The Save Your Sanity podcast offers episodes filled with the expert insights, validation, strategies, and support you need to recognize, manage, and recover from relationships with the relentlessly difficult, toxic--and often disturbing--people that host Dr. Rhoberta Shaler calls Hijackals®.
She offers invaluable help to stop the second-guessing, undermining, and crazy-making traits, patterns, and cycles you have encountered in relationships with folks like those. Understand the ways, whys, and hows that verbal abuse, emotional abuse, and spiritual abuse affect you over time. Whether the Hijackal is a partner, parent, ex, or colleague, what you will learn here will strengthen and empower you to step up, speak up, and stand up for yourself in healthy, assertive ways.
Many Hijackals have behaviors that are considered the same as those who are diagnosed as narcissists, borderlines, psychopaths, sociopaths, and histrionic personality disorder. These insights will help you to make the changes--and good decisions--to move from pain to power, and that's exactly what you want to do! Listen now.
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The Save Your Sanity podcast offers episodes filled with the expert insights, validation, strategies, and support you need to recognize, manage, and recover from relationships with the relentlessly difficult, toxic--and often disturbing--people that host Dr. Rhoberta Shaler calls Hijackals®.
She offers invaluable help to stop the second-guessing, undermining, and crazy-making traits, patterns, and cycles you have encountered in relationships with folks like those. Understand the ways, whys, and hows that verbal abuse, emotional abuse, and spiritual abuse affect you over time. Whether the Hijackal is a partner, parent, ex, or colleague, what you will learn here will strengthen and empower you to step up, speak up, and stand up for yourself in healthy, assertive ways.
Many Hijackals have behaviors that are considered the same as those who are diagnosed as narcissists, borderlines, psychopaths, sociopaths, and histrionic personality disorder. These insights will help you to make the changes--and good decisions--to move from pain to power, and that's exactly what you want to do! Listen now.
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This audio was recorded in 2006, long before Hijackals became Dr. Shaler's focus.
Rethinking Selfishness: "What if I told you that I now value selfishness? Would that be shocking? Not only do I value it, but I encourage others to value it and practice it."
In this first of our upcoming Legacy Files, Dr. Shaler explores the often misunderstood concept of selfishness and redefines it as a positive force. Throughout our lives, many of us have been taught that being selfish is wrong. However, Dr. Shaler encourages us to reconsider this notion, advocating for a type of selfishness that empowers us to better care for ourselves and, in turn, more genuinely care for others.
She delves into how practicing what she terms "positive selfishness" can actually increase our self-esteem, improve our personal freedom, and enhance our abilities to contribute to the world. In this discussion, we'll unpack the differences between detrimental selfishness and beneficial self-focus, explore the importance of setting boundaries, and debunk the myth that loving oneself is an act of neglect towards others. Join us as we lean into learning how to be positively selfish, and why it is crucial not just for personal happiness, but also for fostering healthier relationships.
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We are deeply saddened to share that Dr. Shaler passed away unexpectedly on April 3, 2024.
She left peacefully and without any further discomfort, full of grace. Rhoberta worked hard to maintain her energy to continue offering time and wisdom to clients, members, and strangers alike, who found her voice and demeanor comforting and strengthening as you each faced difficult and overwhelming experiences.
We know it was very hard for her to let go enough to leave her clients and fans behind, and that serving you all was her greatest joy.
If you need some time with her, please visit her youtube channel (youtube.com/@forrelationshiphelp) or listen to other episodes in this podcast. There is a wealth more information among all her body of work, that has not yet made it into the world. We will continue to surface this additional material and content from her deep archive to allow her voice and strength to continue helping you all.
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Whether you're looking for a new friend or a potential new relationship, you don't want to be trauma dumping. When you let your whole story fly, someone else is likely to get crushed by it.
Out of the gate, with someone new, it's smart to establish a relationship dynamic based on balance, mutual sharing, and emotional maturity. Oversharing personal traumas can burden the budding relationship and skew its potential for growth.
Whether you're single, dating, or looking to improve your emotional connections, this episode of #saveyoursanitypodcast share strategies and practices you need, to proceed with care and confidence.
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YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#dramadumping #traumadumping #narcissistsbehaveliketoddlers #traumadumpingredflag #dramadumpingattractcshijackals
#narcissistsbreakpromises #canttrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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SOOO frustrating! You hoped for a partner, parent, sibling, or adult child with whom you could communicate, collaborate, and co-operate, but no. You live most of the time with q tiresome toddler or miserable middle schooler, right?
