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Sex in Spanglish
Ana Lopez, MSW, MEd
100 episodes
5 days ago
Mind-blowing sex on demand that doesn’t rely on your partner. Curated for la mujer Latina exploring pleasure on her own. Hosted by Ana Lopez, MSW, MEd — proud Latina, sexologist & sex coach. Ana empowers mujeres to own their desires, rewrite sex-negative stories, and make pleasure in the bedroom non-negotiable. Every episode gives you practicable tips you can use tonight. And, if you’re ready for long-term change, Ana’s Mind-Blown Method™ and 1:1 coaching will guide you to make them effortless, every single time. Listen weekly. Experience mind-blowing sex on demand - sin vergüenza.
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Mind-blowing sex on demand that doesn’t rely on your partner. Curated for la mujer Latina exploring pleasure on her own. Hosted by Ana Lopez, MSW, MEd — proud Latina, sexologist & sex coach. Ana empowers mujeres to own their desires, rewrite sex-negative stories, and make pleasure in the bedroom non-negotiable. Every episode gives you practicable tips you can use tonight. And, if you’re ready for long-term change, Ana’s Mind-Blown Method™ and 1:1 coaching will guide you to make them effortless, every single time. Listen weekly. Experience mind-blowing sex on demand - sin vergüenza.
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Sex in Spanglish
"I Love Sex, and I’m Tired of Feeling Ashamed": One Latina’s Journey to Sexual Freedom

57 | "I Love Sex, and I’m Tired of Feeling Ashamed": One Latina’s Journey to Sexual Freedom


Episode Summary:


Respect your elders. Stay quiet. Don't ask for too much.

Sound familiar?


In this episode, I sit down with Yesenia to call out the cultural guilt that's been keeping us silent in and out of the bedroom — and show you what it actually looks like to reclaim your pleasure sin vergüenza.


What You'll Learn:


How "respeta" culture kills your voice in bed


Why guilt and exhaustion block your desire


How to stop overthinking during sex


Why planning sex makes it hotter — not boring


Celebrate my Golden Birthday with me: https://sexinspanglish.hbportal.co/public/67f2e9843d210000258ccdad

Resources & Links:


Come get coached on the podcast!


Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers


Let's Connect:


Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza


Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the

⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

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6 months ago
50 minutes 37 seconds

Sex in Spanglish
[Re-Release] A Mí No Me Pides Nada: How It Still Shows Up (And What I Do Now)

56 | [Re-Release] A Mí No Me Pides Nada: How It Still Shows Up (And What I Do Now)


Summary:


In this re-release of one of our most listened-to episodes, I revisit A Mí No Me Pides Nada. I share how this dicho still rears its ugly head and how I handle it years later.


From staying quiet during painful pelvic floor therapy to letting $40 charges slide, this episode is all about how this cultural messaging still sneaks into our everyday decisions—and what it looks like to actually do something about it.


Whether you’ve heard it before or are brand new to this convo, this episode is a must listen.


What You’ll Learn:


How the dicho “A Mí No Me Pides Nada” shows up long after childhood


  • What it looks like to ask without follow-through (and why that matters)


    The connection between cultural messaging and people-pleasing


    Real-time tools to help you stop abandoning yourself in the moment

    Celebrate my Golden Birthday with me: ⁠https://sexinspanglish.hbportal.co/public/67f2e9843d210000258ccdad⁠


    Resources & Links:


    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) ⁠here⁠


    ⁠Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip⁠ - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    ⁠How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers⁠ 


    Let's Connect:


    Share this episode with una amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza


    Follow me on Instagram⁠ ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the⁠ ⁠anonymous question box⁠⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

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    6 months ago
    47 minutes 30 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Why You Don’t Ask for What You Want During Sex—And How to Start

    55 | Why You Don’t Ask for What You Want During Sex—And How to Start


    If asking for what you want in bed feels awkward even with a supportive partner, you’re not alone. 


    In this episode, I break down exactly why it feels so awkward. Hint: it has to do with dichos like “A mí no me pidas nada” and “Just don’t get pregnant.”


    I’m reading from my free ebook Just Don’t Get Pregnant and Other Dichos, sharing TikTok comments that share experiences from women just like you, and giving you coaching tools to start shifting the way you show up - in and out of the bedroom.


