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Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Phillip and Priscilla Fretwell
46 episodes
4 days ago
In a world obsessed with sharing every detail of life, there’s one thing that few people ever share: problems in their marriages. Real problems: adultery, pornography, prostitution, and the dysfunction that comes from hiding trauma and wounds of the past. Join Phil and Priscilla as they transparently share how God rescued their marriage, and how He can rescue yours too! For more information about Savage Marriage, visit www.savagemarriageministries.com
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In a world obsessed with sharing every detail of life, there’s one thing that few people ever share: problems in their marriages. Real problems: adultery, pornography, prostitution, and the dysfunction that comes from hiding trauma and wounds of the past. Join Phil and Priscilla as they transparently share how God rescued their marriage, and how He can rescue yours too! For more information about Savage Marriage, visit www.savagemarriageministries.com
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Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #46: Healing The Wounds Behind Same-Sex Attraction: Niki's Journey to Freedom and Genuine Love (Part 2)

During a conference, we once asked everyone how many people had same-sex attraction as some part of their history, either from childhood, the porn they watched or a relationship they pursued. Over half the people raised their hand.


Today, 22% of Gen Z identify as LGBTQ. Even with this level of cultural prevalence, many Christians struggle with how they view people with same-sex attraction, and what should they say to them.


On this podcast, we have Part 2 of our conversation with Niki Speed, and how God pursued her life to not only save and heal her, but to bless her.

You'll be encouraged by her story as we bring her husband Paul into the conversation. Together, they paint a beautiful picture of how God took a hopeless, helpless, hot mess (Niki's words), and turned her into something only God could create - beautiful, whole and redeemed.


Phil and Priscilla


P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Consider attending a weekend intensive with Whatever it Takes Ministries (⁠⁠witministries.com⁠⁠). They would be glad to speak with you!



Resources:

Want to talk with Phil and Priscilla? Schedule a coaching call at ⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠.

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

To receive marriage resources, updates and insights, join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com.⁠⁠


Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


The Savage Marriage Study Guide is available on Amazon at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.


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6 months ago
32 minutes 27 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #45 - Will I always struggle with this? The truth about Same-Sex Attraction, Shame, and the Power to Overcome: Niki Speed's Story

When we first heard Niki Speed's story, it was instrumental in helping us believe nothing was too big for God, including same-sex attraction and the trauma of our past.

Today, we're so pleased to introduce Niki Speed, who is married to Paul Speed, the Founder of Whatever it Takes Ministries.

We've served with them for many years at weekend intensives with Whatever it Takes Ministries, and Niki is real, raw and shares transparently about how she not only embraced a lesbian lifestyle for 20 years, but also how she got there, and how God rescued her life.

So, if you need a fresh touch from God in believing Him for what seems to be impossible, listen to Niki (and Paul) as they share how God brought Niki from a life that most would think could never recover, to a ministry that's helping people overcome the trauma and wounds of their past.

Phil and Priscilla


P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Consider attending a weekend intensive with Whatever it Takes Ministries (⁠witministries.com⁠). They would be glad to speak with you!



Resources:

Want to talk with Phil and Priscilla? Schedule a coaching call at ⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠. ⁠⁠⁠⁠

To receive marriage resources, updates and insights, join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com.⁠


Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.






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6 months ago
36 minutes 30 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #44: Spiritual Intimacy: This was the Key that Changed Everything

We've found that most marriages are chasing intimacy but looking in all the wrong places. We sure did, and it never created a relationship that met the deep needs of our souls.

What we eventually discovered was that spiritual intimacy needed to be the foundation of our relationship, and that spiritual intimacy would lead to emotional intimacy. These two things, working together, then created a foundation for a new marriage, and one in which our sexual intimacy could grow and even flourish.

Join us on this episode as we discuss the one thing we discovered that was key to becoming spiritually intimate. It's the most frequent question we receive from couples looking for a resurrection in their marriage.

Phil and Priscilla

P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Book a free introductory coaching call with us on our website at ⁠savagemarriageministries.com⁠. We'd love to talk with you!



Resources:

Schedule a coaching call with Phil and Priscilla at ⁠⁠Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries⁠⁠

Join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Ministries⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.


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11 months ago
29 minutes 13 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #43: "Chapter 12, Radical Courage and Vulnerability" (The Last Chapter!)

After experiencing God's healing in our marriage, we wanted to share with others what He had done for us. It gave purpose to our pain, and every opportunity we had to share reminded us of what God had done.

But this meant that we had to sometimes share very personal details of our journey. As we did this, we gave other couples "permission" to transparently share their stories. This mutual vulnerability created beautiful relationships as we became intimately known to others in a God-honoring way.

Join us as we read the final chapter of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll discover what we found out - that radical courage and vulnerability allowed us to participate in the healing of others.

