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Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Ruby Ryder

50 episodes

1 week ago

Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on dildo.
Strap-on sex is a seductive, passionate option to add to your treasure chest of possibilities as a sexually adventurous couple or a sexually explorative single. This podcast explores the physical, emotional and psychological aspects of pegging.

Pegging has the potential to be a powerful tool in revitalizing or adding spice to almost any relationship.

Strap-on sex involves role reversal. The penetrator becomes the penetrated. The one usually receiving is giving. The one usually in control is not. All kinds of exciting and sometimes startling things happen as a result. Experience a deepening of intimacy by sexually taking a walk in your partner's shoes.

We’ll cover information on how to talk with your partner, equipment information, tips on technique, getting past the myths and misconceptions, success stories and much, much more.

If you have ever been fascinated by the thought of heterosexual strap-on play – this podcast is for you.

Visit https://peggingparadise.com for a plethora of erotic pegging stories, photos and blog.

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Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man's anus with a strap-on dildo.
Strap-on sex is a seductive, passionate option to add to your treasure chest of possibilities as a sexually adventurous couple or a sexually explorative single. This podcast explores the physical, emotional and psychological aspects of pegging.

Pegging has the potential to be a powerful tool in revitalizing or adding spice to almost any relationship.

Strap-on sex involves role reversal. The penetrator becomes the penetrated. The one usually receiving is giving. The one usually in control is not. All kinds of exciting and sometimes startling things happen as a result. Experience a deepening of intimacy by sexually taking a walk in your partner's shoes.

We’ll cover information on how to talk with your partner, equipment information, tips on technique, getting past the myths and misconceptions, success stories and much, much more.

If you have ever been fascinated by the thought of heterosexual strap-on play – this podcast is for you.

Visit https://peggingparadise.com for a plethora of erotic pegging stories, photos and blog.

Show more...

Health & Fitness

Episodes (20/50)

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Short Takes on Power Bottoming, and How to Reignite the Spark

Welcome to another Short Take! This one has a couple of shares. The first is about dominant/submissive challenges with pegging - power bottoming and how it improved one couple's pegging dynamic. The second is asking for ideas to reignite the sexual spark after 24 years of marriage. Enjoy!

* Modern Love Languages

* Mojo Upgrade

* Carnal Calibration

* Sex Over 30 on Reddit

* Sex Over 50 on Reddit

And just in case you missed it - My article about CBD Lubes and Suppositories!

Masturbation Month 2025 has been largely ignored by me - My apologies! Some of you may have been waiting for new chapters of the on-going story, Seven Days as a Kitchen Maid. If you have not read it, there are currently 29 short chapters. I started the story in 2022 and only seem to be inspired to add to it during May...until this year. I promise that it's on my list to finish! Never has it taken so long to tell about 7 days, right? Erotic anticipation at it's best (or worst - lol). At this point, Frank is quite tempted to do some power bottoming, but he won't. He's being a good boy for Cynthia. Only two more days left! But so very many adventures...

3 months ago

13 minutes 35 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Short Take On Masculine Surrender and Virginity

Masculine Surrender

Sunday 1/19 is my next Virtual Happy Hour! Register Here.

A couple of letters for you today! Masculine surrender and vulnerability and so-called 'virginity'.

I do believe that there is healing potential in anal penetration for all prostate owners, but especially for the intensely masculine receivers. Allowing a bit of feminine in to help find balance can be refreshing, wondrous and healing. Not having to be in control can be a relief, startling in contrast to the daily expectations of society.

And the stuff about 'virginity'. Whew. Perhaps it was an innocent question, but the word itself represents so much bad stuff, and not any good that I can see. Educate yourself. Carry the good forward and discard the bad. The concept of virginity isn't doing anyone any favors.

You'll hear this in the recording, but I will be leaving Instagram and Threads today, the 19th. There are a lot of reasons, most of which many of you will also be familiar with. I will not participate in a social media platform that simply doesn't care about hate speech and misinformation. Since most of my connecting with you lovely folx happens on Fetlife.com and Reddit, I can make this move and not have it affect me negatively. I'm really liking BlueSky. Give it a try - link below.

Info and Articles

* The Many Ways to Bend Over; How Words Matter - Article

* Bend Over and Take it - Article

* Virginity and the Hymen Myth - Article by NZ Sexual Health Society

* Here I am on BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/rubyryder.bsky.social

* Here are my TikTok videos

* Here is my Free Erotica

7 months ago

13 minutes 51 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Short Take on Feeling Clingy, Depth Injuries, and Condoms

taking a longer dildo when pegging

Feeling Clingy, Depth Injuries, and Condoms!

* Rectosigmoid Junction Injury - seeking information

* Condoms on toys?

