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She Said What?
Alyssa Harper
64 episodes
7 hours ago
Alyssa Harper invites you into open, honest conversations about exploring your sexuality, growing into new beliefs, and becoming the most authentic version of yourself. Through powerful storytelling and shared experiences, each episode unpacks the challenges of self-discovery and offers practical wisdom to help you grow with confidence. Feel inspired, validated, and connected to a community that celebrates every step of becoming who you truly are! Follow along on Instagram and TikTok @alyssataylorharper to stay inspired and in the loop.
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Alyssa Harper invites you into open, honest conversations about exploring your sexuality, growing into new beliefs, and becoming the most authentic version of yourself. Through powerful storytelling and shared experiences, each episode unpacks the challenges of self-discovery and offers practical wisdom to help you grow with confidence. Feel inspired, validated, and connected to a community that celebrates every step of becoming who you truly are! Follow along on Instagram and TikTok @alyssataylorharper to stay inspired and in the loop.
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Episodes (20/64)
She Said What?
67. How Cycle Syncing Will Change Your Life | 2 Year Update

Do you feel like one week you're hot, funny and gorgeous, but the next week you're depressed, confused and feeling all around yucky? Are you trying to keep daily routines but failing miserably? Are you exhausted and nearing burnout? Trust me, I hear you.

Two years ago, I started Cycle Syncing and since then, I've learned all of the tips and tricks. In this episode, you'll hear how to:

  • eat the right foods (without any restrictions)
  • work out less and feel better
  • sync your relationships & sex life to your cycle
  • create a work schedule that makes you love what you do


As mentioned in the episode, subscribe to Beducated for 40% off using the code 'alyssa' or click here: ⁠https://beducate.me/pd2336-alyssa⁠


Connect with Alyssa Harper

⁠⁠⁠Tiktok⁠⁠ (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠ (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠ (She Said What? Podcast Group)

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2 years ago
52 minutes 30 seconds

She Said What?
66. Navigating Friendship Breakups

Why are they sometimes worse than romantic breakups? How do we know if we should move on or try to work it out? How can we heal and make new friendships, without self sabotaging? In this episode, we'll be answering all of these questions, while addressing the impermanence in relationships and what we can do to cope with our ever-changing lives. Spoiler: nothing is wasted and you're going to be okay!


As mentioned in the episode, subscribe to Beducated for 40% off using the code 'alyssa' or click here: https://beducate.me/pd2336-alyssa


Connect with Alyssa Harper

⁠⁠Tiktok⁠ (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠⁠Instagram⁠ (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠ (She Said What? Podcast Group)

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2 years ago
53 minutes 6 seconds

She Said What?
65. How to Become Confident in Your Sexuality (LGBTQIA+)

Whether you're exploring your sexuality for the first time or queerness is your whole world, this episode is going to help you navigate:

  • internalized homophobia
  • coming out
  • feeling "queer enough"
  • feeling like you're behind

Not only are we exploring internally to break down misconceptions and negative thinking patterns, but we're talking about the practical things that you can start doing TODAY to work towards feeling confident in your sexuality.


As mentioned in the episode, subscribe to Beducated for 40% off using the code 'alyssa' or click here: https://beducate.me/pd2338-alyssa!


Connect with Alyssa Harper

⁠⁠Tiktok⁠ (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠⁠Instagram⁠ (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠ (She Said What? Podcast Group)

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2 years ago
52 minutes 44 seconds

She Said What?
64. 10 Tips for Dating in Your 20's

If there's anything I wish I knew before I started dating, it's these 10 tips. Whether you're single at the moment, have a bf/gf/etc. or it's... complicated, I've got you.


In this episode, we're answering the questions:

  • Is it worth dating within your friend group?
  • Should a relationship "feel easy" or does it take work?
  • When should I let a problem go and when should I bring it up?
  • & so much more!


Connect with Alyssa Harper

⁠⁠Tiktok⁠ (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠⁠Instagram⁠ (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠ (She Said What? Podcast Group)

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2 years ago
55 minutes 47 seconds

She Said What?
63. Imposter Syndrome & Why We Shouldn't Avoid It

Have you ever been given an opportunity that felt like it wasn't meant for you? Do you doubt your abilities even when the people around you believe in you? In this episode, we explore:

  • why we get Imposter Syndrome
  • who it's most likely to affect
  • why it's not a bad thing
  • what you can do to cope


Connect with Alyssa Harper

⁠Tiktok (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠Instagram (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠Facebook Group (She Said What? Podcast Group)


Resources

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy Journal

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2 years ago
36 minutes 41 seconds

She Said What?
62. How to Grow an Amazing Sexual Relationship With a Partner

Whether you're feeling stuck sexually in your long term relationship or you're trying to navigate the early stages of a relationship, sex can be hard to talk about. This episode is going to give you the framework to be able to have the conversations that will enhance your sex life. We'll be talking about the must have's like consent, caution and communication; plus, we'll dive into the common issues like pain during sex and inability to orgasm with a partner.


