joy might just be your best compass.🎧 Watch now and get inspired to reimagine what your career could look like.

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3 months ago
55 minutes 12 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
From Working-Class Roots to Leading at JP Morgan: Mark Napier's Remarkable Story

"Think more about how you do things—not just what you do.” — Mark NapierJoin us on this rich, reflective, and fun conversation with Mark, the Chief Technology Officer at JP Morgan’s International Private Bank and site lead of their Glasgow technology hub. We talked about growing up in working-class Glasgow, being the first in his family to attend university, leading through a global pandemic, and learning how to lead with empathy, confidence, and clarity.Whether you’re early in your career or leading at scale, this episode will leave you with powerful insights on:

  • Redefining success on your own terms
  • Balancing drive with care and compassion
  • Navigating change, uncertainty, and leadership in times of crisis
  • Staying grounded in what really matters

🎧 Available wherever you get your podcasts — but this one, you might want to watch.🔗 Connect with Mark NapierLinkedIn -   / mark-napier-0b435513  Gear I Use📷 Sony ZV-E10 - https://amzn.to/41nuUqP📸 Sigma 16mm F1.4 lens - https://amzn.to/4ieZJ7Y🌞 Variable ND filter - https://amzn.to/3QEMGku🎤 Rode Wireless Pro - https://amzn.to/4ipDjAO📍 Tripod - https://amzn.to/3F5hSqA💡 Lights - https://amzn.to/43fFVgu🎛️ Spider Greycard - https://amzn.to/43jYFv8Disclaimer: The above are affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission—at no extra cost to you—if you choose to buy through them. It’s one of the ways I support this channel and keep creating content. Thanks for your support!Timestamps00:00 - Introduction and Early Life Reflections00:44 - Career Journey and Leadership at JP Morgan01:10 - Guest Introduction and Episode Overview02:11 - Social Media Presence and Personal Anecdotes03:41 - Family Background and Upbringing10:02 - Educational Pursuits and Early Career Decisions23:30 - Navigating Career Challenges and Technology Insights28:24 - Leadership During the Pandemic36:37 - Navigating Post-Pandemic Challenges37:25 - Community Impact and Office Return39:51 - Personal Reflections and Leadership41:59 - Advice to Younger Self48:46 - Future Vision and Legacy53:07 - Hot Takes on Technology and Innovation01:04:23 - Final Thoughts and Farewell📈 Sub Count: 516

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4 months ago
1 hour 7 minutes 37 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
Why I’ll Never Rely on One Income Again (Rebuilding After Redundancy)

In this episode, Andrew Arere shares his remarkable journey from selling hand-made art at 16 to managing global tech and telecom projects, and how being made redundant in the UK was a transformative moment in his life. Through personal stories of challenges and triumphs, Andrew discusses how mindset, resilience, and entrepreneurial spirit have driven his success. Learn how he built his real estate business, Clarinet Properties, and invested in over 25 properties since 2016. Whether you're an immigrant, navigating career crossroads, or an aspiring entrepreneur, Andrew's story offers practical wisdom and deep perspective. Join us as we explore the power of a positive mindset and the entrepreneurial hustle.🔗 Connect with Andrew Arere⁠LinkedIn - https://uk.linkedin.com/in/andrewarereClarinet Properties - https://clarinetproperties.co.uk/

*Resources mentioned*

The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale

The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson



Gear I Use

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📍 Tripod - https://amzn.to/3F5hSqA

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Disclaimer - the links above are affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission—at no extra cost to you—if you choose to buy through them. It’s one of the ways I support this channel and keep creating content. Thanks for the support!


