It Was Never You — It Was Their Projection

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Self-Carved

Ivana Vuletic

85 episodes

6 days ago

Self-Carved is the podcast for women with disorganized attachment (fearful avoidant) who are done with toxic cycles, self-doubt, and settling for breadcrumbs. If you crave deep love but constantly push it away, overgive, or second-guess yourself—this is where you break the pattern. Expect psychological deep dives, raw truths, and no-fluff strategies that help you build unshakable self-worth, trust yourself fully, and finally attract the secure, high-caliber love you deserve. It’s time to step out of survival mode and into your power. The Self-Carved woman doesn’t beg for love—she chooses it.

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It Was Never You — It Was Their Projection

Self-Carved

9 minutes 26 seconds

2 months ago

It Was Never You — It Was Their Projection

Ever walked away from a conversation wondering, “Did I do something wrong?” even though you were just being honest?

That’s the hidden weapon of projection—and it’s how toxic people transfer their unhealed wounds onto you.
In this episode, we unpack:

- What projection really is (and why it’s so dangerous)
- The psychological trick it plays on high-achieving women with big hearts
- Why some people NEED you to be the villain
- How to stop internalizing their shame and take your power back

If you’re done carrying blame that isn’t yours, this conversation will be a reset.

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