In Part Two of this eye-opening episode, host Katy Harris is once again joined by Lucy Morrison-Childs as they continue to tackle some of the most common and often misunderstood beliefs around separation, divorce, and co-parenting.
Katy and Lucy continue to un-pack the 10 true or false statements. From the emotional realities of family breakdown to the practical workings of the family court system, each myth is unpacked with warmth, clarity, and professional expertise. Katy and Lucy provide compassionate, real-world context to help parents and supporters better understand the truth behind the legal and emotional journey of separation.
If you're looking for honest answers and expert-led guidance delivered with empathy and insight, this episode is a must-listen.
About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast:
Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast offers practical tools, real-life experiences, and expert conversations to help families navigate separation with clarity and compassion. Each episode brings together voices from across the family support landscape to offer direction, support, and hope.
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In Part One of this interactive and insightful episode, Katy Harris and Lucy Morrison-Childs take a closer look at the common myths and misconceptions surrounding separation, divorce and co-parenting as they separate fact from fiction.
Presented in a fun and thought-provoking game format, Katy and Lucy give 10 statements, and our producers and listeners have to guess wether they are true or false.
With each statement, Katy and Lucy unpack the reality behind the myth, offering compassionate and practical insights grounded in their experience. Listeners will come away with greater clarity about what really happens in family court.
Whether you're navigating a separation yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode delivers essential truths with empathy and expert perspective.
About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast:
Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast provides expert guidance, real-life experiences, and supportive tools to help families navigate separation with clarity and compassion. Each episode brings together voices from across the family support landscape, offering hope, direction and a fresh perspective on co-parenting, communication, and healing.
For compassionate mediation support, visit Katy Harris at Mediation Matters Midlands: mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk
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In the third and final part of this heartfelt series, Katy Harris and Penny Ruth Willis are joined by podcast producer and father Rob Spence for a real and honest conversation. Rob shares his personal experience of parenting apart and reflects on the emotional challenges fathers can face during and after separation.
Together, the trio discuss the damaging pressure of striving for “perfect parenting,” and how letting go of unrealistic expectations can actually lead to better outcomes for both parents and children. They tackle the complex and often misunderstood topic of parental alienation, and highlight the importance of recognising men’s emotional journeys during family breakdowns.
This episode is a compassionate, thought-provoking end to the series — offering raw, relatable perspectives and a reminder that there’s no perfect script for parenting through separation. Just connection, compassion, and a willingness to keep showing up.
About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast:Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast provides expert guidance, real-life experiences, and supportive tools to help families navigate separation with clarity and compassion. Each episode brings together voices from across the family support landscape, offering hope, direction and a fresh perspective on co-parenting, communication, and healing.
For compassionate mediation support, visit Katy Harris at Mediation Matters Midlands: mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk
To learn more about NVR or access counselling and psychotherapy for individuals, couples, families and young people, visit Penny Ruth Willis at NVRnorthampton: nvrnorthampton.co.uk
Produced by Paragon Creative Studios.
In part two of this engaging three-part series, Katy Harris and Penny Ruth Willis continue their conversation on parenting through separation and conflict. This episode focuses on how communication — or the lack of it — can deeply affect both parents and children during and after a breakup.
They introduce the concept of the “window of tolerance,” a psychological model that helps parents understand emotional regulation. Penny explains how recognising when children (and adults) are outside of their window of tolerance can improve responses to extreme behaviours. They also explore practical tools for managing breakdowns, rebuilding connection, and staying grounded during emotional storms.
Whether you’re navigating a high-conflict separation or looking for ways to stay calm and responsive with your children, this episode offers powerful strategies and reflections to support families in crisis.
About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast:
Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast provides expert guidance, real-life experiences, and supportive tools to help families navigate separation with clarity and compassion. Each episode brings together voices from across the family support landscape, offering hope, direction and a fresh perspective on co-parenting, communication, and healing.
For compassionate mediation support, visit Katy Harris at Mediation Matters Midlands: mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk
To learn more about NVR or access counselling and psychotherapy for individuals, couples, families and young people, visit Penny Ruth Willis at NVRnorthampton: nvrnorthampton.co.uk
Produced by Paragon Creative Studios.
In the first episode of this powerful three-part series, host Katy Harris is joined by Penny Ruth Willis, Founder of NVRnorthampton and an expert in Nonviolent Resistance (NVR), to explore how we can support children through separation and challenging behaviours. Together, they discuss the importance of community support — the idea that “it takes a village to raise a child” — and how building a network around parents can make a vital difference.
Katy and Penny also unpack the concept of the ‘Parent’s Promise’, a commitment to keeping children’s needs front and centre during difficult transitions. They delve into the impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), and how early trauma or conflict can shape a child’s behaviour and emotional resilience.
Whether you're a parent, carer, or professional supporting young people, this episode is packed with insights and practical thinking to help you handle separation, co-parenting, and conflict with empathy and strength.
About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast:
Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast provides expert guidance, real-life experiences, and supportive tools to help families navigate separation with clarity and compassion. Each episode brings together voices from across the family support landscape, offering hope, direction and a fresh perspective on co-parenting, communication, and healing.
For compassionate mediation support, visit Katy Harris at Mediation Matters Midlands: mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk
To learn more about NVR or access counselling and psychotherapy for individuals, couples, families and young people, visit Penny Ruth Willis at NVRnorthampton: nvrnorthampton.co.uk
Produced by Paragon Creative Studios.
Episode Four | Parenting Apart: How to Navigate Separation and Divorce Without Hurting Your Kids (Part Two)
In the second part of this special two-part series, host Katy Harris and child wellbeing expert Lucy Morrison-Childs continue their conversation on how to parent apart with empathy and care.