    What You'll Learn:


    How childhood dichos shaped your relationship with giving and receiving - in and out of the bedroom


    Why you feel weird/awkward asking for what you want and asking for help

    Simple mindset shifts to help you feel more comfortable asking for what you want


    The one question to ask yourself that starts to break generational shame for good


    Come Celebrate My Golden Birthday With Me: https://sexinspanglish.hbportal.co/public/67f2e9843d210000258ccdad


    Resources & Links:


    Just Don't Get Pregnant & Other Dichos: subscribepage.io/LatinaGuide


    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


    Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


    Let's Connect:


    Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza


    Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

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    7 months ago
    33 minutes 4 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Why Sex Should Never Be Painful: Causes & Solutions You Need to Know

    54 | Why Sex Should Never Be Painful: Causes & Solutions You Need to Know


    Sex should never be painful—period. In this episode, I break down the most common causes of painful sex and how to solve for it.


    Whether it’s pelvic floor tension, vaginal dryness, trauma, or hormonal changes, we’re getting to the root of what’s going on and what you can do about it.


    PLUS: I’m sharing all the juicy details of my Golden Birthday Special—including 5 private calls, a 90-minute orgasm technique intensive, and lifetime access to Operation Orgasm, all for just $555.



    What You'll Learn:

    Why painful sex is never “just part of the deal”


    What your body is really trying to tell you through pain


    How pelvic floor tension affects your sex life—and how to release it


    Why Kegels might actually be making things worse


    How to know if your vaginal dryness is hormonal, emotional, or hydration-related


    When to see a pelvic floor therapist (and how to make it affordable)


    How trauma shows up in the bedroom—and what kind of support actually helps


    Why hydration, arousal, and lube are your besties



    Celebrate my Golden Birthday with Me: https://sexinspanglish.hbportal.co/public/67f2e9843d210000258ccdad



    Resources & Links:

    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


    Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


    Let’s Connect:Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza


    Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

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    7 months ago
    27 minutes 46 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance Pt. 2: What You’re Putting On Your Body Matters

    53 | Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance Pt. 2: What You’re Putting On Your Body Matters


    Episode Summary:

    In this second part of the vulva hygiene and vaginal maintenance series, we’re diving into what you’re putting on your body—and how it impacts your vulva and vaginal health.


    From leggings and panties to lotions and laundry detergent, I’m breaking down the everyday things that could be throwing off your balance.


    If you’ve ever dealt with BV, yeast infections, irritation, or just wanna take better care of your body, this episode has everything you need to know.


    What You’ll Learn:

    Why tight-ass leggings and non-breathable fabrics might be messing with your pH


    What to look for in panties, swimsuits, and PJs so your vulva can actually breathe


    Why 100% cotton matters 


    How your laundry detergent might be contributing to BV, yeast infections, or irritation


    Where you shouldn’t be putting scented lotions, oils, or creams—even if they smell bomb


    How to wash and dry your vulva in a way that actually supports your health


    Why reusing the same towel isn’t the best idea (especially if you're prone to infections)


    My favorite affordable vulva-safe brands 


    Resources & Links:

    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


    Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


    Let's Connect:

    Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza


    Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

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    7 months ago
    28 minutes 55 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance: Your No-BS Guide to Feeling Good Down There

    52 | Vulva Hygiene & Vaginal Maintenance: Your No-BS Guide to Feeling Good Down There


    Episode Summary:


    If you’ve ever felt confused about how to care for your vulva or vagina (or didn’t even know there was a difference), this episode is for you. 


    I'm breaking down exactly what you should and shouldn’t be doing when it comes to vaginal and vulva hygiene—without shame, fear, or the medical gaslighting that so many of us are used to. 


    Whether you're dealing with chronic yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis, or just want to feel more confident in your body, this is your no-BS guide to vulva and vaginal maintenance.