We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla


P.S. - This episode also includes the Epilogue, where our youngest daughters provide their comments on how our coming clean affected them when they were only 11 and 9 years old. It's candid and fresh and will encourage you to also share your story with your kids.


Resources:

If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠ Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.com at ⁠https://a.co/d/eiZKpNy⁠

The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on Amazon.com at ⁠https://a.co/d/gzUdIGB⁠

Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Thanks for partnering with us!

Phil and Priscilla


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1 year ago
48 minutes 17 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #42: Chapter 11, "Discovering True Sexual Intimacy"

After going through the pain of betrayal, many couples struggle with whether, when and how to reengage again sexually. In fact, some studies suggest that 20-30% of all couples live in a sexless marriage.

Is it really possible to create new feelings of sexual desire and intimacy after suffering the pain of betrayal?

Or to create sexual intimacy that never existed before?

Join us as we read Chapter 11 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll discover what we found out - that God wants to be invited into your sexual journey, and with his help, your sexual intimacy can flourish no matter the pain you've gone through.

We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla


Resources:

If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on Amazon.com at https://a.co/d/eiZKpNy

The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on Amazon.com at https://a.co/d/gzUdIGB

Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Thanks for partnering with us!

Phil and Priscilla


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1 year ago
39 minutes 4 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #41: How Forgiveness led to Becoming Battle Partners: Rey and Jane's Resurrection Story (Part 2)

In Part 1 of Rey and Jane's story, Jane described how she forgave Rey for a 10-year relationship he had with her sister. Rey described how it was so hard for him to accept Jane's forgiveness, believing that forgiveness was only for people who were better than him.

Today, you're going to hear how this path of mercy, grace and forgiveness took them toward becoming battle partners. It's an amazing story, and you don't want to miss it!

We've served with Rey and Jane for the past five years at weekend intensives with Whatever it Takes Ministries, and they are real, raw and share transparently about what God's done in their marriage and family.

So, if you need a fresh touch from God in your marriage, listen to Rey and Jane, as they share how God brought them from a marriage that most would think could never recover, to a ministry that's blossomed over the past 19 years.

Phil and Priscilla


P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Do you want to hear more from Rey and Jane? Consider attending a weekend intensive with Whatever it Takes Ministries (⁠witministries.com⁠). They would be glad to speak with you!



Resources:

Want to talk with Phil and Priscilla? Schedule a coaching call at ⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠. ⁠⁠⁠⁠

To receive marriage resources, updates and insights, join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com.⁠


Buy Phil and Priscilla's award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Buy the award-winning Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.





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1 year ago
42 minutes 46 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #40: When Forgiveness Looks Impossible: Rey and Jane's Journey of Healing (Part 1)

We first heard Rey and Jane Alvarenga's story 7 years ago, and it was instrumental in helping us believe that God could rescue our marriage, no matter how big the pit was that we had dug.

Today, we're so pleased to introduce Rey and Jane to you.

We've served with them for the past five years at weekend intensives with Whatever it Takes Ministries, and they are real, raw and share transparently about what God's done in their marriage and family.

So, if you need a fresh touch from God in your marriage, listen to Rey and Jane, as they share how God brought them from a marriage that most would think could never recover, to a ministry that's blossomed over the past 19 years.

Phil and Priscilla


P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Consider attending a weekend intensive with Whatever it Takes Ministries (witministries.com). They would be glad to speak with you!



Resources:

Want to talk with Phil and Priscilla? Schedule a coaching call at SavageMarriageMinistries.com. ⁠⁠

To receive marriage resources, updates and insights, join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com.


Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.





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1 year ago
41 minutes 47 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #39: How to Escape Temptation

When you hear the word "temptation", what feelings do you have? Sin? Failure? Frustration?

All these feelings are normal, because few people know how to escape from temptation.

Join us for this podcast, where we share with you the game changers in our marriage that have allowed us to understand that temptation is a testing, but doesn't need to necessarily lead to sin.

If temptation has created fear and insecurities in your marriage, you don't want to miss this one!

Phil and Priscilla

P.S. - Do you need help in your marriage? Book a free introductory coaching call with us on our website at savagemarriageministries.com. We'd love to talk with you!



Resources:

Schedule a coaching call with Phil and Priscilla at ⁠Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries⁠

Join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Ministries⁠⁠⁠⁠


Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at ⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠ Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at ⁠⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠⁠


And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.




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1 year ago
29 minutes 41 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #38: Chapter 10, "Embracing our Emotions"

After going through the pain of betrayal, many couples settle for just getting back to a functional marriage, but not one that's emotionally intimate.

Is it really possible to recover feelings of emotional connection?

Or to create emotional intimacy that never existed before?

Join us as we read Chapter 10 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll discover what we found out - that empathy and compassion are the gateways to emotional intimacy.

