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Silver Linings
The Wheelchair Dad + Andrea
7 episodes
1 day ago
We’re Dan and Andrea Kotter—parents of six, best friends, and partners in chaos. After Dan’s accident left him paralyzed, life changed—but so did our perspective. On this podcast, we share the real, unfiltered journey of raising a big family, navigating marriage, disability, faith, and finding joy in the mess. It’s raw, it’s honest, and sometimes hilarious. Whether you’re here for the parenting stories or the deeper conversations—we’re glad you’re here.
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We’re Dan and Andrea Kotter—parents of six, best friends, and partners in chaos. After Dan’s accident left him paralyzed, life changed—but so did our perspective. On this podcast, we share the real, unfiltered journey of raising a big family, navigating marriage, disability, faith, and finding joy in the mess. It’s raw, it’s honest, and sometimes hilarious. Whether you’re here for the parenting stories or the deeper conversations—we’re glad you’re here.
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Silver Linings
What Keeps Us Going? Your Questions Answered

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In this episode, we answer frequently asked questions from our followers. From dealing with extreme pain due to injuries and conditions like arachnoiditis and multiple sclerosis. We share updates on Dan's health, including recent hospitalizations, and discuss how proper medical care and faith have played pivotal roles in our journey. We also address viewers' questions about our family, financial transparency, and the motivations behind sharing our struggles online. Join us as we offer insights, hope, and inspiration, encouraging everyone to not lose hope and keep pushing forward.

00:00 Introduction and Despair

02:02 Dan's Health Update

04:03 Managing Pain and Finding Hope

06:07 The SmartDrive Dilemma

07:33 Dan's Injury Story

09:52 Merchandise and Community Engagement

13:43 Living with Arachnoiditis

19:14 Financial Struggles and Social Media

22:14 Understanding YouTube Earnings

23:08 Addressing Criticism and Misconceptions

24:27 Family Decisions and MS Challenges

25:52 Dealing with Pain While Driving

27:38 Purpose Behind Sharing Painful Moments

32:31 Blended Family Dynamics

33:42 Healthy Eating and Inflammation

34:45 Family Background and Heritage

37:07 Love and Support Through Adversity

38:56 Travel Dreams and Final Thoughts

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3 months ago
44 minutes 41 seconds

Silver Linings
Accessibility: We See Things You've Never Had to Think About

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In this episode, we dive deep into the everyday challenges faced by wheelchair users, highlighting the significant gap between claimed accessibility and actual experience. Sharing personal stories from travel mishaps to inaccessible public places like hotels, pharmacies, and concert venues, we underscore the critical need for genuine accessibility. From narrow doorways to steep ramps and poorly designed facilities, we hope to enlighten and challenge viewers to rethink accessibility in their environments. This episode also touches on the importance of custom-built wheelchairs and the detailed considerations that go into making a space truly accessible. Join us as we advocate for better awareness and improvements in accessibility standards.00:00 Introduction 00:04 Challenges of Accessibility03:10 Travel Experiences and Accessibility Issues05:25 Hotel Accessibility Stories09:56 Parking and Campus Accessibility13:11 Pharmacy and Business Accessibility15:36 Dining Out with Accessibility Challenges19:08 Navigating Inaccessible Bathrooms21:16 Challenges at the Soccer Field24:07 Airline Wheelchair Mishaps27:45 International Travel Struggles32:21 Accessibility Issues at Venues34:08 A Call to Action for Accessibility Awareness35:24 Closing Remarks and Viewer EngagementJoin this channel to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClE6ibnQHv8wCdjshH23uhA/join---------------------------------------------------------------DISCLAIMER:Some of the links we provide in the video description or pinned comment may be affiliate links. So, we want to clarify what that means for you.When you click on an affiliate link, it means that we may earn a small commission if you decide to make a purchase or take action through that link. This commission comes at no additional cost to you. In fact, it's a way for companies to thank creators like us for promoting their products or services.Please rest assured that we only recommend products or services that we genuinely believe will be valuable to you, our cherished audience

