
In this episode, host Olly Hall-Green speaks with the “Duty-Happy bloke” Dan Holder, a former Royal Marine Commando, about his remarkable journey from the battlefields of Afghanistan to a life centered on purpose, healing, and personal growth.
Dan opens up about his experiences with trauma, PTSD, and guilt, and how he turned his pain into progress through positive psychology, self-discovery, and a renewed connection to mental health and community.
Their conversation sheds light on the unseen battles that follow those who serve, the lifelong process of rebuilding identity after trauma, and the strength found in embracing vulnerability. From ultramarathons to daily discipline, Dan’s transformation is a testament to the human spirit’s ability to overcome adversity and find meaning beyond hardship.
💡 Key Takeaways
• Resilience is built through facing adversity head-on.
• True growth emerges from discomfort and challenge.
• The battle with trauma doesn’t end when the war does.
• Guilt is a silent burden many veterans carry.
• Purpose can replace destructive habits and restore balance.
• Positive psychology supports healing and emotional strength.
• Self-discovery is essential for genuine personal growth.
• Community support plays a vital role in recovery.
• Nature and endurance experiences offer powerful life lessons.
• Vulnerability and authenticity are foundations for true resilience.
🌍 Themes Covered
• Life after military service
• Coping with PTSD and trauma
• The psychology of resilience and recovery
• Purpose-driven living and mental health
• Ultramarathons as a metaphor for endurance
• Brotherhood, vulnerability, and personal transformation
Keywords: resilience, trauma, military, mental health, positive psychology, personal growth, adversity, self-discovery, ultramarathons, purpose
Join my FREE Shapes of Resilience Facebook community + gain access to my FREE 4-day course:
https://tinyurl.com/shapesofresiliencecommunity
Connect with me via:
Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/shapesofresilienceinstagram
LinkedIn: https://tinyurl.com/shapesofresiliencelinkedin
YouTube: https://tinyurl.com/Shapesofresilienceyoutube
Enjoying the show?
Please follow, subscribe, rate, and leave a review — it helps others find the podcast and join the community.
All Ships Rise in a High Tide