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Self-Represented in Family Court

Tracey Bee, Pro Se Family Court Strategist

47 episodes

1 week ago

862.800.7850 Tracey Bee breaks down how to turn court rulings, whether wins, losses, or partial decisions, into strategic data points you can actually use to finally move your case forward. She explains how to read between the lines of your judge’s orders, spot behavioral patterns, and use those clues to predict future outcomes and strategically plot your next move. Learn how to identify what your judge rewards, what language exposes their bias or reveals their mindset, and how to use their ...

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862.800.7850 Tracey Bee breaks down how to turn court rulings, whether wins, losses, or partial decisions, into strategic data points you can actually use to finally move your case forward. She explains how to read between the lines of your judge’s orders, spot behavioral patterns, and use those clues to predict future outcomes and strategically plot your next move. Learn how to identify what your judge rewards, what language exposes their bias or reveals their mindset, and how to use their ...

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Episodes (20/47)

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 3. Ep 4. Analyzing Court Rulings to Move Your Case Forward

862.800.7850 Tracey Bee breaks down how to turn court rulings, whether wins, losses, or partial decisions, into strategic data points you can actually use to finally move your case forward. She explains how to read between the lines of your judge’s orders, spot behavioral patterns, and use those clues to predict future outcomes and strategically plot your next move. Learn how to identify what your judge rewards, what language exposes their bias or reveals their mindset, and how to use their ...

1 week ago

30 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 3. Ep 3. How to Get — and Keep — a Restraining Order That Actually Protects You

862.800.7850 Tracey Bee breaks down civil vs. criminal restraining orders as it relates to Family Court issues. She also goes into things like why requests get denied, and how to build a stronger application if you’re self‑represented or working with counsel. Learn what judges need to see, how to present testimony, what evidence matters, and options if an order is denied And if you're in northern NJ liste for details for a FREE in person event where she'l be...

3 weeks ago

32 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 3 - Episode 2: Strategy Destroyed: How the Blind Spots in Family Court Ruins Your Case

862.800.7850 Most litigants lose in Family Court for reasons they never even see coming. In this episode, I’m breaking down the hidden blind spots that can quietly sabotage your case—even when you think it’s airtight. Whether you’re representing yourself, stuck between attorneys, or even working with that so-called “bulldog” lawyer, these blind spots show up. We’re going to talk about tunnel vision, overconfidence, misunderstanding procedure, misjudging your specific judge, underestimating o...

1 month ago

25 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 3 Kickoff: Empowerment, Strategy & Beating the Rigged Family Court System

862.800.7850 Welcome back to Self-Represented in Family Court! In this Season 3 opener, Tracey Bee (your host, former family law attorney, mediator, and strategist) sets the stage for the most empowering season yet. After a summer of building new tools, connecting with advocates, and expanding her nonprofit, Tracey is ready to dive into fresh conversations on empowerment, strategy, technology, and advocacy for self-represented litigants. What You’ll Hear in This Episode: Why empowermen...

2 months ago

26 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 - Episode 18: Using Mediation Strategically in Family Court

862.800.7850 In this insightful episode your host, Tracey Bee, founder of The Divorce Solutionist, former family law attorney, and your go-to pro se strategist — pulls back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood tools in the family court system: mediation. Though often seen as a peaceful alternative to litigation, mediation is not a guaranteed fix especially for self-represented litigants. With her trademark candor and deep legal insight, Tracey shares why strategy must be at the...

5 months ago

28 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 - Episode 17: Workarounds for When You Can't Afford to Work with Divorce Professionals

862.800.7850 The family court battlefield can feel overwhelming, but in this episode, Tracey Bee is arming you with a secret weapon: workarounds. Designed for pro se litigants and anyone looking to take charge of their case, we’re unpacking clever, strategic alternatives to navigate the system without breaking the bank or losing your sanity. Fresh off last week’s deep dive into divorce professionals, Tracy shifts gears to show you how to sidestep—or supplement—those costly services with prac...

5 months ago

32 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 - Episode 16: AI In Family Law

862.800.7850 In this compelling episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, host Tracey Bee —the only pro se family court strategist — dives into a transformative topic: Artificial Intelligence and its potential in the hands of self-represented litigants. Tracey breaks down how AI is being used across legal professions, but more importantly, how you, the pro se litigant, can ethically and effectively leverage AI to empower your case. From drafting motions to organizing evidence and strategi...

5 months ago

24 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 - Episode 15: You've Just Been Served? Key Things to Look for to Check the Legal Document Validity

862.800.7850 If you've just been served, don’t panic—know what to look for. In this episode, Tracey B breaks down the essential elements to examine when you receive a legal document, motion, or petition in a family court case. Whether you're the petitioner or respondent, it's critical to understand the procedural, factual, and substantive grounds on which motions are built. Tracey walks you through the top things to watch out for to protect your rights and respond effectively—especiall...

6 months ago

24 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 - Episode 14: The Self Employed, Business Owner or 1099 Pro

862.800.7850 Are you a business owner, freelancer, or 1099 contractor navigating divorce without a lawyer? In this episode of Self-Represented in Family Court, Tracey B. dives into the unique challenges—and real opportunities—for self-employed individuals handling their own divorce or custody cases. Whether you're running an LLC, consulting on the side, or juggling multiple streams of income, this conversation is for YOU. Tracey breaks down how your financial structure impacts your di...