Timestamps

00:00 - Early Lessons in Entrepreneurship

00:35 - Facing Redundancy and Finding New Paths

00:57 - Introduction to Real Estate

01:24 - Guest Introduction: Andrew Re's Journey

02:37 - Andrew Re's Background and Mindset

04:08 - Overcoming Early Life Challenges

06:01 - Mentorship and Positive Thinking

12:32 - Entrepreneurial Beginnings and Family Influence

23:35 - Navigating Career Transitions

28:43 - Venturing into Oil and Gas

29:11 - Journey to the UK

47:00 - Gaining Skills and Confidence

49:46 - Facing Redundancy

53:34 - Rediscovering Entrepreneurship

57:23 - Starting in Real Estate

01:02:56 - Scaling the Property Business

01:22:41 - Reflections and Advice

01:30:01 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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5 months ago
1 hour 33 minutes 16 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
The Only Thing You Can’t Get Back: A Story About Time, Loss, and Living Fully

🎧 Join us on this fun and deeply reflective conversation with Alex, a creative technologist whose journey spans five jobs, three countries, and one seismic shift in perspective.We talked about what it means to truly live when death becomes real. Alex shares how losing her father redefined her view on time, regret, and what truly matters. We explored how much of who we are is shaped by culture, family, survival—and how to start reclaiming our truest selves. From leaving rural Romania to taking bold leaps in Barcelona, Alex reminds us that courage doesn’t mean having it all figured out—it means taking the next step anyway.If you’ve ever wrestled with honoring your roots while forging your future, or wondered what it really means to live intentionally, this one is for you.⏳ A joyful journey into the unknown awaits.🔗 Connect with Alex RaduLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/maradu/ 📚 Resources mentioned1. When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi2. Slow Productivity by Cal Newport3. A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah J. MaasTimestamps00:00 - Reflecting on Life and Death00:53 - Introducing Alex Radu01:49 - Alex's Journey from Romania02:50 - Cultural Differences and Work Ethic04:26 - Adapting to Change and New Environments07:34 - The Impact of Family and Community10:16 - Career Milestones and Personal Growth16:00 - The Seismic Shift: Dealing with Loss20:40 - Living with Purpose and Meaning28:07 - Advice to Younger Self31:07 - Reflecting on Past Decisions31:49 - Inspiration from an 83-Year-Old Friend34:23 - Living in the Present36:58 - First World Problems and Helping Others37:59 - Rapid Fire Questions and Hot Takes42:16 - Learning Languages44:35 - Proud Moments and Life Reflections52:03 - Final Thoughts and FarewellGear I Use📷 Sony ZV-E10 – https://amzn.to/41nuUqP📸 Sigma 16mm F1.4 lens – https://amzn.to/4ieZJ7Y🌞 Variable ND filter – https://amzn.to/3QEMGku🎤 Rode Wireless Pro – https://amzn.to/4ipDjAO📍 Tripod – https://amzn.to/3F5hSqA💡 Lights – https://amzn.to/43fFVgu🎛️ Spider Greycard – https://amzn.to/43jYFv8🛍️ Disclaimer: These are affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission—at no extra cost to you—if you choose to purchase through them. It helps support the channel. Thank you!

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5 months ago
55 minutes 15 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
The Hardest Years in Business—And What It Takes to Survive Them | The Buck's Bar Story

In this episode of 'Stories that Shape Us,' Michael Bergson shares his journey from the financial struggles of running his first restaurant, Soho, during the 2008 credit crunch, to the successful establishment of his food business, Bucks Bar. Michael discusses his initial challenges, including relying on lunch takings to pay staff and suppliers and the turning point that led to Bucks Bar becoming a profitable and well-loved staple in Glasgow. He emphasizes the importance of tradition over trends, the critical nature of location, funding methods, maintaining consistency, and effective branding. Throughout the conversation, Michael also shares personal insights about his motivation, driven by a desire to repay his father's efforts, and the joy he finds in growing his business and supporting his team. This episode provides valuable lessons for aspiring restauranteurs on resilience, strategic planning, and the impactful role of social media in modern business.00:00 The Struggles of Running a Restaurant02:00 Introduction to Michael Braxton03:35 Michael's Journey into the Food Industry06:34 The Birth of Bucks Bar13:08 Overcoming Financial Challenges27:21 The Impact of Social Media and Lockdown35:05 Advice for Aspiring Restaurateurs37:42 Catchment Area Essentials38:42 Funding Your Restaurant39:53 The Brewer's Loan Explained42:37 Business Rates and Tax Models43:47 Designing Your Kitchen and Menu45:02 Ensuring Consistency in Recipes46:25 Centralized Production Kitchen47:56 Validating Recipes and Branding53:09 Balancing Costs and Outsourcing55:38 Growth and Employee Development59:28 Reflecting on the Journey01:05:48 Rapid Fire Questions

