You know how we love to say ‘that’s just how I am’ anytime someone calls us out?

Well… maybe it’s not your person, maybe it’s just a habit you’ve refused to change.

On this week’s episode of The Skinnies Podcast, I’m breaking down the attitudes we hide under that phrase — from pride to gossip to grumpiness during periods.

Give it a listen, it might just check you a little bit — in a good way.”

In this episode of Skinnies Podcast, Ayinke takes a look into the heart of Nigeria’s protest culture, exploring the passion, pain, and power (or powerlessness) behind the people’s voices. From student marches to street barricades, we ask: what truly comes after the chant “We no go gree”?

Remember how we saw in movies and heard in stories that parents, aunties, even neighbors take it upon themselves to find “the one.” But somewhere along the line, things changed. In this episode, we talk about what’s lost, what’s still beautiful, and what we might need to bring back… just done right this time.

Beyond romance lies risk. Ayinke tells the story of a bride-to-be whose dream turned into a nightmare after contracting Hepatitis from her fiancé.A sequel to Sex Before Marriage .

Is it love, or just about the money? In this episode of The Skinnies Podcast, Ayinke digs into the truth behind age-gap attraction—why some women prefer older men, why some men go for older women, and whether it’s real love or just a stereotype. With faith, facts, and a little humor, we ask the big question: Sugar Daddy? Real Love or Not?

Sometimes life teaches us that the things we once criticized can become the very things we embrace. In this episode, I reflect on how my personal journey reminded me that growth has the power to shift perspectives, reshape values, and open us up to deeper understanding. It’s a story about change, acceptance, and the beauty of seeing life through a new lens.

We recorded this conversation back in 2021 — miles apart, connected only through Telegram, with all the raw edges of early podcasting. The audio might be a little wacky, but the topic? Still powerful.

In this episode, my co-host and I dive into one of the most debated topics: sex before marriage. We share perspectives, ask the hard questions, and hold nothing back.

Two years later, we’re bringing it back — because the conversation is far from over.

🎧 Tune in, reflect, and let’s keep the dialogue alive.