    What You'll Learn:


    The difference between the vulva and the vagina—and why it matters

    What actually goes inside your vagina (and what absolutely shouldn’t)

    How to safely use sex toys, menstrual products, and body parts

    The link between chronic infections and everyday habits (like what your partner eats 😳)

    How to support your vaginal health with food and live cultures
    Tips for preventing infections before they start


    Resources & Links:


    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


    Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here


    Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


    Let’s Connect:


    Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza


    Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    Show more...
    7 months ago
    17 minutes 41 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Rejuvenation for Mind-Blowing Sex: The Key to Lasting Energy and Pleasure

    51 | Podcast Notes: Rejuvenation for Mind-Blowing Sex – The Key to Lasting Energy and Pleasure


    Episode Summary:

    If you’re constantly exhausted, running on fumes, and struggling to feel present during intimacy, you might be missing a key ingredient: rejuvenation.


    In this episode, I dive deep into what rejuvenation actually means, why it’s essential for sustaining pleasure and energy, and how to build the skill of rejuvenation into your daily life.


    You’ll learn how to assess your energy levels, identify what your body actually needs, and implement small but powerful changes that will help you show up fully – in and out of the bedroom.


    What You'll Learn:


    ✅ The difference between rest and rejuvenation – and why you need both
    ✅ How to assess your energy levels using the Rejuvenation Radar
    ✅ The four essential categories of rejuvenation: sleep, food, hydration, and hygiene
    ✅ Why most people are running on empty without realizing it – and how to fix it
    ✅ How to create your own Rejuvenation Recipe to feel more energized, connected, and ready for pleasure
    ✅ The surprising connection between self-care, energy levels, and libido


    Resources & Links:


    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


    Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here


    Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


    Let’s Connect:


    Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza


    Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    Show more...
    8 months ago
    31 minutes 56 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Rest for Better Sex: How Relaxation Affects Your Libido and Desire

    50 | Rest for Better Sex: How Rest Affects Your Libido and Desire


    Short Summary:


    In this episode, we explore the powerful connection between rest and your sex life.


    We dive into how relaxation can directly impact your libido, desire, and overall sexual well-being. Learn why relaxation isn't just about sitting on the couch but a skill that can be cultivated to enhance your intimacy.


    If you've struggled with turning your mind off during sex or feel disconnected, this episode is for you.


    What You'll Learn:


    The importance of relaxation in your overall well-being and its effect on your sex drive


    How the ability to relax can transform your sexual experiences and intimacy


    Why many women struggle to relax, especially if they were raised in culturally demanding households


    Practical tips to help you build the skill of rest and integrate it into your daily life


    How relaxation can help you overcome common sex-related struggles like low libido, infrequent orgasms, and dryness


    Resources & Links:


    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


    Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here


    Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


    Let’s Connect:


    Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza


    Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    Show more...
    8 months ago
    18 minutes 43 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    How to Embrace Rest and Rejuvenation for the Best Sex of Your Life

    49 | How to Embrace Rest and Rejuvenation for the Best Sex of Your Life


    Short Summary:


    In this episode, we explore the powerful connection between rest and rejuvenation and the quality of your sex life.


    Learn how prioritizing rest can increase your sexual energy, improve your mood, and enhance intimacy.


    We dive into strategies to rest your body and mind for better sex, both in the bedroom and beyond.


    What You’ll Learn:


  • The critical link between quality rest and stronger sexual energy


  • How sleep and relaxation improve sexual performance and orgasms


  • Creating a rejuvenating environment that fuels intimacy


  • Practical techniques for deep rest and relaxation that boost desire


  • Real-life examples of how mastering rest transforms sex


  • Resources & Links:


    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


    Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here


    Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    Operation Orgasm - A self-paced online program teaching you the only tool you'll ever need to have mind-blowing sex on demand


    How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


    Let’s Connect:


    Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it! And, be sure to rate and review to get this show to more listeners that want to enjoy sex sin vergüenza.


    Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    Show more...
    8 months ago
    39 minutes 47 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Beyond the Bedroom: Navigating the Intersection of Holistic Health and Sexuality

    48 | Beyond the Bedroom: Navigating the Intersection of Holistic Health and Sexuality


    Short Summary:


    In this episode, we dive deep into the intersection of holistic health and sexuality. Discover how understanding your body on a deeper level, including your energy, cycle, nutrition, and mental health, directly impacts your sexual well-being.


    Learn how to nurture your body to create a strong foundation for mind-blowing sex, and why it's crucial to view your body holistically. This episode offers valuable insights for embracing a balanced approach to both your sexual and overall health.


    What You'll Learn:


  • How holistic health affects your sexuality and overall well-being.