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6 months ago
1 hour 8 minutes 40 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
When the Life You Planned Falls Apart: Dr. Clara Doran on an MS Diagnosis, Identity & the Quiet Strength of Starting Again

Dr. Clara Doran spent years helping others as a GP — until a life-altering diagnosis flipped her world from healer to patient. In this powerful conversation, she opens up about living with MS, how invisible illness reshaped her identity, and the hope she found on the other side of fear.We talk about:• Navigating chronic illness as a doctor and mother• The emotional toll of invisible symptoms• Rebuilding purpose after everything changesThis is a story of resilience, redefinition, and learning to listen to your body.Order Dr. Clara’s audiobook, Doctor Interrupted: https://amzn.to/4j6J72r.Please note that this is an affiliate link.

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7 months ago
1 hour 21 minutes 18 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
How Fighter Pilots Stay Calm in Life-or-Death Moments – Dave Tait (ex-RAF Pilot)

In this episode, we delve into the extraordinary life and career of Dave Tate, a former Wing Commander of the UK's Royal Air Force and an esteemed fighter pilot with over 2,000 flying hours. Dave recounts the harrowing close call where two ravens almost took his life, his experiences in Iraq and Afghanistan, and the challenges of leading RAF's elite 617 Squadron, famed as the 'Dambusters'.


Learn about the rigorous training, the emotional toll of losing comrades, and how he managed to balance work and family life. Dave also shares invaluable lessons on discipline, resilience, leadership, and transitioning to a career at J.P. Morgan. Prepare to be inspired by Dave's journey from flying some of the world's most advanced fighter jets to excelling in the corporate world.Timestamps00:00 A Near-Death Experience in the Cockpit01:15 Meet Dave Tate: A Decorated RAF Pilot04:57 Early Life and Influences10:05 Choosing the Air Force Over Law34:33 Rigorous Training and Near-Death Experience38:22 Unexpected Encounter with Ravens39:31 Critical Moments in the Cockpit41:47 Emergency Landing and Aftermath43:39 Reflections on Training and Resilience45:34 The Bond of Military Brotherhood48:29 Tragic Loss and Coping Mechanisms56:31 Transition to Civilian Life01:04:56 Reflections and Career Lessons01:14:34 Final Thoughts and GratitudeGear I Use📷 Sony ZV-E10 - https://amzn.to/41nuUqP📸 Sigma 16mm F1.4 lens - https://amzn.to/4ieZJ7Y🌞 Variable ND filter - https://amzn.to/3QEMGku🎤 Rode Wireless Pro - https://amzn.to/4ipDjAO📍 Tripod - https://amzn.to/3F5hSqA💡 Lights - https://amzn.to/43fFVgu🎛️ Spider Greycard - https://amzn.to/43jYFv8#FighterPilot #HighPerformance #StayCalm #MentalResilience #mindsetmattersmore #podcast #RAF #Aviation

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7 months ago
1 hour 20 minutes 12 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
How I Built Two Billion-Dollar Companies Without Being a Tech Expert or an MBA | Iyinoluwa Aboyeji