This episode dives deeper into the practicalities of co-parenting and handling children’s needs during a separation.
Discover actionable insights on:
Managing co-parenting schedules and ensuring consistency for your kids.
Handling tough questions from children about the separation.
Setting healthy boundaries with your ex-partner.
Building resilience and emotional stability in your children post-divorce.
Whether you’re newly separated or navigating long-term co-parenting, this episode provides guidance to help you prioritise your children’s wellbeing and foster a healthy family dynamic.
About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast:
The Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast is a weekly show dedicated to helping families navigate the emotional, financial, and practical challenges of separation.
Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, each episode provides expert advice, real-life stories, and actionable strategies to support families through divorce and co-parenting.
Subscribe or follow today for compassionate guidance and tools to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
For more information, please visit:
https://mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk/
Produced by Paragon Creative Studios.
Episode Three | Parenting Apart: How to Navigate Separation and Divorce Without Hurting Your Kids (Part One)
Separation and divorce can be difficult for families, but it’s possible to navigate these challenges without causing harm to your children.
In this first part of a special two-part series, host Katy Harris is joined by Lucy Morrison-Childs, an expert in child wellbeing, to explore how parents can support their children during a breakup.
Together, they discuss practical strategies to:
Help your children cope emotionally during a separation.
Establish a co-parenting relationship that prioritises your kids’ needs.
Communicate effectively with your ex-partner to minimise conflict.
Create a stable, supportive environment for your children.
This episode is packed with actionable advice and insights for parents looking to put their children first while navigating the complexities of parenting apart.
About the Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast:
The Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast is your trusted companion for navigating the challenges of separation and divorce.
Hosted by professional family mediator Katy Harris, this podcast offers expert advice, real-life stories, and practical tools to help you create peaceful resolutions, prioritise your family’s wellbeing, and build a brighter future.
Subscribe or follow today for weekly support and guidance.
For more information, please visit:
https://mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk/
Produced by Paragon Creative Studios.
Episode Two | The Financial Side of Divorce and Separation: What You Need to Know
Navigating the financial side of divorce and separation can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. In this episode of Seperation, Divorce and Parenting Apart Podcast, Katy Harris, joined this week by Lucy Morrison-Childs, dives into everything you need to know about managing money during a breakup.
From dividing assets to creating a financial plan for the future, we provide actionable tips and expert advice to help you take control of your finances and avoid costly mistakes.
Discover:
The key financial steps to take when separating.
How to approach discussions about money with your ex.
Common financial pitfalls and how to avoid them.
Why mediation can save you time, money, and stress.
Whether you’re just starting your separation journey or are deep in the process, this episode is packed with insights to help you rebuild your financial independence and create a stable foundation for the future.
Subscribe and follow now for more expert advice and practical solutions for navigating separation and divorce with clarity and confidence.
About the Seperation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast:
The Seperation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast is your trusted companion for navigating the complexities of divorce and separation.
Hosted by Katy Harris, this podcast offers expert insights, real-life stories, and actionable strategies to help you create peaceful resolutions, prioritise your family’s wellbeing, and build a brighter future. Subscribe today and start your journey toward healing and clarity.
To learn more, please visit:
https://mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk/
Produced by Paragon Creative Studios.
Seperation, Divorce and Parenting Apart Podcast | Episode One
Separation can feel overwhelming, but mediation offers a healthier, more peaceful path.
In this premiere episode of Seperation, Divorce and Parenting Apart Podcast, Katy Harris, a professional family mediator, shares how mediation can reduce stress, support co-parenting success, and create positive resolutions for families going through divorce, seperation, and coming to terms with co-parenting.
Discover how mediation works, its benefits over court battles, and why it helps reduce stress during separation.
You’ll learn practical strategies for:
Prioritising your children's emotional wellbeing.
Reducing conflict with your co-parent.
Managing financial discussions with clarity and fairness.
Finding emotional balance through effective communication.
This episode includes real-life stories, expert insights, and answers to common questions like, “Is mediation right for me?” and “What if we can’t agree on anything?”
Hosted by Katy Harris, an expert on seperation and divorce, and the founder of: https://mediationmattersmidlands.co.uk/
About Seperation, Divorce and Parenting Apart Podcast
The Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating life’s toughest transitions with clarity, compassion, and confidence.
Hosted by Katy Harris is a professional family mediator, this podcast offers expert insights, real-life stories, and practical strategies for families facing separation and divorce.
Each episode explores essential topics like co-parenting strategies, emotional wellbeing, financial clarity, and conflict resolution, empowering listeners to make informed, peaceful decisions for their family’s future.
Whether you're at the beginning of your separation journey or seeking tools for healthier communication, this podcast provides the guidance and support you need.
Subscribe today and start your journey toward healing, balance, and positive resolutions for you and your loved ones.
Produced by Paragon Creative Studios
Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast
The Separation, Divorce, and Parenting Apart Podcast is your go-to resource for navigating life’s toughest transitions with clarity, compassion, and confidence. Hosted by Katy Harris, a professional family mediator, this podcast offers expert insights, real-life stories, and practical strategies for families facing separation and divorce.
Each episode explores essential topics like co-parenting strategies, emotional wellbeing, financial clarity, and conflict resolution, empowering listeners to make informed, peaceful decisions for their family’s future.
Whether you're at the beginning of your separation journey or seeking tools for healthier communication, this podcast provides the guidance and support you need.
Subscribe today and start your journey toward healing, balance, and positive resolutions for you and your loved ones.