Once we began to see one another's back story and understand why we did what we did, God allowed feelings of empathy and compassion to spring up, taking us toward a level of emotional intimacy we'd never before experienced.

We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla


Resources:

If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at ⁠⁠⁠Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries⁠⁠⁠ Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WITMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Thanks for partnering with us!

Phil and Priscilla


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1 year ago
42 minutes 40 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #37: Chapter 9, "Spiritual Fuel"

We'd always believed that emotional and sexual intimacy were the keys to a great marriage. But when our marriage broke down after 28 years, we wondered what happened.

Was it possible that there was more to marriage than emotional and sexual intimacy, and we had missed it all these years?

Join us as we read Chapter 9 of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll discover what we found out - that spiritual intimacy with one another was the missing part of our relationship.

Once we began cultivating our spiritual relationship with one another, God began showing up in supernatural ways we had never before experienced.

We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla


Resources:

If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at ⁠⁠Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries⁠⁠ Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

The popular Savage Marriage Study Guide is also available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WITMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Thanks for partnering with us!

Phil and Priscilla

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1 year ago
41 minutes 4 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #36: Do You Ever Feel Like You're Just Roommates? Three Things that Transformed our Marriage (and They'll Transform Yours Too!)

We had a lot of ground together after Phil "came clean" seven years ago. Our 28 year marriage was functional, but we still felt like roommates, always wanting more, but settling for less. And we thought everyone else was in the same boat.

But seven years ago, we discovered three things that have made all the difference, and we believe these three things can take you from feeling like roommates, to sensing fulfillment and intimacy again.

Join us as we discuss our journey, and how you can start your own journey of transformation in your marriage.

Phil and Priscilla

Resources:

Schedule a coaching call with Phil and Priscilla at Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries

Join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Ministries⁠⁠⁠


Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at ⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠ Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at ⁠⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠⁠


And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.

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1 year ago
29 minutes 27 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #35: Chapter 8, "Unseen Forces in Our Minds"

Have you ever struggled with intruding thoughts that seen to take you hostage, dictating how you will think, feel and act?

Well, we sure did!

Join us as we read Chapter 8 of our award winning book, Savage Marriage, Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction. You'll see that not every thought in your mind is yours!

We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla


Resources:

If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, details are available on their website at ⁠Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries⁠ Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

The popular study guide for this book is also available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at ⁠⁠⁠⁠WITMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Thanks for partnering with us!

Phil and Priscilla

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1 year ago
45 minutes 52 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #34: "And then She Threw Your Book Across the Room."

We receive lots of feedback on our book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, and sometimes there are some strong emotional responses, like when someone says their spouse threw our book across the room or out the window.

So, what do we say when we hear reactions like this?

We say, Hallelujah! At least what's been on the inside is coming out!

The first step toward recovery is to show what requires restoration, and the emotional and physical manifestations of inward feelings are clues on where to look for what needs to be healed.

Join us today as we talk about what God can do in the middle of our strong displays of emotion. It's God's road to recovery, and we invite you to join us as we walk through it!

Phil and Priscilla


P.S. - If you've enjoyed our podcast, would you please subscribe and provide a rating? Your comments are helpful for others to find our podcast who may also be looking for healing and restoration in their marriage!

Resources:

Join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠Savage Marriage Ministries⁠⁠


Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at ⁠⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠ Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at ⁠⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠⁠


And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.

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1 year ago
17 minutes 8 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #33: Chapter 7, "Freedom from Shame"


We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!

In Chapter 7, "Freedom from Shame," Phil and Priscilla learn that to start the journey forward, they need to take a journey backward...to what happened in their childhood...to their "take it to the grave lists". After addressing the wounds of their past, they begin the awkward conversations with their extended family and see further "ripple effects" of their story...a real miracle of healing.

We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did! Phil and Priscilla

Resources:

If you'd like to have coaching with Phil and Priscilla, contact them at info@savagemarriageministries.com. More details are available on their website at Services 3 — Savage Marriage Ministries Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

The popular study guide for this book is also available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at ⁠⁠⁠WITMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠.

Thanks for partnering with us!

Phil and Priscilla



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1 year ago
41 minutes 34 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #32: Chapter 6, "Confessing Secret Sins"

We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!

In Chapter 6, "Confessing Secret Sins", Phil and Priscilla detail their painful confessions with their five children, with their three adult children describing (in their own voices) their reactions. It's a turning point in their reconciliation, as Priscilla sees Phil do something she never thought he do - humble himself before his children.

We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!


Resources:

Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

The popular study guide for this book is also available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at ⁠⁠WITMinistries.com⁠⁠.

Thanks for partnering with us!

Phil and Priscilla

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1 year ago
48 minutes 16 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #31: Chapter 5, "Releasing the Power of Humility"

We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!

