What makes someone leave a corporate career to become a male escort? In this eye-opening conversation, Anisa sits down with George Goulburn, who shares his unexpected journey into the world of professional intimacy. George talks about: The emotional and psychological depth of his work The profound impact he has on his clients’ lives The biggest misconceptions about male sex work Why intimacy—paid or not—is a fundamental human need This episode challenges everything you...

In this special bonus episode, we step away from expert interviews to sit down with everyday people. Silence and stigma around sexuality can leave us feeling isolated, misunderstood, or even ashamed, but sharing stories reminds us that we’re not alone.Today, I’m joined by Lynton, who candidly shares his personal story. Together, we explore:Polyamory: What it means to embrace ethical non-monogamy.Difficult Conversations: Navigating open and honest communication with partners, even when it’s un...

In this conversation, Anisa Varasteh and Stacey Micallef discuss the concept of sexual confidence in relation to gender identities and the challenges faced by gender diverse individuals. Stacey shares practical tips for enhancing sexual confidence and emphasises the freedom that comes with gender diversity. The discussion also touches on the connection between gender and sexuality, and how individuals can find inclusive therapists to support their journey.Chapters00:00 Introduction 04:16...

In this episode of Sexplicit, Anisa sits down with Clinical Sexologist Kate Dempsey to explore the complex journey of rebuilding sexual confidence after infidelity. This episode delves into the intense emotional landscape that can emerge after betrayal, examining the ways it affects one’s sense of erotic confidence and other areas of life. With practical tips grounded in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Anisa and Kate discuss strategies to manage overwhelming feelings and begin the healing proc...

In this episode of Sexplicit, join Anisa as she dives deep into the topic of sexual confidence for heterosexual men with Cam Fraser, a Certified Professional Sex Coach and Certified Sexologist. Together, they explore the barriers men face when it comes to sexual confidence and provide practical strategies to overcome them.Topics Covered:Insecurities and anxieties men commonly experience in the bedroomThe influence of social norms and masculine identity on sexual confidenceHow sexual education...

In this episode Anisa has a conversation with Ella Shannon, the National Chair of the Society of Australian Sexologists, for a candid conversation about sexual confidence after trauma. They explore strategies to reclaiming sexual confidence following traumatic experiences, offering hope and guidance to those on the path to healing.Key Topics Discussed:What is Sexual Confidence? AIs it Possible to Feel Confident Again? Practical Tips for Reconnecting with Safety and Pleasure.The Role of T...

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of sexual confidence with Caitlin V.Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach, YouTuber, and host of Good Sex on Max and Discovery+. Formerly a professional sexual health researcher, she dropped out of her PHD program to start a career coaching men to gain confidence, satisfaction, and transformation both inside and outside the bedroom. Caitlin’s mission is to create a sex and pleasure-positive world. Caitlin shares practical tips and strategi...

In this episode, Anisa is joined by Jacqueline Hellyer, one of Australia’s leading sexologists and the founder of the Lovelife Clinic. They dive deep into the nuances of sexual confidence within long-term relationships, exploring what it truly means to feel confident and connected with your partner over time.Key Topics Discussed:Understanding Sexual ConfidenceChallenges to Sexual Confidence in Long-Term RelationshipsImpact of Communication on ConfidenceChallenging Societal Norms and Exp...

In this engaging episode, join Anisa, as she candidly shares her birth story and imparts valuable tips on minimising the risk of birth trauma. Get ready for an insightful discussion covering postpartum intimacy with Anisa Varsteh and Candice Care-Unger, both experienced clinical sexologists. Highlights include:Anisa's personal birth journeyPractical advice on reducing the likelihood of birth traumaTips and perspectives on navigating post-party intimacyYou can contact Anisa on relatesexo...

In this episode, I'm opening up and sharing my story, giving you a glimpse into what led me to become a clinical sexologist.Amanda (Relate Sexology's Communications Manager) and I will be diving deep into the fascinating topic of why sex is taboo and shining a light on the historical policing of women's sexuality. It's a topic that hits close to home for many of us, and together, we'll explore why these issues persist and how they impact our lives today.This episode is all about connect...

In this episode you will hear Anisa Varasteh Clinical Sexologist discuss:-Why people are interested in such extreme practices- Is kink a sexual practice?-Why there is a high representation of asexual and neurodivergent people in kink community-Do masochists really enjoy pain?-Sub/Dom space: an altered state of consciousnessLinks:https://www.relatesexology.com/healing-through-kink

In this episode you will hear Anisa Varasteh Clinical Sexologist discuss:Underlying causes of sexual painstrategies to address painful sexTo book an appointment with Relate Sexology team go to : relatesexology.com/our-team

In this episode Anisa Varasteh, Clinical Sexologist discusses:What normal means in a sexual contextWhat influences our ideas of normalityHow pre-occupation with 'normality' can impact our sexualityWhat to do if you think you are not normal

In this episode you will hear Anisa Varasteh Clinical Sexologist discuss:-Discerning developmentally typical sexual behaviours in children from concerning behaviours-Examples of developmentally typical behaviours and concerning behaviours in 4 age groupsSubmit your questions anonymously here: https://www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/DNMZV75

In this episode you will hear Anisa Varasteh Clinical Sexologist discuss: 7 common blocks to erotic confidenceSpecific tips and suggestions for addressing each of these obstacleLink to Discover Your Erotic Self: https://www.relatesexology.com/sexuality-workshop-erotic-self

In this episode Anisa Varasteh, Clinical Sexologist discusses: · The impact of sexual assault on relationships · Why sex and intimacy can be very challenging after sexual assault · How to re-build intimacy if you find any sexual or physical activity triggering · What partners can do to support their loved one · Strategies to enj...

In this episode Anisa Varasteh, Clinical Sexologist discusses:What is narcissism? Identifying narcissism in relationships Early signs and red flags for narcissism in romantic and sexual relationshipsThe impact of long-term relationships with a narcissistLeaving a toxic relationship with a narcissist

In this episode, Anisa Varasteh, Clinical Sexologists will discuss: What the 5 Love Languages areWhy they may be hurting your relationshipTips for healthy relationshipsManaging conflicts in a relationship Submit your questions anonymously here: www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/DNMZV75More about Relate Sexology: www.relatesexology.com

In this episode Anisa Varasteh, Clinical Sexologist answers your questions about pornography:-What is pornography?-Can watching porn impact your mental health, sexual functioning or relationship?-What is ethical pornography?-Can porn be helpful?-Does violent porn lead to violent behaviour?-I am a non-violent person but interested in BDSM, does it mean I have an underlying desire to hurt others?-Can you develop porn addiction by watching porn?-How can I identify if I am addicted to porn?

In this episode, you will hear: Why do people choose open relationships?How common is non-monogamy?What do I/we need to do if we want to explore an open relationship?Essential skills you need for a successful relationshipDifferent relationship structuresLinks to resources mentioned in this episode:Submit your questions here: https://www.surveymonkey.co.uk/r/DNMZV75Worksheet:https://www.relatesexology.com/resourcesBooks:Polyamory by Martha KaupiPolysecure by Jessica Fern,The Ethical...