In this episode, we sit down with Iyinoluwa Aboyeji, co-founder of Andela, Flutterwave, and Future Africa. From narrowly missing a tragic plane crash to building some of Africa’s most impactful tech companies, Iyin shares his remarkable journey, driven by faith, service, and an unrelenting desire to create opportunities for others.🔑 Key Topics & Lessons with Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction“I may not be technical, but I can sell” – Iyin’s unique entrepreneurial edge.02:00 – Faith as a Foundation“I see entrepreneurship as a ministry to help people flourish.”04:30 – Surviving a Plane Crash“That moment made me realize life isn’t a game. I had to take it seriously.”06:45 – Turning Pain into Purpose“I wanted to honor my friends who died by creating impact in their absence.”09:00 – Discovering Entrepreneurship“I thought solving Nigeria’s problems meant working at the UN—until I learned what entrepreneurship could do.”12:00 – First Startup Lessons with Bookneto“Solution selling means listening to your customers and building what they need.”17:45 – Navigating Failure and Pivoting“Our professors hated us—until we helped them make money.”27:00 – The Power of Collaboration“Working alone? You might build a $10M company. With a strong team? A $1B company.”31:00 – From Andela to Flutterwave“You don’t need an MBA to run a company. You need the opportunity.”35:00 – Continuous Learning as a Superpower“I read books, articles, and talk to people to stay sharp and connected.”38:00 – Overcoming Imposter Syndrome“I’m confident because I know how little I know—and that’s okay.”41:00 – Mastering the Art of Selling“Step into your customer’s shoes, reverse-engineer their needs, and offer solutions they can’t resist.”43:00 – Impact Over Profit“It’s not about the unicorns. It’s about the lives we’ve changed.”46:00 – Advice to Young Entrepreneurs“Be more attuned to God’s leading and take risks—it’s a kingdom principle.”📚 Recommended Resources by Iyinoluwa Aboyeji:1. Zero to One by Peter Thiel – Understanding what technology can truly do.2. Founders at Work by Jessica Livingston – Real stories of startup struggles and successes.3. The Bible – Timeless wisdom for clear thinking, resilience, and purpose-driven entrepreneurship.🛠️ Top Advice for Entrepreneurs:“Find a customer and build around their needs. Be willing to take risks, collaborate with the best, and always be learning.”

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8 months ago
53 minutes 57 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
Breaking Free from Impostor Syndrome & Owning Your Space - Shilpi Roy

Join us in this inspiring episode as we dive deep into the world of Shilpi Roy, Vice President in Technology at JP Morgan, an Indian classical dancer, and a mom to a toddler. Shilpi opens up about combating imposter syndrome and navigating through her multifaceted life and career. From her upbringing in a diverse Indian household to her challenges and triumphs in the tech industry, Shilpi’s story serves as a beacon of hope and motivation for anyone struggling to find their voice and place in this world. Whether you’re a young girl from a small town in India, a tech enthusiast, or someone facing personal hurdles, Shilpi’s journey will inspire you to take bold steps for your growth. Tune in for valuable insights on embracing empathy, seeking mentorship, and breaking societal norms to achieve greater success.00:00 - Overcoming Imposter Syndrome00:59 - Introducing Shilpi Roy03:18 - Shilpi's Early Life and Family08:04 - Cultural Diversity and Childhood Memories12:25 - Journey into Technology13:50 - Transition to the UK15:30 - Lessons from a Tech Career20:06 - Balancing Multiple Roles21:05 - Reflecting on Personal Achievements22:31 - Advocating for Diversity in Tech24:37 - Overcoming Imposter Syndrome28:03 - Motherhood and Aspirations36:01 - Closing Thoughts and Advice

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8 months ago
44 minutes 59 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
Back After 8 Months: Life Updates, Growth & Embracing Imperfection

I Almost Didn’t Come Back – Life Updates & A New Direction

It’s been 8 months… and I almost didn’t return to this microphone.

A lot has changed. The biggest change? We had a baby. In this episode, I share how fatherhood has completely reshaped my life, my struggles with perfectionism and procrastination, and why I’ve been hesitant to relaunch this podcast.

But here’s the thing—perfectionism has held me back for too long. This year, I’m choosing to embrace growth over perfection, authenticity over overthinking, and the journey over the destination.

I also want to hear from you:
➡️ How has life changed for you recently?
➡️ What’s a lesson you’ve learned?
➡️ How do you handle procrastination and perfectionism?

Drop a comment, send a message, or share your thoughts—I want this to be a conversation, not just me talking into a mic.

Let’s grow together. New episodes every two weeks.

🎥 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@storiesthatshapeuspod

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8 months ago
5 minutes 37 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
Announcement: Temporary Break and Updates

In this update, Samuel announces a temporary break to allow the team to recharge, refocus, and plan new content. During this break, please connect with us on social media, revisit our past episodes, and leave reviews on various platforms to help the podcast reach more people. We are grateful for your support!


