One of the biggest frustrations among singles is NOT being able to get a date, here are EIGHT reasons to consider why you may not be dating…
1. It’s not time!!!
2. You want to get married more than you want to walk with Jesus!
3. You are bitter!
4. You struggle with impurity!
5. You are trying too hard!!!
6. You are finding your identity in who you date (or if you can get a date) more than you are in a relationship with Jesus!
7. You are willing to compromise in order to go out with someone! If you are a follower of Jesus Christ then compromise can never be a consideration!!!
8. Especially if you are a dude…you are not responsible financially!!!
One of the worst things you could do as a single person is spend so much time evaluating other people and not actually evaluating yourself. — Perry Noble
A person can be so in love with the idea of getting married so much so that their walk with Jesus will suffer. — Perry Noble
Run hard after Jesus and look to your right and to your left and if the person you want to pursue or that is pursuing you is beside you in that run, then they’re probably the one — Perry Noble
You’ve got to ask God for brokenness rather than bitterness so that the bitterness in your life can be healed. — Perry Noble
Getting married, we’re supposed to be better together, not bitter together. — Perry Noble
Self control is a gift given to us by the Holy Spirit — Perry Noble
You can be sexually involved with someone and not be intimate with them. — Perry Noble
Sex without intimacy leads to destruction every single time. — Perry Noble
There's a difference between pursuing and stalking. — Perry Noble
Girls, if you have to consistently throw yourself at a man, that's not the man you need to be with. — Perry Noble
The person that you find your identity in- anyone other than Jesus- they’re ultimately going to let you down. Not because they’re mean. It's just because they're human. — Perry Noble
If you're a follower of Christ them compromise can never be a consideration. — Perry Noble
There’s no such thing as missionary dating. — Perry Noble
If you feel like you have to compromise before the relationship, after the relationship begins there will be nothing but compromise. — Perry Noble
If you want to find a wife, the best thing you can do today is do whatever it takes to get our of debt. — Perry Noble
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One of the biggest frustrations among singles is NOT being able to get a date, here are EIGHT reasons to consider why you may not be dating…
1. It’s not time!!!
2. You want to get married more than you want to walk with Jesus!
3. You are bitter!
4. You struggle with impurity!
5. You are trying too hard!!!
6. You are finding your identity in who you date (or if you can get a date) more than you are in a relationship with Jesus!
7. You are willing to compromise in order to go out with someone! If you are a follower of Jesus Christ then compromise can never be a consideration!!!
8. Especially if you are a dude…you are not responsible financially!!!
One of the worst things you could do as a single person is spend so much time evaluating other people and not actually evaluating yourself. — Perry Noble
A person can be so in love with the idea of getting married so much so that their walk with Jesus will suffer. — Perry Noble
Run hard after Jesus and look to your right and to your left and if the person you want to pursue or that is pursuing you is beside you in that run, then they’re probably the one — Perry Noble
You’ve got to ask God for brokenness rather than bitterness so that the bitterness in your life can be healed. — Perry Noble
Getting married, we’re supposed to be better together, not bitter together. — Perry Noble
Self control is a gift given to us by the Holy Spirit — Perry Noble
You can be sexually involved with someone and not be intimate with them. — Perry Noble
Sex without intimacy leads to destruction every single time. — Perry Noble
There's a difference between pursuing and stalking. — Perry Noble
Girls, if you have to consistently throw yourself at a man, that's not the man you need to be with. — Perry Noble
The person that you find your identity in- anyone other than Jesus- they’re ultimately going to let you down. Not because they’re mean. It's just because they're human. — Perry Noble
If you're a follower of Christ them compromise can never be a consideration. — Perry Noble
There’s no such thing as missionary dating. — Perry Noble
If you feel like you have to compromise before the relationship, after the relationship begins there will be nothing but compromise. — Perry Noble
If you want to find a wife, the best thing you can do today is do whatever it takes to get our of debt. — Perry Noble
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Perry teaches through these 10 things to consider to see if you are dating the right one:
1. They are not willing to fight for purity.
2. If they are trying to get me to compromise what God’s word says so clearly.
3. If you are always defending him/her to the people who know you, love you and love Jesus.
4. If you find yourself not wanting to talk about him/her in front of the people in your life that you KNOW may disapprove of the relationship for some reason.
5. If you know the relationships isn’t really going anywhere but you don’t want to break up because doing so would cause you to be insecure because you have allowed yourself to be identified by who you are dating rather than who you are in Christ.
6. You find out they are lying to you.
7. If you cannot confront them about issues without them losing their temper.
8. If you discover they are unfaithful to you.
9. If something about them drives you insane but you convince yourself that after you get married, that problem will go away.
10. If the Lord has specifically spoken to you and instructed you to end the relationship because you can’t or you won’t because you don’t want to hurt them or fear that if you end the relationship then you won’t have a chance at another one.
If people aren’t willing to fight for purity before they’re married, there’s a greater chance they won’t fight for it after they’re married. — Perry Noble
Purity is a fight. — Perry Noble
It is totally possible to love Jesus and at the same time have to fight for purity. — Perry Noble
You can fight better in community than you can alone. — Perry Noble
Compromise can never be a consideration if you want a setup for a healthy marriage. — Perry Noble
No one has EVER been fixed by compromise. — Perry Noble
If the relationship isn't going anywhere, a conversation is needed. — Perry Noble
If they lie to you when you're dating, it's a pattern in their life, and they will lie to you when you're married. — Perry Noble
A guy that loses his temper all the time is not someone you'll be able to trust with your heart or with your children. — Perry Noble
A woman that cannot control her emotions is not submitted to the Holy Spirit of God. — Perry Noble
If you find out that they're cheating on you, you do not need to date them. You're better than that. — Perry Noble
Marriage is a magnifier. — Perry Noble
It wasn’t that she was a bad girl or I was a bad guy. We just were not BEST for each other. — Perry Noble
Obedience is never easy, but it’s always right. — Perry Noble
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