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4 months ago
36 minutes 21 seconds

Silver Linings
The Silent Battle of Chronic Pain

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In this deep and heartfelt episode, we explore the quiet horror of living with chronic pain, featuring a touching update from Lily, who shares her ongoing battle with adhesive arachnoiditis. We discuss the daily struggles, the non-linear journey of healing, and the powerful impact of community and service. Drawing from personal experiences, we offer practical tips and medicinal recommendations that have provided some relief in managing chronic pain. With advice on advocating for yourself and finding support, we hope to inspire those struggling with invisible illnesses to keep pushing forward. Don't miss the valuable resources and strategies shared for living a fuller, more manageable life despite the pain.

00:00 Introduction to the Struggles of Chronic Pain

01:56 Personal Stories and Experiences

02:53 Lily's Journey with Chronic Pain

05:38 Dan's Battle with Chronic Pain

09:24 Coping Mechanisms and Support Systems

21:02 Advocacy and Finding Help

25:36 Community and Support Networks

27:56 The Struggle with Chronic Pain

28:52 Finding Answers and Medications

29:55 Adhesive Arachnoiditis: Diagnosis and Treatment

32:17 The Role of Anti-Inflammatory Medications

33:45 Alternative Treatments and Supplements

43:55 The Importance of Diet and Lifestyle

45:34 Faith, Prayer, and Community Support

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4 months ago
48 minutes 56 seconds

Silver Linings
I Thought a Wheelchair Meant the End - It Was Just The Beginning

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Join us as we share our incredible journey to Ethiopia with Chair The Hope, where we delivered 280 wheelchairs to those in dire need. Witness the profound impact of wheelchairs on the lives of disabled individuals in third-world countries and hear heartwarming stories, including the life-changing tale of a 16-year-old boy we call Matthew. Learn about the struggles faced by disabled individuals and their caregivers in Ethiopia, and discover the beauty and simplicity of their culture. All proceeds from this episode's ad revenue will go towards supporting Matthew and his family. Please like, share, and consider donating to Chair The Hope to make a difference.

00:00 Introduction

00:06 Journey to Ethiopia: Distributing Wheelchairs

01:10 Impact of Wheelchairs on Lives01:51 Life-Changing Trip to Africa

02:15 Meet Matthew: A Story of Hope

02:59 Chair The Hope: Mission and Impact

04:40 Stigma and Reality of Wheelchair Use

06:07 Daily Struggles and Triumphs

13:02 Matthew's Story: Overcoming Challenges

23:44 Support and Donations for Matthew

24:23 Supporting Matthew: How You Can Help

24:34 Challenges and Emotional Impact

25:40 Uplifting Stories: Wheelchair Transformations

28:47 Noah and Uriah: Heartwarming Moments

32:05 Visiting Homes: Humbling Experiences

35:09 Logistics of Delivering Wheelchairs

38:25 Acknowledging Key Contributors

40:15 Fun in Egypt: Camel Adventures

41:34 The Meaning Behind 'Matthew'

42:10 Final Thoughts and Call to Action


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4 months ago
50 minutes 45 seconds

Silver Linings
Parenting Styles: Our Journey and Struggles


In this episode we dive into the complexities of blending families, parenting with different approaches, and the emotional journey of wanting children. Especially when dealing with disabilities and fertility struggles. We share personal insights on how faith and spiritual promptings guided us through challenging decisions about expanding our family despite numerous obstacles. We dive into the power of trust in relationships, the realities of parenting from a wheelchair, and the unexpected joy and personal growth that came from welcoming two more children into our lives. This heartfelt discussion underscores the power of trust, love, and resilience in building a harmonious blended family.