Social Media Handles:

LinkedIn | X | Instagram | Tiktok


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1 year ago
2 minutes 1 second

Stories That Shape Us
The Courage to Face Your Dreams featuring Dr Susie Mitchell, Enoch Adeyemi and Ken Okoroafor

The podcast episode, hosted by Blessing, features the inspiring stories of three individuals: Susie Mitchell, a singer who conquered her nerves to excel in her music career; Enoch, who battled isolation and intimidation to build a successful career in finance; and Ken, who, along with his wife Mary, built a financial empowerment platform despite initial uncertainties. Susie talks about preparing rigorously to overcome impostor syndrome, Enoch shares his perseverance in the face of challenges in the finance industry, and Ken and Mary discuss launching 'The Humble Penny' to share their journey towards financial independence. Each story underscores the importance of tenacity, hard work, and facing fears to realize one’s dreams.


All three guests have featured on the podcast in the past. You can listen to their episodes here:

Enoch Adeyemi - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1aGr0c1vBnWO0DtjiSgYmB?si=45fa31c657f745c0

Dr Susie Mitchell - https://open.spotify.com/episode/1IX8X5WQrBmNTLtOGXX8is?si=4f16122afb784cd7

Ken Okoroafor - https://open.spotify.com/episode/6g2Rc6OwUaLSQGEIrRlCky?si=de90b6f9124a49dc


00:00 Welcome and Introduction to Overcoming Fear and Doubt

00:29 Susie Michelle's Journey: From Nervous Backup Singer to Star

01:59 Enoch's Uphill Battle in the Finance World

06:25 Ken and Mary's Dream: Building The Humble Penny

13:54 The Power of Persistence: Enoch's Continued Journey

19:40 Concluding Thoughts: The Importance of Trying and Giving Back

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1 year ago
21 minutes 46 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
The Emotional Rollercoaster of Passion Projects: Reflections on Podcasting

In this candid episode, host Samuel reflects on the first year of his podcast "Stories That Shape Us" and the emotional rollercoaster of pursuing a passion project alongside a full-time job and family commitments. He shares his struggles with slow growth, self-doubt, and feeling overwhelmed, but also the encouragement he receives from listeners that keeps him motivated.

Key Topics:

  • The "startup curve" concept and the "trough of sorrow" phase where growth stagnates
  • Dealing with uncertainty, doubts, and considering pivots like rebranding
  • The importance of listener feedback and small encouragements
  • Lessons from Phil Knight's book "Shoe Dog" about persevering through failures
  • Transparency about the highs and lows of an ambitious side project
  • Invitation for listeners to share their own resilience stories

Quotes:

"Fear not failure, but learn from it, start afresh, be smart."

"We'll run this podcast, right, committed, not swayed. By disappointments that ruffle this vision to fade, it is one that we believe in, our efforts will tell."


Call to Action: Share experiences dealing with letdowns or lack of progress on personal pursuits by emailing podcast@samuelagbede.com.

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1 year ago
5 minutes 54 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
Scars to Superpowers: Embracing Life's Challenges with Peju Abuchi

In this episode of 'Stories that Shape Us', Samuel dives into an in-depth conversation with Peju Abuchi, an educator and poet passionate about using her work to empower marginalized communities and heal through poetry. Peju shares insights into her upbringing filled with love, laughter, and encouragement, emphasizing the profound impact of parental support and instilling confidence from a young age. She reflects on a pivotal childhood accident that brought empathy and resilience into her life, shaping her commitment to advocacy and empowerment. Peju discusses her journey from Nigeria to the UK, the challenges and joys of parenthood, and the creation of her book 'A Poetic Odyssey of Proclamations', aiming to project positivity and hope through words. Closing with a poignant poem, Peju underscores the theme of decluttering the mind for genuine freedom and self-discovery. This episode not only highlights Peju's personal and professional milestones but also explores broader themes of legacy, vulnerability, and the transformative power of storytelling and poetry.


