What if you could communicate with the men in your life in a way that inspires them to open up, feel valued, and show up as their best selves—without falling into criticism or disconnection?
In this heartfelt and perspective-shifting episode of Sacred Sex for Real Women, I’m joined by Relationship & Intimacy Coach Carla Crivaro for a deep dive into how we can truly love, respect, and uplift the men we share our lives with.
Together, we unpack:
Why men’s emotional shutdown often isn’t about you—and how to respond in a way that builds trust instead of walls.
The surprising ways patriarchy impacts men too (and why this matters for intimacy and connection).
How to recognize and receive the unique ways men give love—so you stop missing the gestures that are already there.
Why setting your partner up to win is one of the most powerful shifts you can make in your relationship.
How to navigate those “stuck” phases, from career challenges to grief, with compassion, space, and clear communication.
We also draw powerful parallels to The Queen’s Code by Alison Armstrong (one of my most popular podcast topics ever) and explore practical ways to bring these concepts into your real life.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated by miscommunication, longed for more harmony in your relationship, or wanted to better understand the masculine perspective, this conversation is your invitation to see men through a whole new lens—one that celebrates your differences, strengthens your bond, and brings more love into the everyday.
Links & Resources Mentioned:
📚 Listen to “5 Ways The Queen’s Code Shifts Your Perspective About Men” – my top 10 episode diving deep into Alison Armstrong’s work
💌 Join the Sensual Embodiment Collective and receive 10% off with code podcast: janninemackinnon.com/sensual-embodiment-collective
Website: www.carlacrivaro.com (assess your sex, love andrelationships)
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More About Carla:
Carla Crivaro is a Sex, Love & Relationship Coach who helps leaders and foundersreignite their sex lives and deepen their relationships - so they feel confident,desired and fully connected in every area of life, from the bedroom to theboardroom.
She believes your personal life is the foundation of your professional success. Everhad an argument with your partner and found it hard to focus at work? Exactly.
Through 1:1 coaching, group programs and in-person events, Carla supportspeople who feel shut down or disconnected in the bedroom to feel confident,vibrant, and alive - so they can lead powerfully in business too.
Her vision? That you walk into work lit up, inspired and energised after the bestsex of your life that morning.
Carla is calling on leaders to be bold enough to acknowledge that sex andrelationships matter - and to bring this conversation into their workplaces throughcoaching, workshops and talks.
Take her self-assessment atwww.carlacrivaro.comto see how aligned you are insex, love and relationships