  • The connection between understanding your body and enhancing your sexual experience.


  • Practical strategies for tuning into your body’s needs, including energy, nutrition, and mental health.


  • How to use cycle tracking and body awareness to improve both your physical and sexual health.


  • The importance of rest and rejuvenation for mind-blowing sex.


  • Why holistic self-awareness is essential for better intimacy and self-empowerment.



  • Resources & Links:


  • Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


  • Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here


  • Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


  • Operation Orgasm - A self-paced online program teaching you the only tool you'll ever need to have mind-blowing sex on demand


  • How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


  • Let’s Connect:


  • Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!


  • Follow me on Instagram⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


  • Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    Show more...
    8 months ago
    29 minutes 57 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Mastering Your Body: The Key to Sexual Confidence and Satisfaction

    47 | Mastering Your Body: The Key to Sexual Confidence and Satisfaction


    Episode Summary:

    In this episode, we uncover how mastering your body is the foundation of sexual confidence and satisfaction. By understanding your body sexually and holistically, you'll learn to identify your preferences, expand your pleasure options, and build a deeper connection with yourself.


    What You’ll Learn:

    The importance of mastering your body for sexual confidence.


    How to identify and expand your sexual preferences.


    Practical exercises to connect with your body and elevate your pleasure.


    Why self-awareness is essential for satisfaction in and out of the bedroom.


    Links & Resources:

    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


    Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here


    Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    Operation Orgasm - A self-paced online program teaching you the only tool you'll ever need to have mind-blowing sex on demand


    How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


    Let’s Connect:

    Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!


    Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    Show more...
    9 months ago
    21 minutes 56 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Sensual Spanglish: A Podcast Celebrating Latina Sexuality & Self-Love

    Valentine’s Day BONUS


    In this special Valentine's Day bonus episode, Speaker 1 shares insights from a Galentine's self-care event, emphasizing the importance of putting yourself first, both in and out of the bedroom. She addresses common challenges Latinas face and provides actionable advice to help listeners prioritize self-care and come first. 


    What You'll Learn:


    How to navigate cultural pressures and societal messages around body image and sexuality as a Latina


    Strategies for balancing multiple roles without sacrificing your own needs


    The power of community, especially female friendships, in building self-confidence


    Simple, effective ways to re-center and recharge when the days feel heavy


    The key barriers to self-acceptance and how to overcome them


    Resources & Links:


    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


    Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here


    Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    Operation Orgasm - A self-paced online program teaching you the only tool you'll ever need to have mind-blowing sex on demand


    How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


    Follow Latina Brilliance


    Let’s Connect:


    Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!


    Follow me on Instagram ⁠@sexinspanglish⁠ for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the ⁠anonymous question box⁠! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    Show more...
    9 months ago
    35 minutes 55 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    From Triggered to Turned On: A Guide to Navigating Triggers During Sex


    46: From Triggered to Turned On: A Guide to Navigating Triggers During Sex


    Summary:


    In this episode, we dive deep into effective communication around triggers during sex. Triggers can happen in and out of the bedroom so we might as well learn to handle them. Listen in as I explain how to handle triggers during sex and how to talk to your partner about your triggers.


    What You'll Learn:


    The difference between general and clinical triggers, and how they impact your body and emotions


    How to recognize your triggers and communicate them effectively to your partner


    Techniques for regulating yourself when triggered during sex


    The steps to take when you want to stop sex versus when you want to continue despite being triggered


    How to have a productive conversation with your partner about triggers outside of the bedroom


    Resources & Links:


    Book your Sales Call (formerly known as the Quicky Call) here


    Book your Quicky Call (free 30 minute coaching call) here


    Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about


    Operation Orgasm - A self-paced online program teaching you the only tool you'll ever need to have mind-blowing sex on demand


    How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 


    Let’s Connect:


    Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!


    Follow me on Instagram @sexinspanglish for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? Submit your question to the anonymous question box! Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    Show more...
    9 months ago
    25 minutes 52 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Clothed Conversations: Why Discussing Sex Should Go Beyond the Bedroom

    45 | Clothed Conversations: Why Discussing Sex Should Go Beyond the Bedroom


    Episode Summary:

    Are you tired of a disappointing sex life? In this episode, I share the 3 essential elements you need to unlock mind-blowing sex on demand, even when facing life's challenges. Listeners will discover the proven strategies I use to help them overcome common obstacles and elevate their bedroom experience.


