It's okay to say no to a work Christmas night out if you don't feel  comfortable going. Going to social events with your colleagues can be  intimidating, especially if an alcohol-centric atmosphere isn't the  right environment for everyone. There are other reasons too why it might  not be suitable for you to attend; maybe the event will take place at  an inconvenient time or location, or perhaps your budget doesn't allow  it. It can also be difficult to balance professional and personal  relationships with colleagues, so attending a work function outside  normal hours may not be ideal.    No matter your reason for not wanting to go, it is important that you  feel comfortable declining invitations to avoid any awkwardness or  potential conflict. Remember that it is your decision and you should not  be forced to attend if you don't want to. Communicate clearly and  politely with your colleagues, so they know why you are not available,  and explain that while you would love to join in the festivities, it  simply isn’t feasible this year. You can also suggest alternative  activities like getting together for lunch during the work day or  organizing a virtual Christmas gathering instead.     At the end of the day, it's okay to say no – whatever your reason may  be! Respect yourself, respect others, and make sure that your decisions  align with what is best for yourself and those around you. They may not  understand at first but will come to accept it.