6 months ago

34 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2- Episode 12: The Changing Landscape of Divorce: What You Need to Know

862.800.7850 The way divorce services are delivered is evolving, and in this episode, we’re diving into the major shifts happening in the industry. From legal professionals and paralegals to divorce coaches and financial organizers, we explore the different types of support available and how they can help you navigate your divorce more effectively. We’ll discuss: ✅ The role of attorneys and when to seek legal consultation ✅ How financial professionals, like bookkeepers, can help you stay o...

7 months ago

43 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2- Episode 11: When to (or Not) Self-Represent in Family Court

862.800.7850 Have you ever wondered if representing yourself in family court is the right move for you, your family or your goals ? In this episode, I dive into the complexities of self-representation in family court cases. Using my experience as a former family law attorney and mediator, I’ll share my insights on when it makes sense to handle your case on your own and when it’s best to seek professional legal help. What You'll Learn: Understanding Self-Representation: Explore wh...

8 months ago

34 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 - Episode 10: Ethical or Unethical Practices of Lawyers in Family Court

862.800.7850 Is Your Lawyer Crossing the Line? Ethical or Unethical Practices in Family Court Do you trust your lawyer's motivations and methods? It's time to take a deeper look. In today’s episode, we dissect the fine line between ethical and unethical practices by lawyers in family courts, especially when emotions and tensions run high. This episode dives into a contentious issue many overlook or misunderstand: how lawyers maneuver within family court settings. I invite you to explore the ...

8 months ago

38 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 - Episode 9: Having Support Systems during Your Family Court Experience: A Strategic Approach

862.800.7850 In this episode of Self Represented in Family Court, I’m diving deep into the power of strategy in family court proceedings. Whether you're representing yourself or working with legal counsel, having a solid strategy—and the right support—is key to navigating this complex system successfully. Family court isn't something you should go through alone. In this episode, I’ll break down the different types of support—emotional, financial, and beyond—that help you stay focused and obj...

9 months ago

26 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 Episode 8: The Legal Costs & Fees in Family Law-An In-Depth Look

862.800.7850 Navigating family court can deplete you of every ounce of energy, every sense of sanity and every dime you have, especially when you're representing yourself. In my latest episode of Self Represented in Family Court, I spend time going into details about the realities of managing legal costs and share practical workaround tactics to minimize or avoid some of these costs. Having a clear understanding of the legal costs associated with your Family Court case should be an integral ...

9 months ago

48 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 Episode 7: Navigating Family Court as a Pro Se Litigant

862.800.7850 Do you think representing yourself in family court is an uphill battle or a strategic advantage? Well, it's both—and more. In this episode, I’m going to uncover the nuances of navigating family court as a pro se or self-represented litigant. I’ll dive deep into the concept of pro se representation, sharing the difference between those who choose to represent themselves and those who are forced into it. From the personal toll it can take to the systemic challenges you’ll fa...

9 months ago

47 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 - Episode 6: The "Real" of Coercive Control & Its Application in Family Court

862.800.7850 In this episode, we confront a critical yet often overlooked aspect of domestic violence: coercive control. As a form of abuse that manipulates an individual's freedom and decision-making, coercive control includes behaviors like monitoring spending, isolating victims from social interactions, and controlling personal movements. Originating from Dr. Evan Stark’s work on power dynamics in relationships, this form of abuse has recently gained legal recognition. We're highlighting ...

1 year ago

32 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 - Episode 5: October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

862.800.7850 This week, in recognition of October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we're dedicating the next few episodes to all the brave survivors of domestic violence. We take a look into the challenges of presenting domestic violence cases in family court and their impact on the overall outcome in custody, visitation, and divorce proceedings. We'll explore why family courts often struggle with addressing abuse allegations, the varying levels of abuse and their implications, an...

1 year ago

27 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 Episode 4: Ten Things to Avoid Wasting Your Life Savings on Legal Fees

862.800.7850 Today we're exploring a crucial topic: how to avoid wasting your life savings on legal fees. We'll discuss strategic approaches to settling disputes independently, performing cost-benefit analyses, and leveraging tools to make informed decisions. We'll also discuss alternative legal resolutions like negotiations and mediation, the importance of knowing your judge, and how to document effectively. By the end of this episode, you'll have practical advice on how to manage your case...

1 year ago

36 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

Season 2 Episode 3: Being Strategic with Parenting Plans

862.800.7850 Do you think creating a parenting plan is an easy, straightforward process? Or that even having one is an absolute MUST? Well, think again. Discover how overly lengthy and generic parenting plans can do more harm than good, especially in high-conflict situations, in this week's discussion. This episode dives into the saturated and often oversimplified world of parenting plans in Family Court. Join me, Tracey Bee, as I break down the complexities of crafting a helfpul plan that g...

1 year ago

43 minutes

Self-Represented in Family Court

S2E2: Choosing to File Contempt in Family Court

862.800.7850 Think you know how Family Courts operate when it comes to enforcing, punishing or even taking action when there is uncooperation between the parties? Think again. In this eye-opening episode, I pull back the curtain to reveal the strategic nuances and intricate challenges that litigants face when navigating family court, especially when dealing with Contempt motions. Whether you're self-represented or working with an attorney, my goal is to equip you with practical, insightful s...

1 year ago

36 minutes