Learn more about recognizing the patterns and altering your expectations now.
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Rhoberta
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PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com
NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
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INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#narcicisstsareemotionallyimmature #emotionallyimmature #hijjackalsareemotionallyimmature #narcissistsbehaveliketoddlers
#narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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Narcissists ask for too much...and they expect to get it. It's essential to hear that a question is outrageous so you can respond differently. If you've been with a Hijackal for too long, you may have stopped hearing their questions as outrageous;
This episode will sharpen your listening skills and increase your sensitivity to questions that are intrusive, violating, and need a solid NO answer.
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NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
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INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#learntosayno #saynotosadsm #saynotomysogyny #saynotoqhmakesmeuncomfotable
#narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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Being with a narcissistic person is scary, right? You are usually wrong...even when you're right!. You never know what mood they'll be in. They lie, gaslight, rage, and fall silent.
They are intimidating! They keep you on edge! What can you do to reduce the intimidation? Listen to this episode.
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INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#narcissstiintimitation #respondingtointimidation #stayingcalmwhennarcissistsareangry
#narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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Can't do anything wrong? Get away with nonsense? Get extra goodies? Attention? Time?
Might sound good but it can get old fast and leave you with very poor self-esteem and a lack of identity. Have a sibling who is the Golden Child? You envied them and now you se them differently?
VERY IMPORTANT EPISODE to straighten your thinking about yourself and others who were treated as Golden Children growing up.
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PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com
NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor
INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#goldenchilldinfamily #goldenchildonlychild #goldenchildrepresentsfamily #goldenchildscapgoatlostchild
#narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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Narcissists love it when you run after their approval.
You hope to explain yourself and be heard; they hope to explain you away.
In this episode are five iron-clad reasons to not even try to please a Hijackal - save your energy, save your time, save your self-esteem.
Listen in.
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PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com
NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor
INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#narcissistisalwaysright #hijackalalwaysright #narcissistslie #hijackalslie #narcissistsmustwin
#narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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You want someone--at least one someone--to hear you, see you, believe you. So you share. Sadly, that often turns into oversharing, leaving you a little red-faced. if you fully embarrassed a little later, right? "Why did I do that?"
There are good reasons you overshare. Don't beat yourself up for it. Listen in to understand the "whys" and stick around for the "why nots!" so you can make positive changes in what you share and with whom. You can stop oversharing, and still be heard when you talk with the right people.
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WEBSITE: https://www.EmergingEmpowered.com
PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com
NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor
INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#oversharing #feelinginvisible #wantingtobeheard #flyingmonkeys #givinggossip #falseintimacy
#narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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Steps to emotional freedom require knowing where the path starts. These five "must-do's" are fundamental to saving your sanity, self-esteem, and self-confidence. When you're in a toxic relationship with a narcissistic Hijackal, it's even MORE critlcal.
Know the importance of each of these and how to keep them top of mind. Develop enough strength to follow the "healthier human" path to avoid being sucked down the "Hijackal human" one. YOU CAN!!
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I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.
Rhoberta
FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...
WEBSITE: https://www.EmergingEmpowered.com
PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com
NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor
INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#narcississticprojection #observenarcissisticbehavior #emotionaldistance #safefromanarcissist
#narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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Oh, how Hijackals love to poke, prod, and provoke you into losing it and reacting, right? And then they like to wind you up further so you'll yell, blame, complain, and meltdown. Crazy-making?
Yes, INTENTIONALLY CRAZY-MAKING!
Learn ways to not go there, to not react, to not behave like the Hijackal...or the way the Hijackal wants to manipulate you into behaving, How to choose control and calm instead. Yay!
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I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.
Rhoberta
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NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
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INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#reactiveabuse @coercivecontrol #avoidreactiveabuse #narciccistprojection
narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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Narcissistic Hijackals know what you want. Yet, they withhold giving it to you. They know what you need. Yet, they refuse to fulfill it. They know how to make you happy, but prefer disappointing you.
Think deeply about these five "would be good" things narcissists promise but fail to deliver...and, they do it very deliberately. There are real deal-breakers...when you actually see them. Listen in. Don't be fooled by the promises!!!
