What does it take to complete 10 Ironmans, 24 marathons, and 3 ultra-mountain bike races—while raising four kids and navigating the highs and lows of adoption and family life?
In this inspiring Sendy Mom conversation, host Becky Brouwer sits down with her good friend Chris Schilling to talk about what happens when you set hard goals—and keep going even when life changes the plan. Together, they explore how sports can teach us to be resilient, how community and family shape our courage, and how parents can model perseverance for their kids.
Whether you’re chasing a physical goal or just trying to push through a personal challenge, this episode will remind you: growth happens when you stay in the race.
Meet my Guest:
Chris Schilling is an ultra-athlete. She puts 110% into everything she does and is fully committed. Starting with playing competitive basketball in high school and college, she went on to running 24 marathons, finishing 10 Ironman competitions and 3 ultra-mountain bike races. With 4 children, 2 who are adopted, you will feel inspired and motivated to accomplish your most daunting goals. As a friend, Chris is loyal, honest, and reliable. If you are needing some motivation to accomplish your first athletic event, this episode will get you signing up without even thinking about it!
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Background
03:34 Chris is an Edgy Rule Follower
07:03 When Goals Have to Change
08:38 Adoption and Infertility
17:34 Your Body Has a Story: How To Compete in an Ironman
28:58 The Kayaking MisAdventure
33:57 Mountain Biking Challenges and Triumphs
37:00 Mountain Biking: The Next Sendy Adventure
47:21 Raising Resilient Children Through Sports
52:17 Rapid Fire Questions
Key Takeaways:
🏀 Everyone has their own unique way of being courageous.
🏀 Education is important, regardless of the field of study.
🏀 Resilience can be learned through sports and challenges.
🏀 Adoption can create beautiful connections between families.
🏀 It’s the hard experiences that help you to grow
🏀 Transitioning from one sport to another can be a natural progression.
🏀 Ironman competitions require dedication and training.
🏀 Having a race to work towards provides motivation to exercise
🏀 Sports are a great way to teach children to overcome disappointment and be resilient
🏀 Personal growth comes from overcoming obstacles.
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