Summary   Anita P. Stoudmire, M.S., LPC. is a mental health professional and creator of the Better Love Movement, discusses topics such as loneliness, relationships, attachment styles, and narcissistic personality disorder. She emphasizes the importance of holding space for others, developing healthy friendships, and avoiding toxic individuals. Anita also addresses the impact of consumerism on mental health and the need for individuals to define their own success. She offers resources such as her YouTube channel and books to help women navigate relationships and make better choices.   Takeaways Loneliness is a prevalent issue, especially among young men, and is often caused by a lack of social skills and meaningful connections. Attachment styles, such as dismissive avoidant, can contribute to relationship difficulties and loneliness. Narcissistic personality disorder can be harmful to mental health, and it's important to recognize and avoid individuals with this disorder. Consumerism and the pressure to impress others can negatively impact mental health and lead to feelings of emptiness. It is crucial to define success and beauty on one's own terms and live within one's means. Developing healthy friendships and holding space for others can help combat loneliness and improve mental well-being.   Quotes "Men between the ages of 18 and 30 have the highest rate of loneliness." "Dismissive avoidant attachment style: lone wolves who interact with others solely to get their needs met." "Dating apps have become a playground for narcissistic and avoidant individuals." Chapters 00:00Introduction and Anita's Background 05:01Loneliness and Attachment Styles 09:39Narcissistic Personality Disorder in Relationships 14:07The Impact of Consumerism on Mental Health 19:27Defining Success and Beauty on Your Own Terms 24:29Developing Healthy Friendships and Holding Space for Others About with Southern Soul Live Stream - Podshow Witty, thought-provoking, and uplifting, Southern Soul Livestream - Podshow is the program that you’ll invite friends over to watch every week, where you’ll learn about fascinating speakers and get to share in exciting experiences. Tune in each Thursday at 8 pm eastern at SoulThursdays.com to connect with guests from across the generations and to laugh with our "cast of characters," hosts who are as charming as they are talented!   Support - Community Exploratory Journalism  Buy us  A Coffee!  Learn - Register for our free podcast workshop training Getting Start in Podcasting Workshop Shop - Southern Soul Official Merchandise  Buy  Official Merchandise Purchase Official Show Companion  SSL Companion & Journal   Register -  Join a Live Episode Show - “It’s a Whole Vibe!”  Click here to register.   #BecauseIhaveaBlackSon #BlackSon Connect with us Website: www.SoulThursdays.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/soulthursdays/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/soulthursdays/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/soulthursdays TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@soulthursdays