00:00 Challenges of Blended Families

01:21 The Decision to Have More Children

03:31 Blending Families: Initial Struggles

04:43 Personal Reflections on Parenthood

08:20 Fertility Struggles and Adoption

16:17 Spiritual Promptings and New Beginnings

20:54 Facing Doubts and Fears of Parenthood

23:32 Navigating the Challenges of In Vitro

24:18 Experiencing the Heartbreak of Miscarriage

27:31 The Joy and Complexity of Twins

29:34 Adapting to Life with a Newborn

37:37 The Role of Older Siblings

38:32 Trusting in a Higher Plan

40:36 Concluding Thoughts and Encouragement

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4 months ago
41 minutes 20 seconds

Silver Linings
Yes, We Have Sex – Busting Misconceptions as an Interabled Couple

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In this episode, we discuss widespread misconceptions about people with disabilities, particularly focusing on Dan's life as a paraplegic and our experiences as a couple. We share personal stories, including parking troubles, grocery shopping challenges, and public misjudgments. We also dive into deeper topics such as intimacy and the role of a caregiver, exploring how we navigate our relationship dynamics and societal perceptions. Our goal is to educate and encourage open conversations that challenge prejudices and promote understanding.

00:00 Unexpected Encounter at the Parking Lot

00:48 Misconceptions About Disabilities and Intimacy

01:40 Sharing Personal Stories and Experiences

02:13 The Corvette Parking Incident

05:17 Challenges with Handicap Parking

08:38 Grocery Shopping Struggles

14:04 The Role of a Caregiver

20:00 Intimacy and Misconceptions

23:23 Addressing Misconceptions About Intimacy

24:25 Dan's Hospital Experience

26:35 Exploring Intimacy Options

29:12 The Challenges of Spontaneity

34:39 Penile Implant Decision

42:40 Living Independently with Paralysis

44:49 Final Thoughts and Encouragement


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5 months ago
46 minutes

Silver Linings
Would You Let Your Daughter Marry a Man in a Wheelchair?

Today, we delve into the journey of our family through immense challenges and how faith and divine guidance have played a crucial role. From grappling with a traumatic accident that left Andrea's first husband severely brain-injured to the serendipitous meeting and eventual marriage between Andrea and Dan, who himself faced life-altering circumstances, this episode offers a raw and emotional exploration of love, resilience, and the unwavering bond of family. Joined by Andrea's father, Jeff, and stepmother, Jody, we uncover personal anecdotes, highlight the struggles overcome, and discuss the deeper purpose we feel brought us together. This episode is filled with deep conversations, emotions, and the beautiful complexity of navigating life as a blended family.What's in this episode:00:00 Divine Guidance and Initial Struggles01:51 Introducing the Parents and Deep Conversations02:44 The Motorcycle Accident and Its Aftermath09:15 Meeting Dan and Navigating New Relationships16:16 Family Concerns and Misunderstandings25:46 Overcoming Judgments and Finding Support29:36 Reflecting on Difficult Choices30:18 Navigating Early Relationship Challenges30:41 Coping with Trauma and Grief32:09 Support and Understanding in Marriage33:32 Family Dynamics and Acceptance35:33 Proving Capabilities and Overcoming Doubts44:56 Facing New Responsibilities49:47 Faith and Spiritual Growth53:24 The Importance of Helping Others55:41 Gratitude and Family Support59:23 Conclusion and Call to ActionJoin this channel to get access to perks:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClE6ibnQHv8wCdjshH23uhA/join---------------------------------------------------------------DISCLAIMER:Some of the links we provide in the video description or pinned comment may be affiliate links. So, we want to clarify what that means for you.When you click on an affiliate link, it means that we may earn a small commission if you decide to make a purchase or take action through that link. This commission comes at no additional cost to you. In fact, it's a way for companies to thank creators like us for promoting their products or services.Please rest assured that we only recommend products or services that we genuinely believe will be valuable to you, our cherished audience

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5 months ago
59 minutes 59 seconds

Silver Linings
We’re Dan and Andrea Kotter—parents of six, best friends, and partners in chaos. After Dan’s accident left him paralyzed, life changed—but so did our perspective. On this podcast, we share the real, unfiltered journey of raising a big family, navigating marriage, disability, faith, and finding joy in the mess. It’s raw, it’s honest, and sometimes hilarious. Whether you’re here for the parenting stories or the deeper conversations—we’re glad you’re here.