    What You'll Learn:

  • The 3 non-negotiable pillars for incredible intimacy (and why they work)


  • Effective communication techniques to get your needs met, even with an unresponsive partner


  • How to navigate the impact of mental health, medications, and physical changes on your sex life


  • Practical tips to maintain a fulfilling sex life with kids, family, or other life circumstances at home


  • Strategies to work through trauma and reclaim your erotic potentialf


  • Adapting orgasm methods as your body changes over time


  • Let's Connect:

    Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!


    Follow me on Instagram @sexinspanglish for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.


    Got thoughts or questions? DM me on Instagram or send me an email at ana@sexinspanglish.com. Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    Show more...
    9 months ago
    29 minutes 30 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    From Awkward to Confident: Master the Art of Communicating Your Desires in Bed

    44 | From Awkward to Confident: Master the Art of Communicating Your Desires in Bed


    Episode Summary:

    In this episode, I’m breaking down the essential steps to mastering communication in the bedroom—without the awkwardness!


    If you’ve ever struggled to express your desires or felt self-conscious about initiating those important conversations, this episode is for you.


    Learn how to confidently articulate your needs, navigate difficult topics, and create a space where both you and your partner feel safe, seen, and turned on.


    What You’ll Learn:

    • Say What You Want (Without Feeling Awkward): Practical strategies to help you finally get what you want in bed and get it without feeling so fucking awkward.

    • Build Connection Through Communication: Discover how opening up about your needs can deepen intimacy and bring you closer to your partner.

    • Overcome Communication Fears: Tips for moving past self-doubt, cultural stigmas, or fear of rejection when discussing your sexual desires.

    • The Confidence Blueprint: Learn why owning your desires is the key to a more fulfilling and satisfying sex life.


    Resources & Links:

    • Book your Quicky call today

    • How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

    • Operation Orgasm - A self-paced online program teaching you the only tool you'll ever need to have mind-blowing sex on demand

    • Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


    Let’s Connect:

    • Share this episode with una amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!

    • Follow me on Instagram @sexinspanglish for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

    • Got thoughts or questions? DM me on Instagram or send me an email at ana@sexinspanglish.com. Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

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    9 months ago
    16 minutes 35 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Elevate Your Bedroom Experience: Proven Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex on Demand

    43 | Elevate Your Bedroom Experience: Proven Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex on Demand


    Episode Summary:

    Are you tired of a disappointing sex life?


    In this episode I share the 3 essential elements you need to unlock mind-blowing sex on demand, even when facing life's challenges. Listeners will discover the proven strategies I use to help them overcome common obstacles and elevate their bedroom experience.


    What You'll Learn:

    • The 3 non-negotiable pillars for incredible intimacy (and why they work)

    • Effective communication techniques to get your needs met, even with an unresponsive partner

    • How to navigate the impact of mental health, medications, and physical changes on your sex life

    • Practical tips to maintain a fulfilling sex life with kids, family, or other life circumstances at home

    • Strategies to work through trauma and reclaim your erotic potential

    • Adapting orgasm methods as your body changes over time


    Resources & Links:

    • AASECT directory to find certified sex therapists

    • Book your Quicky call today

    • How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

    • Operation Orgasm - A self-paced online program teaching you the only tool you'll ever need to have mind-blowing sex on demand

    • Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.


  • Let’s Connect:

    • Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!

    • Follow me on Instagram @sexinspanglish for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

    • Got thoughts or questions? DM me on Instagram or send me an email at ana@sexinspanglish.com. Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

  • Show more...
    10 months ago
    30 minutes 58 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Sexual Confidence for the Ambitious Latina: Lead Sin Vergüenza

    42 | Sexual Confidence for the Ambitious Latina: Lead Sin Vergüenza


    Episode Summary:

    In this episode, we’re diving into why sex matters more than you might realize. From relieving stress to boosting your immune system and even helping you avoid burnout, a healthy sex life is about so much more than pleasure.


    We’ll discuss the unexpected ways sex impacts your physical, emotional, and mental health and why it’s worth prioritizing.


