Rule #429: DO NOT compare yourself to others. Whether that'd be your parenting style, your kids' progression stages, your physical appearance, where you are in life, what kind of job you work vs where other people your age work - E N O U G H. However you can use that pressure as motivation. If you're in the right head space and can recognize your faults and alter them instead of fixate on them. If you'd like to make some, or any personal changes for that matter, go for it - that's not what I'm saying. I am saying, social media is a game. You're playing with your mental health and you need to be aware of what it brings to you; if that is anything at all.