* Receiver feeling clingy and needy after pegging

Articles and Information

* Rectosigmoid junction article

* Removing odors from silicone toys

* Pegging and aftercare

In this short take you will find an attempt at crowdsourcing for a gentleman who had a depth play injury at the rectosigmoid junction. He also had a horrible experience with an MD who couldn't get beyond his own discomfort to give good care.

Next, she wonders why all people don't use condoms on toy?

Finally, he's new at pegging, and was very surprised at the emotional fallout afterwards. Namely, feeling clingy and needy for a couple of days afterwards. This question was on Reddit and one commenter responded so well I felt like you all needed to hear it. That link will take you to the original post.

Sale of all 3 of my Webinars good through the end of the year! You need this is your sex education library!

Here's to much more pegging in 2025. I think we can all, or almost all, toast to that! Happy Holidays to you all and may you enjoy the loveliest celebration(s) ever.

8 months ago

20 minutes 26 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Short Take – What to Say and Big Toy Questions

* He wonders what to say in the moment for givers who are beginners and asks what I might have wanted to hear!

* He's puzzling out the details of how to take a bigger toy. The lube must be slippery and they need the right harness so the new toy is over her bits!

Articles/Information

* Different Ways of Opening Up For Pegging - Article

* Reddit post about Silolis Anal Training Plugs

* All About the Rectosigmoid Junction - Article

Equipment

* Fukena

* Sliquid Silk

* X-Lube

* CBD Butt Stuff

* CBD Palm Grease Extra Greasy

* Silolis Anal Training Sets

* Aslan Leather Commando Harness

* Square Peg Slink

* Hosed Tapered Flexible Silicone Anal Hose

* Tantus Snake

* Tantus Cones

* Banana Pants Bumpher - to grind against

* Banana Pants Lippi grind with or without vibe

* Best vibe for Lippi Nu Sensuelle Point Plus

Webinar Sale is ON - Limited Time Offer

All 3 of my Webinars - the Premium Pegging Package - are now on sale until the end of the year, discounted from $99 to $75! This enables you to have a six hour complete educational pegging library on hand for new partners, additional partners, or for your own review. The best part about the recorded webinars is the on-demand flexibility that allows you to view them on your own time frame as opposed to when I have a free webinar scheduled.

8 months ago

21 minutes 59 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Short Take on the Initial Insertion

Initial Insertions require good foreplay!

Initial Insertion Short Take

Jessica's question is common for new Givers. She's concerned about getting the toy in so the fun can begin! Initial insertion doesn't need to be unpleasant for the receiver. For the giver, when you take the right steps to open up the ass, initial insertion goes more smoothly. This can give you more confidence in that all-important moment of sliding it home!

WTF are Short Takes?

This is the first of what I am calling my Short Takes. Shorter audio clips and more often is the goal. Hope you enjoy. Might be easier to listen to shorter podcasts as well. Having a tough time at the family gathering? Take 10 minutes out and listen to me talk about dildos and asses! I plan to drop these on no specific schedule, but will strive to satisfy all you listeners who have been so deprived on my podcasts.

Upcoming Sale

Advance notice of year end sale on all 3 of my Webinars. The Premium Pegging Package will go on sale December 15th through the end of the year, discounted from $99 to $75. This will enable you to have a complete educational pegging library on hand for new partners, additional partners, or your own review.The best part about the recorded webinars is the on-demand flexibility that allows you to view them on your own time frame as opposed to when I have a webinar scheduled.

* Dr Carlton's Butt Clock

Happy Pegging and No Shame!

8 months ago

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Podcast #303 Pops Right Up!

Pegging Paradise Podcast #303

Just when you wondered if you'd lost me... Another podcast pops right up!

* Both sides of an amazing pegging story

* Some new toys after the ANME show!

* All 3 Webinars are now recorded and available for on-demand viewing

* Happy Hour Chats with Ruby are now a thing

* Private consultations can be scheduled here

Information/Articles

* All 3 Webinars Recorded

* Happy Hours

Equipment

* Strap On Me Unique Harness dual penetration one size waist 25 - 35

* Strap On Me Tapping Wave Dildo 6" x 1.5" suction cup waterproof

* Strap On Me Realistic 6" x 1.69" suction cup dual density

* Tantus Uncut Realistic O2 #1 ~8" x 1.75" no suction cup

* Tantus Uncut Realistic O2 #2 6.4" x 1.6" no suction cup

* Tantus Anal Training Cones Small, Large, and Squat

* Tantus Charmer Great Beginner Dildo 7" x 1.3" no suction cup med firm

* B-Vibe 360 Rotating Plug with Dual Vibrations and Remote

* B-Vibe Expand Inflatable Plug with Vibrating Base and Remote

* Strap On Me Inflatable Dildo Plug 5.5" to 7.8" x 1.12" to 2.36"

* Liberator BonBon Cushion Best for Holding Dildo and Riding

* Liberator On a Mission Cushion for Lucky Pierre Experience

* HarForDil Dildo Harnesses Tell them Ruby Ryder sent you!

