Hey Family,

In this podcast episode, I discuss the harmful effects of comparing the struggles of different marginalized groups, particularly antisemitism and anti-Black racism. While we can acknowledge the pain of antisemitism, we must emphasize that these comparisons minimize the unique suffering of Black individuals and communities, oversimplify complex issues, and create unnecessary competition. I advocate for empathy, solidarity, and open dialogue between communities as a better way forward to fight against all forms of hate and discrimination.

I also wrote about this in more detail in a May edition of my newsletter; the link is below.

https://open.substack.com/pub/rabbisandra/p/unity-not-competition-dismantling-394

This episode focuses on the transformative power of starting each day with gratitude, a key aspect of Jewish tradition. It discusses the challenge of maintaining a routine of daily prayers and offers a simpler approach: choosing one meaningful prayer to cultivate a mindset of thankfulness from the day's start. The episode highlights how this practice leads to greater optimism and resilience, positively influencing the entire day. It also touches on the role of gratitude in Jewish morning prayers, encouraging listeners to adopt this practice for a more fulfilled and serene life.

Lately, my mind has been preoccupied with the nature of our conversations—the very way we exchange ideas and navigate through differences. In an era marked by quick judgments and digital debates, the art of dialogue seems all but forgotten. 

https://rabbisandra.substack.com

Hello and welcome to our first episode of Soulful Shalom. Thank you so much for joining us today.  My Jewish values inform how move through the world and I believe they can be a wonderful guide to help anyone regardless if you are Jewish I believe Jewish values are universal and can help everyone. Today we are going to talk about disagreements. Sadly, even though social media and the 24-hour news cycle may make us feel more connected in many ways it is producing the opposite effect.. So today we are going to talk about a Jewish value about disagrements Machloket L'Shem Shamayim. I’ll get to what it means in a moment  In an age where polarizing opinions often dominate the discourse, it becomes increasingly vital to engage in conversations with grace, patience, and an eagerness to understand. As differences arise and disagreements unfold, the manner in which we address and respond to these conflicts not only determines the immediate outcomes but also shapes the broader societal narrative. A principle rooted in ancient Jewish wisdom offers a roadmap to navigate these challenging terrains. The Talmud is full of examples of Machloket L'Shem Shamayim, most notably between the two schools of thought led by Hillel and Shammai. Hillel and Shammai disagreed on a wide range of issues, but they were always able to engage in civil and respectful discourse. They were also willing to change their minds when presented with new information or a different perspective. Machloket L'Shem Shamayim (Disagreement for the Sake of Heaven) is a Jewish ideal that emphasizes the importance of constructive disagreement in the pursuit of truth. It is the idea that we should be able to disagree with others in a respectful and open-minded way, with the goal of learning from each other and arriving at the best possible understanding of a situation. Key Principles of Machloket L'Shem Shamayim: Respect for the other person: Even if we disagree with someone, we should always treat them with respect. This means listening to their perspective thoughtfully and without interrupting, even if we find it difficult. Open-mindedness: We should be willing to consider different perspectives, even those that challenge our own beliefs. We should also be willing to admit when we are wrong. The pursuit of truth: The goal of disagreement should not be to win an argument, but to learn and to arrive at the best possible understanding of a situation. Conclusion: In today's interconnected world, where differing opinions often lead to division rather than dialogue, the values encapsulated by Machloket L'Shem Shamayim stand as a testament to the potential for harmonious coexistence amidst disagreement. By embracing these principles in our interactions, we not only foster personal growth but also pave the way for a more compassionate and cohesive society. Through understanding and mutual respect, we can transform discord into an opportunity for shared growth and enlightenment.

Soulful Shalom: a Podcast Exploring Judaism & Jewish Values and Jewish wisdom in just minutes. Each episode, I'll share a bit of wisdom that comes from the Jewish tradition. We will touch on history, ethics and other pieces of wisdom and I can assure you it will be relatable today. I'm recording this from my home office, so every once in a while you may hear a dog barking or two. So come and join me and together we will discuss thousands of years of wisdom in just a few short minutes.