
Welcome to the very first episode of Soul Kink Therapy. Today, I am honored to welcome Jenny Raven, a UK-based cross-dresser and erotica author, for a deeply vulnerable conversation about what it means to live a double life.
In this session, Jenny shares their lifelong journey, from the earliest childhood memories of wanting to be a girl to the shame and secrecy that forced their feminine identity, Jenny, into hiding for years. We explore how writing erotica became an outlet and a way for Jenny to finally have a voice. This is a raw and honest look at the pain of the "invisible masculine," the trauma that can shape our identities, and the powerful, healing nature of kink when approached with intention.
The conversation culminates in a beautiful and emotional moment as I witness Jenny Raven reveal their true self visually for the first time in a public-facing forum. We then move through a therapeutic embodiment practice to help Jenny fully step into her being. This is a profound story of courage, self-discovery, and the liberation that comes from finally speaking your truth.
00:00 - 02:45 - Welcome to Soul Kink Therapy with Jenny Raven
02:45 - 05:40 - Jenny's Earliest Memories of Wanting to Be a Girl
05:40 - 09:15 - A Double Life: Hiding in the Closet & Writing Erotica
09:15 - 12:00 - "Am I Normal?" - Exploring the Cross-Dresser Experience
12:00 - 15:10 - The Pain of the "Invisible Masculine"
15:10 - 18:05 - The Childhood Trauma That Locked Jenny Away
18:05 - 20:30 - The Reveal: Meeting Jenny Raven
20:30 - 24:10 - An Embodiment Practice to Welcome Jenny
24:10 - 29:30 - Exploring Jenny's Desires & Triggers
29:30 - 33:15 - The Power of Voice: An Instruction from Jenny
33:15 - 37:25 - Unblocking the Voice & Healing the Inner Child
37:25 - 41:10 - A Message of Hope: "Speak Your Truth Now"
41:10 - 54:18 - How to Find Jenny Raven & Final Thoughts
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