I hope you enjoy this podcast. Speaking of something that pops right up, there are two inflatable toys for you to check out this time! One from my last blog post, Show more...

1 year ago

53 minutes 52 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

“I Love Seeing You Like This” – Podcast #302

"I love seeing you like this." My interviewee, Steve, has heard these words many times while receiving pegging from his partner. We hear Steve's story about how he began walking down the path of pegging and how his experience has evolved over the years. He speaks eloquently about what he loves about pegging, and his explorations into crossdressing and chastity. This podcast might be a reassurance to pegging givers who are concerned when their receivers express a desire to crossdress. Hearing personal stories can be heartening and enlightening. Enjoy!

Information/Articles

* Toxic Toys - Article

* Girls on Porn Podcast

* Men Like to Feel Beautiful and Wanted,Too - Article

* Chastity and Pegging - Article

* Nicole Prause on Neurohackers Interview, Medium, Another Intervie w

Equipment

* SpareParts Joque Harness

* Fuze Tango

* Strap On Me Vibrating Double

* Strap On Me Dual Density

Movember officially begins in November. I will indeed be participating once again with the same goal of $1000. I'm starting early (October 15th) because my goal this year is not a specific workout goal. Instead, it's a weight loss goal! This is why I am starting early. I plan to lose 15 pounds by the end of November and reverse the effects of the pandemic on my fitness. I'm strong from all my workouts but would love to be able to fit back into some of my clothes and move through the world more easily. Extra weight impacts me more intensely as I get older! And I need to stay fit so I can keep enthusiastically having my way with my partners...!

Please donate to the Move mber fundraiser if you are able. They are doing such amazing work!

1 year ago

1 hour 13 minutes 48 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Turning the Spotlight on Podcast #301

Pegging Paradise Podcast #301

* Prince of Pegging

* Dogs and Cars and Escapes

* Email lists and marketing

* Pretty Dildos!

* Pegging Celebration Time!

* He finally asks for it and gets it plus more!

* Vagus Nerve considerations post heart attack

* He discovers real femdom exists and I talk about consent

* He is so giving to her that she revisits his love of anal play and he's hopeful

* Podcast #112 is a lighthouse for him is so many wonderful ways

* He seeks a solution to a complicated toy issue

Information/Articles

* Dr. Joe Kort on men wanting to feel desired

* Paper - Anal sex after Cardiac event

* Podcast #112

Equipment

* Andrew Christian Jock Straps!

* Unicorn Tongue Dildo 2.3" x 7.4"

* Mr Hankey's Toys

* Beefcake Small 2.2" x 6.44"

* Alien Breeder Small 2.18" x 7.5"

* Kthulu Small 2.4" x 7.5"

* Banana Pants dildo covers

* Bumpher - cover

* Shagger - cover

* b.Cush - pad

* Honeybunch - pad with vibe

* Lippi - pad with vibe

* Nu Sensuelle Point 20 - Best bullet vibe for pads

I hope you enjoy podcast #301! I included a link to an instagram video from Joe Kort that relates to my new article posted on 7/2, "Men Like to Feel Beautiful and Wanted, Too". There's a lot to this line of thinking. I think the reasons that women are not as good at expressing t...

2 years ago

57 minutes 20 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

How to Be More Dominant While Pegging Your Partner

More dominant, please - the thought going through many receivers minds.

The magic of Pegging, in my opinion, is that it is a customizable sexual activity. Pegging can look many different ways depending on the desires and leanings of the people involved. One couple might enjoy a sensual, love-making experience while another might prefer a full-on BDSM scene with restraints, impact play, and humiliation.

A desire I see expressed often by receivers in pegging groups on Reddit, and in emails sent to me is for the giver to be more dominant.

"How can I get my partner to be more dominant while fucking me?"

"Sometimes I really wish she would just grab me and fuck me and act a little more dominant."

"I've asked my partner to be more dominant, but she said she doesn't know how."

This is a common desire in the world of pegging. So how can couples best navigate this added aspect to their pegging play? I recorded my thoughts on this subject for you all. The answer is more involved than you would think. Good communication is essential. Knowing what you like and dislike is also important for both givers and receivers.

Remember, the willingness to explore is commendable and a true gift to your partner and your relationship! You don't know whether you will like it if you have never tried it, right?

Happy Pegging!

2 years ago

11 minutes 48 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Here it is! Presenting Podcast #300 Part Two!

Soft Cock Week is Coming!

Podcast #300 Part 2, where Michelle and I continue the conversation talking about responsive desire, celebrating people's no, and more. We explore touch, awakening the prostate, foreplay in solo anal exploration, and giving yourself permission. And don't forget, Soft Cock Week is coming again November 5 - 11, 2023! There are so many subjects around soft cocks that we discuss. Even how the word cock seems to be more favored by one racial demographic - with no studies to prove it!

