In this episode of Simply Satisfied, host Gregory Danielson speaks with Arlene Miller, a retired attorney who left behind the world of family law to step into her true calling as a coach. Arlene shares candidly about her career in law—how the intensity of family disputes, long hours, and emotional toll eventually led to burnout. She opens up about the courage it took to walk away and how that transition became the catalyst for her personal growth.
Through her story, Arlene emphasizes that balance isn’t always possible, but harmony is. She explains how self-care, empathy, and active listening became the cornerstones of her coaching practice, offering tools that help people reconnect with themselves and build stronger relationships with others. From negotiating in the courtroom to listening with compassion as a coach, Arlene has learned that kindness and presence are the most powerful skills anyone can develop.
This conversation also shines a light on the challenges women face in balancing professional ambition with personal life. Arlene speaks about the importance of women supporting women, cultivating gratitude, and celebrating their own achievements along the way. She reminds us that listening to our inner knowing—our own voice of truth—is often the key to fulfillment and peace.
Whether you’re a professional navigating burnout, someone searching for more harmony in life, or simply interested in how empathy and gratitude can change your perspective, Arlene’s story offers wisdom that resonates deeply.
Connect with Arlene here:
Website - https://www.jewelconsultancy.com/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jewelcoach2/
Key Takeaways
Arlene transitioned from law to coaching to find a lifestyle rooted in meaning and balance.
The demands of family law revealed how emotionally taxing certain career paths can be.
Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s a necessity for harmony and resilience.
Active listening and empathy create deeper connections and better outcomes in both life and work.
Practicing gratitude transforms perspective and enhances well-being.
Women thrive when they support each other personally and professionally.
Harmony is achievable and more realistic than striving for “perfect balance.”
Personal growth comes from celebrating achievements and trusting your inner wisdom.
Chapters
00:00 – Introduction to Arlene Miller’s Journey
03:01 – Transition from Law to Coaching
05:45 – Experiences in Family Law
08:50 – Self-Discovery and Personal Growth
11:39 – Empathy in Legal Practice
14:29 – Finding Work-Life Harmony
17:25 – The Importance of Self-Care
20:29 – Listening and Negotiation Skills in Coaching
23:49 – The Power of Listening in Coaching
25:27 – Negotiation Skills and Active Listening
28:49 – Core Focus Areas in Coaching
31:03 – Overcoming Fear and Expanding Potential
34:45 – The Role of Gratitude in Personal Growth
36:28 – Finding Peace and Harmony in Life
39:29 – The Importance of Self-Care
42:38 – Lessons Learned from Relationships