In Chapter 5, Phil describes how he attends 4 Days 2 Freedom and learns how humility is the key to unlocking the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome his past, his addictions, and his self-centeredness. Priscilla describes how she sees her identity in Christ, and both she and Phil turn the corner to a new life, a new relationship and a new marriage.

We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!


Resources:

Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠⁠.

The popular study guide for this book is also available on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠.

Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at ⁠WITMinistries.com⁠.

Thanks for partnering with us!

Phil and Priscilla


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1 year ago
46 minutes 47 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #30: Let's Talk About Masturbation

While talking about porn has become mainstream in many churches, using the "M" word - masturbation - hasn't. Even mentioning it seems to evoke feelings of shame, with many people choosing less offensive words, like "solo sex" or "self-pleasuring".

But masturbation has real effects on our body, soul, and spirit, and realizing freedom from the associated idol of lust is not only possible, but probable for people committed to doing whatever it takes to find help.

Join Phil and Priscilla on this podcast as they talk about how masturbation affected them, and how they now live in freedom.


Resources:

Join the Savage Marriage Community at ⁠Savage Marriage Ministries⁠


Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at ⁠Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books⁠ Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at ⁠Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books⁠


And follow the Savage Marriage podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.


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1 year ago
26 minutes 12 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #29: Chapter 4, Unlocking the Door to Forgiveness (Audio Book)

We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!

In Chapter 4, Priscilla describes how her healing began at 4 Days 2 Hope, and how God showed her what it meant to forgive by faith. It was where Priscilla began to see her own journey toward healing, and what God wanted to do, not only in Phil's life, but also in hers. Without this revelation, Phil and Priscilla's path toward reconciliation would have been very different.

We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!


Resources:

Our hardcopy book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, is available on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠.

The popular study guide for this book is also available on ⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠.

Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠⁠.

Attend a weekend intensive for women, men or couples with Whatever it Takes Ministries. Find out more information at WITMinistries.com.

Thanks for partnering with us!

Phil and Priscilla



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1 year ago
36 minutes 42 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #28: Chapter 3, Savage Marriage: "Secrets Shatter our Marriage" (Audio Book)

We're releasing the audio version of our award-winning book, Savage Marriage: Triumph Over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, chapter by chapter, every few weeks on this podcast! If you're someone who'd rather listen to the story than read it (complete with all our emotions on full display), this podcast is for you!

In Chapter 3, Phil and Priscilla describe how Phil "came clean'', beginning the painful journey toward healing. Through the emotional sharing, Priscilla agrees to help Phil "get fixed", even though she isn't aware what's in store for her in the weeks ahead. It's a pivotal point in their story we're sure you won't want to miss!

We encourage you to share this podcast with a friend, and subscribe so you don't miss an episode. You'll be glad you did!

And if you don't want to wait for all the chapters to be released, you can buy the hardcopy book on ⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠. The popular study guide for this book is also available on ⁠Amazon⁠. Also, join our Savage Marriage Community at ⁠⁠SavageMarriageMinistries.com⁠⁠. Thanks for partnering with us!

Phil and Priscilla


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2 years ago
37 minutes 21 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
Episode #27: Why "Date Night" and the "30-day Sex Challenge" Won't Work

"Date Night" has become almost a required step for every couple to have a successful marriage, promising emotional bliss for couples who'll stay committed to one night a week alone.

And when date night doesn't work, some couples throw in more sex, following programs like the "30-day Sex Challenge".

Yet, we meet many couples whose marriages are struggling, while they're religiously having date nights (and trying to have more sex). We were one of those couples for twenty-eight years, unable to find real intimacy in the face of numerous moral and spiritual failures, but still counting on date night to solve our problems. Join us on this podcast as we talk about how we experienced real intimacy in our marriage...intimacy based not on what we could do...but on what only God could do.

- Phil and Priscilla, Savage Marriage Ministries

Resources:

Join the Savage Marriage Community at Savage Marriage Ministries

Buy Phil and Priscilla's book, Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction, at Savage Marriage: Triumph over Betrayal and Sexual Addiction: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540208: Amazon.com: Books Buy the Savage Marriage Study Guide on Amazon at Savage Marriage Study Guide: Overcome Your Past. Fight for Your Future.: Fretwell, Phil, Fretwell, Priscilla: 9798985540239: Amazon.com: Books


And follow our podcast on Spotify, iTunes, Youtube, and many other platforms.

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2 years ago
24 minutes 35 seconds

Savage Marriage with Phil and Priscilla
In a world obsessed with sharing every detail of life, there’s one thing that few people ever share: problems in their marriages. Real problems: adultery, pornography, prostitution, and the dysfunction that comes from hiding trauma and wounds of the past. Join Phil and Priscilla as they transparently share how God rescued their marriage, and how He can rescue yours too! For more information about Savage Marriage, visit www.savagemarriageministries.com