    I also share a behind-the-scenes moment about keeping things simple—whether it’s adding an intro to the podcast or approaching life and business without overthinking.


    If you’ve ever felt like sex is just another task on your to-do list or that you’ve been settling for less than you deserve, this conversation is for you.


    What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

    • The connection between sex and your overall health and happiness.

    • Surprising benefits of a fulfilling sex life you might not have considered.

    • How sex can help you feel more in tune with yourself and your goals.

    • Why simplicity can often be the key to success.


    Resources & Links:

    • AASECT directory to find certified sex therapists

    • Book your Quicky call today

    • How to Write Sex Scenes Without Boring Your Readers 

    • Operation Orgasm - A self-paced online program teaching you the only tool you'll ever need to have mind-blowing sex on demand

    • Subscribe to receive Golosa Gossip - A weekly email series empowering mujeres to get in touch with their bodies, own their pleasure and where we discuss all the cochinadas our abuelas didn’t tell us about.

      Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!


    Let’s Connect:

    • Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!

    • Follow me on Instagram @sexinspanglish for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

    • Got thoughts or questions? DM me on Instagram or send me an email at ana@sexinspanglish.com.Your questions might even end up answered on the podcast - anonymously of course!

    Show more...
    10 months ago
    40 minutes

    Sex in Spanglish
    From Procrastination to Pleasure: Overcoming the Barriers to a Confident and Fulfilling Sex Life

    41 | From Procrastination to Pleasure: Overcoming the Barriers to a Confident and Fulfilling Sex Life



    Episode Summary:

    In this episode, I’m diving into why you keep putting your pleasure on the back burner and how to stop procrastinating when it comes to owning your sexuality. If you’ve been letting fear, self-doubt, or old stories keep you from fully enjoying sex, it’s time to break free. I’ll show you how to boost your sexual confidence, overcome those negative beliefs, and reclaim your pleasure so you can live your sexiest, most confident life.



    What You'll Learn:

  • Stop Putting It Off: Learn why procrastinating on your sexual needs is holding you back and how to take action today.

  • Boost Your Confidence: Get practical tips for feeling empowered in your body and your sexuality, no matter where you're starting from.

  • Break Through Negative Beliefs: We’re talking about how to ditch the stories that are keeping you from enjoying your sex life.

    Own Your Pleasure: Why putting your pleasure first is key to unlocking a sex life that feels confident, fulfilling, and unapologetically yours.



  • Resources & Links:

    Book your Quicky call today



  • Let's Connect:

    • Share this episode with your amiga, una vecina, and una cochina who needs to hear it!

    • Follow me on Instagram @sexinspanglish for more tips, stories, and inspiration on owning your pleasure and boosting your sexual confidence.

      Got thoughts or questions? DM me on Instagram—I’d love to connect and chat with you!

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    10 months ago
    14 minutes 27 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    I’m interested in coaching but want to pay down my debt first

    All month long Ana is celebrating Sex in Spanglish turning 4 and National Masturbation Month. Come celebrate with her!

    Enter to win a self-pleasure package here: https://sexinspanglish.myflodesk.com/golosagossip

    Book your Quicky call here: https://sexinspanglishllc.hbportal.co/public/660320518a350400191066c5


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    1 year ago
    2 minutes 50 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    What if my partner is the problem?

    All month long Ana is celebrating Sex in Spanglish turning 4 and National Masturbation Month. Come celebrate with her!

    Enter to win a self-pleasure package here: https://sexinspanglish.myflodesk.com/golosagossip

    Book your Quicky call here: https://sexinspanglishllc.hbportal.co/public/660320518a350400191066c5


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    1 year ago
    5 minutes 11 seconds

    Sex in Spanglish
    Mind-blowing sex on demand that doesn’t rely on your partner. Curated for la mujer Latina exploring pleasure on her own. Hosted by Ana Lopez, MSW, MEd — proud Latina, sexologist & sex coach. Ana empowers mujeres to own their desires, rewrite sex-negative stories, and make pleasure in the bedroom non-negotiable. Every episode gives you practicable tips you can use tonight. And, if you’re ready for long-term change, Ana’s Mind-Blown Method™ and 1:1 coaching will guide you to make them effortless, every single time. Listen weekly. Experience mind-blowing sex on demand - sin vergüenza.