Peju's book - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Poetic-Odyssey-Proclamations-ways-goodness/dp/1739807219


Connect with Peju - https://www.linkedin.com/in/peju-the-spark-abuchi-iamb-22a6b254/


00:00 The Power of Positive Upbringing

02:06 Welcome to 'Stories That Shape Us' Podcast

03:13 Peju's Journey: From Healing Through Poetry to Finding Her Voice

05:28 Rapid-Fire Questions: Peju's Favorites and Influences

08:43 Unpacking Scars: Peju's Story of Healing and Empowerment

16:36 Reflecting on Childhood and the Impact of Scars

18:25 Life's Pivotal Moments: From Nigeria to the UK

24:25 Building Community and Longing for Home

27:15 Fostering Connections: Creating Community Away from Home

28:22 Empowerment and the Journey of Giving Back

29:03 The Influence of Parental Love and Values

29:18 Finding Purpose Beyond Career Paths

29:41 Building Community and Empowerment Among Parents

32:14 The Power of Positive Affirmation from Parents

34:43 Parenting Insights and Challenges

39:48 The Impact of Personal Trauma on Empathy and Giving

45:24 Vulnerability and Connection Through Shared Experiences

49:42 The Creative Process and Inspiration Behind Writing

52:15 Reflective Insights and Legacy

53:58 Closing Poem: Clearing the Clutter

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1 year ago
55 minutes 19 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
Irritatingly Optimistic: Kevin Cameron's Journey Through Positivity, Empathy, and Personal Growth

In this episode, Kevin shares his life philosophy of relentless optimism, which some find irritating, and his growth mindset. His journey from being adopted, navigating an adoption identity with positivity, through to achieving career success in technology is shared with openness. Kevin delves into the personal and professional strategies that propelled him forward, including the power of networking and the importance of focusing on what truly matters like relationships and family. Additionally, he explores the value of sports, particularly running, in maintaining mental health and discipline. Key takeaways include insights on empathetic leadership, adopting a growth mindset, and the life-shaping influence of formative relationships and open communication.


Bio

Kevin Cameron is a seasoned professional with an impressive 20-year career in technology, which has had no shortage of challenges. He has an unquenchable passion for learning and is always looking for ways to apply technology to his everyday life, health & fitness.

Beyond the realms of technology, Kevin finds solace and joy in exploring the great outdoors alongside his wife, daughter, and son. A fervent enthusiast of ultramarathons, Kevin has conquered distances ranging from 27 to an astounding 96 miles. These challenging trails not only fuel the passion for physical endurance but also serve as a crucible for critical thinking.


Connect with Kevin Cameron - https://uk.linkedin.com/in/kevinmarkcameron


00:00 The Power of Positivity: Embracing an Optimistic Outlook

01:07 A Journey of Self-Discovery: From Adoption to Ultra Marathons

01:53 Welcome to 'Stories That Shape Us': A Mentorship Tale

04:34 Navigating Career and Challenges in Technology

07:31 Family Ties and the Impact of Adoption

17:31 Marriage, Parenthood, and the Lessons Learned

22:15 Empathetic Leadership: Building Trust and Connection

30:26 Career Progression Insights: The Importance of Networking

31:44 Navigating Career Progression: Strategies and Insights

33:46 The Power of Networking: Making Genuine Connections

36:13 From Sports Enthusiast to Ultra Marathon Runner: A Personal Journey

41:50 The Impact of Physical Activity on Professional Success and Well-being

44:03 Reflecting on Life's Journey: Gratitude, Advice, and Future Aspirations

47:51 Rapid Fire Questions: Insights into Personal Preferences and Influences

56:01 The Essence of Mentorship: A Closing Reflection

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1 year ago
58 minutes 22 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
Kindness In The Workplace: Stories from the Isle of Arran

The Power of Kindness in the Workplace: Lessons from the Isle of Arran


In this episode, the speaker shares a personal journey from recently graduating from Glasgow Uni to taking up a temporary job as a Kitchen Porter on the Isle of Arran before starting their career. Initially, the job seemed appealing due to decent pay, free accommodation, and the beautiful location. However, the task proved to be more challenging than anticipated. The real turning point came when a fellow kitchen porter showed kindness, shared valuable tips, and helped time pass more enjoyably. This experience led the speaker to realize the significant impact that kind, considerate colleagues can have on job satisfaction, regardless of the role's nature. The episode emphasizes the importance of being a supportive and kind colleague, which doesn't compromise the quality of work but enhances the workplace environment by embracing humanity and mutual care.