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
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WEBSITE: https://www.EmergingEmpowered.com
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NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
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INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#narcissistsbreakpromises #canrustanarcissist #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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You want to be able to trust a person, right? It's natural. It's healthy. Yet, you cannot trust narcissists or any variation of Hijackal. And, I know you want to.
In this episode, hear the many ways you CANNOT trust them, even when you want to. Hear ways you convince yourself you can believe them, and why you must stop. Yep, it's hard sometimes. But, if you trust them, you're diving into crazy-making even further...and, that's never a good thing. Join in.
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NEWSLETTER: http://www.HijackalHelp.com
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INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp
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#nevertrustanarcissst #canitrustanarcissist #donttrustanarcissist #wasteyearsofmylife
#emotionalabuserecovery #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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Little by little, nasty, bitter, unfair things start becoming part of the day-to-day with a narcissist. Those Hijackals are relentless in wearing you down and getting their way, right?
You might pass it off as another "little thing to avoid" to reduce the abuse. WHAT? You're doing things to reduce the abuse rather than set boundaries and making plans to leave? SEE HOW SNEAKY IT ALL IS? Don't miss these ten main "features" of narcissistic emotional abuse!!
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#emotionallyabused #usedtobeingabused #seeingemotionalabuse #beingusedandabused
#emotionalabuserecovery #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis #personalitydisorders #hijackals #narcissist #anri-social
#hijackals #emotionalabuse #narcissists #toxicrelationships #breakingthebonds #verbalabuse
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Some Hijackals are subtle, some are sneaky. All are to keep your relationship in chaos, preferably with you giving in to their whims, demands, and expectations. Most of all, they want to be in charge and in control of all the things. Be informed. See them for what and who they are.
They are always wanting to create a fracas, a commotion, an upset, and a mess. When you can see what they're up to, it's easier to see their ploys, tricks, and defaults. Then you an choose your responses in healthier ways.
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.
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INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler
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When you're on guard every minute, hypervigilant about the next accusation, you might think I'm suggesting something impossible...maybe even crazy. I'm not.
It's important to recognize that you can stay in charge of yourself, no matter what kind of crazy-making the Hijackal or narcissist engages in.
Difficult? Yes, but not impossible. Worthwhile? Definitely!
Learn this invaluable approach to taking good care of yourself, even though you may be rattled daily by a Hijackal now.
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You may think that it's impossible to be "too nice." It's not. It actually can make things worse...and that's just what it does when you're in a relationship with a narcissistic Hijackal.
You do all the giving and then, more is expected, right? Not working! Listen in to recognize the ways being "too nice" works against you.
Hijackals LOVE to take advantage of someone who will fall all over themselves to keep the Hijackal happy. Remember, though, the Hijackal is dedicated to never being happy for more than a hot minute...if that. Then, it will be right back to blaming you for everything.
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Most people want to believe the stories of others. You want to be able to trust, right? So, you're inclined to be sucked in by plausible stories, excuses, reasons, etc.. Also, you don't want the hassle of their endless denials and turning things on you.
Learn how plausibility is the key to turning this into healthier interactions to stop the crazy-making. Listen in and get away.
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You're a good person. You want to see the best in folks. You are right ready to help someone excuse their poor behavior, and be understanding. Hijackals count on that! They treat you poorly to see how much you'll put up with.
It's often not long into the relationship before they're taking up all the space....and you're gasping for air, dying to be heard.
BE CLEAR ABOUT THESE 12 TRAITS. See them. Believe them. Don't expect them to change.
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Narcissists and other Hijackals are infuriating, frustrating, and crazy-making. You reach the end of your tether and you want to tell them everything that's wrong with them and more.
You've likely noticed that nothing good happens when you accuse them of being narcissistic,, point out their flaws, or ask them to change. What's much ore likely to happen is that they explode, spilling their nastiness in every direction. MAXIMUM AGGRESSION.
Listen to this episode to understand why and how to stop poking the Hijackal. You'll feel better when you stop.
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You want to believe that love can change people, right? So, you give, give, and give in yet nothing really gets better beyond a half minute. You decide to give more until there is little left of you. Nothing changes...except for getting worse. That's because their decision to change has nothing to do with it And, worse...they have no interest in changing to make things better.
Listen in to realize the many reasons WHY this is so, and WHY it's so hard to believe people who think and behave in narcissistic Hijackal ways exist...and see no reason to care how they affect you. ESSENTIAL TO RECOGNIZE!
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