Send us a text There’s a difference between pursuing something and chasing it. Pursuit is mutual. It’s two people moving toward each other with equal effort. Chasing is one-sided; it’s you running after someone or something that’s walking away. I used to think that if someone started to drift, it was my job to close the gap. I’d call first, text first, plan the meet-ups, carry the conversation, and make excuses for why they weren’t doing the same. The truth is, my reactions and pulling were d...