55 | Why You Don’t Ask for What You Want During Sex—And How to Start
If asking for what you want in bed feels awkward even with a supportive partner, you’re not alone.
In this episode, I break down exactly why it feels so awkward. Hint: it has to do with dichos like “A mí no me pidas nada” and “Just don’t get pregnant.”
I’m reading from my free ebook Just Don’t Get Pregnant and Other Dichos, sharing TikTok comments that share experiences from women just like you, and giving you coaching tools to start shifting the way you show up - in and out of the bedroom.
What You'll Learn:
How childhood dichos shaped your relationship with giving and receiving - in and out of the bedroom
Why you feel weird/awkward asking for what you want and asking for help
Simple mindset shifts to help you feel more comfortable asking for what you want
The one question to ask yourself that starts to break generational shame for good
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Resources & Links:
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