00:00 Embarking on a New Adventure: The Isle of Arran

00:38 The Reality of Kitchen Porter Work

01:03 Lessons Learned from a Tasking Job

01:52 The Power of Kindness in the Workplace

02:16 Conclusion: Embracing Humanity and Care

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1 year ago
2 minutes 18 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
Learn To Love Yourself: John Hill On Losing Loved Ones, Entrepreneurship, Family and Life Lessons

In this episode, John Hill shares a deeply personal journey reflecting on the importance of self-care, resilience, and embracing life's unpredictability. From his early life in Glasgow, experiences of familial change, to his career pivots from civil engineering to empowering unemployed individuals and nurturing entrepreneurial potential, John reveals the themes of nurturing human potential and the pivotal moments that shaped his perspective on life and career. He discusses significant personal challenges, from fertility struggles to family health crises, underscoring the power of resilience and the impact of caring relationships. John also reflects on generational changes, parenting, and the importance of being true to oneself, offering insights on making a difference and caring for oneself to effectively support others.


00:00 The Importance of Self-Care and Empathy

00:57 A Personal Story of Loss and Influence

02:30 Introducing John Hill: A Journey of Growth and Development

03:18 From Glasgow to Global: John Hill's Early Life and Career Shifts

07:28 Empowering the Unemployed: A Mission in Castlemilk

08:31 The Ripple Effect of Empowerment and Success

21:02 Navigating Life's Challenges and Embracing Personal Growth

24:43 Understanding Grief and the Personal Journey Through It

25:41 The Impact of Grief and Remembering Loved Ones

26:02 The Influence of a Cherished Uncle

29:22 Confronting Infertility and Embracing Parenthood

32:26 Navigating Life's Unpredictability and Challenges

40:29 Reflections on Vulnerability and Personal Growth

41:25 Rapid-Fire Questions: Insights and Favorites

46:07 Final Thoughts: The Importance of Caring for Yourself and Others

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1 year ago
48 minutes 49 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
The Scientist Once Dismissed as "Educationally Subnormal": Sir Geoff Palmer's Inspirational Journey (episode recap)

In this episode, Professor Emeritus Sir Geoff Palmer, the first Black Professor in Scotland and Chancellor of Heriot-Watt University, shares two pivotal experiences from his life that helped shape his future. Arriving in the UK in 1955 as part of the Windrush generation, he recounts how he was initially deemed uneducable but was later accepted by a secondary school headmaster, Mr. Bullen, which set him on a path to higher education. This experience led him to excel in cricket and further his education, eventually attending Leicester University. After facing employment challenges despite his degree, Palmer describes a transformative interview with Professor Anna MacLeod at Heriot-Watt University, which led to his PhD and a distinguished career in academia. MacLeod's decision to ignore traditional indicators of 'keenness' and focus on Palmer's genuine character and qualifications demonstrated an early recognition of the need for wider access in higher education, a principle that would guide both of their careers.


00:00 Introduction to the Episode

00:12 Influential Figures in Geoff Palmer's Life

00:24 Early Life and Challenges in London

01:49 The Turning Point: Education and Cricket

03:15 Overcoming Racial Prejudice and Pursuing Higher Education

06:01 The Impact of Professor Anna MacLeod

08:49 Reflections on Wider Access and Diversity

09:36 Gratitude and Acknowledgments

10:22 Closing Remarks and Call to Action

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1 year ago
10 minutes 32 seconds

Stories That Shape Us
Stories That Shape Us is a podcast which celebrates the power of personal stories to inspire and connect us. Everyone has a story worth telling and our aim is to curate life-defining lessons, experiences and stories of people around the world and democratise these to people who need them in their journeys. From tales of personal growth to tales of resilience, we explore how these stories have shaped the lives of our guests and how they can inspire us to live our own lives more fully and empathetically. Join us as we uncover the stories that shape us all.