Self-sabotage is very common and doesn't necessarily originate in childhood or trauma. And it has to do with not accepting reality as it is. Not knowing how to deal with yourself, others, and life.

          You can't change effects if you don't identify the cause and work on it. So if you're feeling stuck and are not getting the results you want so much, it's because you're not working on the cause.

          And there is probably an unconscious resistance that is keeping you from getting there. This inner block may be on a more superficial or deeper level of your psyche.

          As long as you don't look and accept your real reasons for not getting what you want consciously, you will keep trying and failing.

          So come listen to this episode, where I explain how I identify unconscious sabotages, before your accumulated frustration turns to anger or depression.