Connect with Alyssa Harper

⁠Tiktok (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠Instagram (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠Facebook Group (She Said What? Podcast Group)


Resources:

VUSH Curiosity Cues

The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Alis App (Sexual Archetype Quiz)

Max Black

Yes, No, Maybe List

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2 years ago
42 minutes 21 seconds

She Said What?
61. How to Become Confident in Your Sexual Self

This episode is all about self pleasure and how we can grow in the intimacy that we share with our bodies. I'll be taking you through questions that will help you to unlearn the shameful BS that we are taught about sex. This episode will leave you feeling closer to your sexual self and excited to enjoy the pleasure that is available to you!


Connect with Alyssa Harper

⁠Tiktok (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠Instagram (@alyssataylorharper)

⁠Facebook Group (reflection questions found here)


Resources

Self Pleasure Statistic

Come As You Are - Emily Nagoski

Alis App - Sexual Archetype Quiz

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2 years ago
30 minutes 23 seconds

She Said What?
60. Red Flags vs. Green Flags in Friendships

We've all had friends surprise us! Sometimes they come into our lives unexpectedly with aMAZiNg energy or they completely f*ck us over. This episode is going to help you get better at making the RIGHT friends.


Connect with Alyssa Harper

⁠Tiktok ⁠

⁠Instagram ⁠

⁠Facebook Group

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2 years ago
34 minutes 21 seconds

She Said What?
59. How to Deal with Toxic People

Some people kinda suck! But how you respond matters. In today's episode, you'll hear about:

  • dealing with difficult humans in the workplace, your family, your friend group, etc.
  • 8 tips to being the bigger person, while standing your ground
  • setting boundaries to avoid the BS


Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

Facebook Group

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2 years ago
35 minutes 33 seconds

She Said What?
58. Breakup Advice | Storytime & Listener Advice

Wellllll sh*t, things didn't work out. Lucky for you, we've all been there and it's going to be okay! In this weeks episode, we'll be talking:

  • the one thing you MUST do to get over your ex
  • how to begin the healing process
  • healthy & unhealthy coping mechanisms
  • the things that ACTUALLY help you move on


Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

Facebook Group

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2 years ago
46 minutes 25 seconds

She Said What?
57. Become Financially Abundant & Heal Your Relationship with Money

Does money make you anxious? Are there habits you wish you didn't have when it comes to money? In this week's episode, we're talking:

  • money mindsets and where they come from
  • "money stories" and what yours says about you
  • healing your relationship with money
  • understanding where your money goes & creating a basic budget


Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

Facebook Group


Resources:

Up Bank

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2 years ago
51 minutes 38 seconds

She Said What?
56. 23 Life Lessons I Wish I Knew Sooner

From moving across the world after high school to becoming a completely different person after I left my old beliefs... I've picked up a few things. To celebrate my 23rd birthday, this episode is 23 life lessons that I wish I knew sooner!


Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

Facebook Group


Resources

Better Help

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2 years ago
1 hour 1 minute 33 seconds

She Said What?
55. How to Stop Being a Perfectionist

A lot of us are perfectionists! It's super common to feel this way and nothing to be ashamed of. But how might this be holding you back? What can you do to get out of the perfectionist mindset and go for what you want?

If you relate with the following, this week's episode is for you:

  • you procrastinate following through on the things you're passionate about (ex. starting a creative project/business, changing career paths, going on a date)
  • you struggle to feel confident in your work, you often second guess yourself
  • you feel like you never quite meet the expectations/goals you have for yourself


Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP  

This group is an opportunity for discussion around the weekly topics from the SSW Podcast. Please feel free to post in this group if you need advice or are just simply looking for community!


Resources

The Anti-Anxiety Notebook (CBT Journal)

Signs You May Be A Perfectionist

How Perfectionism is Linked to Anxiety and Mental Health

The Relationship Between Cognitive Distortions and Adult Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder


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2 years ago
50 minutes 8 seconds

She Said What?
54. How to Avoid Being a People Pleaser

Do you have a hard time saying 'no'? Do you often match the energies around you, without considering how you're actually feeling? In this episode, we'll be chatting: 

  • tips for the people pleasers and over achievers 
  • self leadership for the anxious girly 
  • how to set healthy boundaries (work, relationships, etc.) 
  • how boundaries create space for creativity 
  • creating authentically, following your passions 
  • how people pleasing will steal your joy & sense of purpose 

Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP  

This group is an opportunity for discussion around the weekly topics from the SSW Podcast. Please feel free to post in this group if you need advice or are just simply looking for community!

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2 years ago
52 minutes 56 seconds

She Said What?
53. How to Build Community & Genuine Friendships

Have you ever felt like it's hard to make friends? Have you ever struggled with self doubt in relationships, feeling like you're not good enough? Has social anxiety played a role in your life? If this sounds like you, then this episode is for you! In this episode, you're going to hear about:

  • how to make new friends
  • how to manage social anxiety at a social event
  • why community is so important
  • how important it is for queer people to be in community
  • & more!


Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP  

This group is an opportunity for discussion around the weekly topics from the SSW Podcast. Please feel free to post in this group if you need advice or are just simply looking for community!

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2 years ago
43 minutes 28 seconds

She Said What?
52. How I Realized I Wasn't Straight | 10 Tips from a Bisexual

Are you trying to figure out your sexuality but it's really scary and confusing? Understanding my sexuality was something I struggled with for years. I felt too straight to say I was LGBTQIA+ (because I knew I liked men) but too into women to say I was straight... turned out, I'm bi! This episode is 10 moments in my life that made me realize I'm not straight, since I'm often requested to talk about what it "feels like" to be bisexual.


Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP  

This group is an opportunity for discussion around the weekly topics from the SSW Podcast. Please feel free to post in this group if you need advice or are just simply looking for community!

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2 years ago
45 minutes 53 seconds

She Said What?
51. How To Become Disciplined (to create your DREAM LIFE)

We could all use a little more discipline... but not in a hustle culture kinda way, more in an accountability towards our passions kind of way. Because a lack of direction, crappy time management skills and a dash of imposter syndrome CAN genuinely hold you back from your dreams. You're not lazy! You're not stupid! You're not "not passionate enough" - you just need a little push (and some tips from yours truly)! In this episode, we talk about why discipline IS self love and how to find that healthy balance between 'the soft life' and the potential burnout that comes from hustle culture. 


Resources

Atomic Habits (book)

Calendar App

Structured App



Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP  

This group is an opportunity for discussion around the weekly topics from the SSW Podcast. Please feel free to post in this group if you need advice or are just simply looking for community!

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2 years ago
51 minutes 53 seconds

She Said What?
50. 7 Myths About Sex That I Once Genuinely Believed

I recently shared a Tiktok titled, '5 Myths About Sex That I Once Genuinely Believed' and you guys had so much to say about it (thoughts, questions, etc)! I thought, why not really dig into these points, share the stories that come along with them and have a chat about the things we all need to unlearn about sex! This is the sex advice I wish I had 6 months ago AND 6 years ago (theres something in here for everybody)!


Resources

In The Flo - Alissa Vitti (book)

Come As You Are - Emily Nagoski (book)

Jen Winston (instagram)

Greedy - Jen Winston (book)


Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP  

This group is an opportunity for discussion around the weekly topics from the SSW Podcast. Please feel free to post in this group if you need advice or are just simply looking for community!

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2 years ago
44 minutes 12 seconds

She Said What?
49. How Drinking Less Can Mean Living More | Interview w/ Millie Gooch from @sobergirlsociety

In this episode, we are joined by Millie Gooch, founder of The Sober Girl Society and author of The Sober Girl Society Handbook! Millie has built a beautiful community for people who are sober and "sober curious" (a new term I'm obsessed with)! This episode is going to help you reflect on your relationship with alcohol, which is something we ALL could use. It's important to ask yourself why you drink; are you looking for confidence on the dance floor, momentarily dampening anxiety or potentially trying to escape? If there is even a part of you that feels this way, this episode is a shame free space for you to explore what changes you can make to heal your relationship with alcohol and more importantly, yourself (and no, this doesn't mean you must fully give it up). I'm so excited to share this idea of mindful drinking with all of you and for you to hear Millie's inspiring story!


Connect with Millie

Website (shop book & more)

Instagram (@sobergirlsociety)


Connect with Alyssa

Tiktok 

Instagram 

JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP  

This group is an opportunity for discussion around the weekly topics from the SSW Podcast. Please feel free to post in this group if you need advice or are just simply looking for community!


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2 years ago
51 minutes 5 seconds

She Said What?
48. How to Make Confident Decisions

Have you been stuck on a decision you need to make? Whether or not to study? Whether you want to save money or travel? Or maybe it's the every day decisions that drive you mad, like what to make for dinner. In today's episode, I'll be sharing with you 5 tips that have helped me to make choices, big and small, so that you can avoid the anxiety that comes with decision avoidance. We'll be chatting about decision fatigue, intuition, deciphering your emotions and more!


Resources

Atomic Habits (book - building a routine)

Decision Fatigue - Healthline

Connect with Alyssa Harper

Tiktok 

Instagram 

JOIN THE FACEBOOK GROUP  

This group is an opportunity for discussion around the weekly topics from the SSW Podcast. Please feel free to post in this group if you need advice or are just simply looking for community!

Show more...
2 years ago
47 minutes 46 seconds

She Said What?
Alyssa Harper invites you into open, honest conversations about exploring your sexuality, growing into new beliefs, and becoming the most authentic version of yourself. Through powerful storytelling and shared experiences, each episode unpacks the challenges of self-discovery and offers practical wisdom to help you grow with confidence. Feel inspired, validated, and connected to a community that celebrates every step of becoming who you truly are! Follow along on Instagram and TikTok @alyssataylorharper to stay inspired and in the loop.