What really kills sex in a marriage? Is it menopause—or is it something deeper? In this episode of Sex, Love & Soul, I (Mary Knight) answer the question so many men are quietly asking: Why doesn’t my wife want me anymore?

We go far beyond hormones and into the hidden dynamics of masculine and feminine energy, emotional leadership, and the ways “nice guy” conditioning sabotages intimacy. I break down why sex drive is about so much more than biology—and why it might never have been about biology at all.

If you’re in a low sex or no sex marriage, this episode is a wake-up call. You’ll hear why your wife may have never fully surrendered to you, why emotional disconnection kills desire, and why so many men wait until it’s too late to face the truth.

This isn’t about blame—it’s about power. Masculine power. And how to reclaim it in a way that builds connection, not control.

If you’re ready to shift the energy in your relationship, deepen your intimacy, and stop waiting for things to fix themselves—this one’s for you.

Learn more about my private coaching, workshops, and book How to Turn Nice into Your Sexy Superpower at sexloveandsoul.com.

Want to ask a question or share something personal? Email me at mary@sexloveandsoul.com. I love hearing from you.

Thanks for listening—and remember, it’s not over unless you decide it is.