The UK’s Oldest Dominatrix: Mistress Sofia on confidence, consent, and why seeing a dominatrix can be good for your health

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The UK’s Oldest Dominatrix: Mistress Sofia on confidence, consent, and why seeing a dominatrix can be good for your health

Sex in Space

38 minutes 40 seconds

3 weeks ago

The UK’s Oldest Dominatrix: Mistress Sofia on confidence, consent, and why seeing a dominatrix can be good for your health

In this episode, Toshi spoke with Mistress Sofia, the UK’s oldest dominatrix. Together they had a conversation about what it means to be a dominatrix, how Mistress Sofia got into this work, common misconceptions and what she’s learned in her time being a dominatrix.

Check out more of Mistress Sofia here: https://www.mistress-sofia.co.uk/

Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro

00:47 – Who is Mistress Sofia?

01:20 – What does it mean to be a dominatrix?

02:12 – How did Mistress Sofia get started in this work?

04:05 – Why does Mistress Sofia not use the world ‘client’?

05:03 – How do people serve Mistress Sofia?

06:58 – Is Mistress Sofia a sex worker?

08:48 – “I always ask what their kinks are”

10:06 – Caning is not as simple as it looks

12:16 – For new dominatrixes: learn from Mistress Sofia

13:20 – What does it mean to be dominant?

14:58 – Mistress Sofia on confidence

16:24 – “You cannot do this for the money”

17:23 – What does Mistress Sofia love about her job?

19:13 – What is a lifestyle slave?

20:19 – When did Mistress Sofia realise she was dominant?

21:59 – Mistress Sofia’s message to women

23:14 – How does being 75 impact her work?

24:54 – Is seeing a dominatrix while you’re in a relationship considered cheating?

27:00 – Why seeing a dominatrix can be a kind of therapy

29:30 – Navigating shame

33:07 – Final thoughts

34:58 – Mistress Sofia’s thoughts on findoms

36:16 – Why Mistress Sofia doesn’t work with women

36:44 – Goals for the future

37:59 – Where to find more of Mistress Sofia

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