In this episode, Stefani Fryzel dives into the delicate balance between writing music for yourself and crafting songs for other artists. She unpacks the emotional layers of songwriting, how to stay authentic in collaborations, and how to navigate the tough decision of whether to keep a song or pitch it. Through personal stories and real-world insights, Stefani shares how adaptability and perspective shifts can open unexpected creative doors. Writing for yourself allows full creative freedom, while supporting another artist requires vulnerability and creating a safe, open space for collaboration. Staying authentic is key to maintaining your unique voice, and it’s important to remember you don’t have to say yes to every project that comes your way. Giving yourself time and space to decide where your songs belong can be just as valuable as the writing process itself. Collaboration often sparks surprising breakthroughs and growth, and by staying open to pitching songs and learning from different writing styles, you not only expand your craft but also create music that has the power to deeply impact listeners. Timestamps: 00:00: Introduction to Creative Duality 05:47: The Emotional Landscape of Songwriting 10:21: Authenticity in Collaboration 13:07: Deciding the Fate of Your Songs 18:12: Lessons from Shifting Perspectives   LINKS   Join us at our Annual Hitmakers Songwriting Retreat this October in Los Angeles!: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1301496574289?aff=oddtdtcreator More info: stefanifryzel.com Join us at The Songwriter Series for music mentorship from hit songwriters: https://www.stefanifryzel.com/the-songwriter-series Join the Artist Development Program: https://www.stefanifryzel.com/artist-development-program-1 For more info on all our events visit: stefanifryzel.com or email us at info@stefanifryzel.com Free Resources: https://www.stefanifryzel.com/opt-in-1 Self-Care for the Creative Book: https://www.amazon.com/Self-Care-Creative-Survival-Creatives-Sensitive/dp/1960876120 Book a 1:1 session: stan.store/StefaniFryzel/p/11-strategy-session-with-stefani-fryzel