Articles/Information

* E mily Nagoski - Come As You Are

* Cuddle Party

* Soft Cock Week November 5 - 11, 2023

* Soft Cocktail Mixer 2022

* Barry McCarthy - Coping With Premature Ejaculation

* Mark Greene - Remaking Manhood

* Betty Martin Wheel of Consent

* Woodhull Organization program archive

* The Case For Cock Owners Using Strap-Ons

Equipment

* B-Vibe Snug Plug

* Aneros Helix Syn

* Spare Parts Deuce

Michelle and I go down a bunch of rabbit holes (pun always intended) in part 2 of podcast #300. She explains about responsive desire, and how understanding what your accelerators and your brakes are can be so important for couples to explore with each other. Then we explore Soft Cock Week (Michelle's creation!) from a variety of different perspectives. Check out the website - there are a collection of writings there from the inaugural 2022 celebration.

Again, I want to thank you for downloading and listening, and for your support. I believe that because of my efforts, and by extension, your efforts, too, that we have significantly reduced the shame often felt by receivers of pegging. We have also corrected the misconceptions and myths attached to this delightful sexual activity. More people than ever are exploring pegging.

2 years ago

51 minutes 26 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

This is it! Presenting Podcast #300 Part One!

Presenting Podcast #300

Presenting Podcast #300! I am joined by Michelle Rene, sexual surrogate, sex worker, intimacy guide, human connection coach and creator of Soft Cock Week. We talk about many. many things. You will surely find some nuggets in there for yourself. Thanks for listening!

Articles/Information

Pegging Gangbang Interview #146 Part One Pegging Gangbang Interview #146 Part Two Podcast #200 Part OneAnd Podcast #200 Part Two Podcast #200 Part Three Stan Tatkin - Wired For Love Jessica Fern - Polysecure - Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Non-Mono gamy Dr. Joe Kort - Ask Yourself...Te rry Real - Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship Attachment Style Quiz AASECT Tammy Kent - Wild Femini ne

Equipment

EnticeMe - Code Ryder for free shipping!

2 years ago

1 hour 7 minutes 39 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Get Down and Get Funky With Podcast #299

Pegging Paradise Podcast #299

* She used to peg him but not anymore. Advice?

* He wonders if pushing the cock and balls back behind the legs has a point?

* He wants to find the right formula to increase her enthusiasm and pleasure

* Pegging Celebration Time!

* He has Equipment questions after their first 3 times

* He comments on my article and tells a story

* Seven words and a grammar lesson

* Shout out and a question

* Sub seeks prostate orgasm and wants more pleasure for his mistress

* He's post-op prostate cancer, seeking advice about a strap-on for him

* He's a virgin looking for a dominant partner, advice?

* She said no, he made a Funky Rocker!

Articles/Information

* Review of Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable

* Review of Strap On Me Vibrating Bendable Double

* Sign up for my webinars!

* Chairman Position

* Givers Discord Chat - email me: Ruby@ PeggingParadise.com

* Midori's DIY Scarf Harness

* When Dominant Women Suck Submissive Dick

* Cam Fraser Interview Mish Middelmann

* The Case For Cock Owners Using a Strap-On

Equipment

* Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Double

* Strap On Me Vibrating Double

* Spare Parts Sasha Harness

* Silicone Sheaths for Strap On Me Doubles

* O-Ring Sets

* Blush Silicone Dildos

* Spare Parts Deuce Harness

* Show more...

2 years ago

1 hour 8 minutes 49 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Celebrations and Inquiries – Podcast #298

Podcast #298 features talk of the JimSupport Sex Sling

Pegging Paradise Podcast #298

* Consultations with Ruby are now easy to schedule!

* PCT! He tells his story, from anal play to pegging

* PCT! He shares his journey from diet to exploration to pegging!

* His reflections after one year of pegging

* He shares his experience with Snug Plugs 1-4 and bicycling!

* They are exploring more and more. He’s excited and terrified all at once!

Articles/Information

* Zoom Consultations with Ruby

* Review of JimSupport Sex Sling

* Breathtaking Butt Plug Article

* Pegging Positions for Beginners

* More Pegging Positions

* Article - Asking Her to Try It

Equipment

* Aneros Prostate Massager

* Sex Card Games

* Jim Support Sex Sling

* B-Vibe Snug Plugs

* B-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plugs

Podcast #298 contains some great stories about this journey we call pegging, from beginning anal play to the real deal. I never tire of hearing how that story unfolds, the challenges and thrills along the way. The recurring theme so often seems to be the deep satisfaction of being accepted for exactly who you are, and the thrill of exploring new sexual territory. Slings, butt plugs, relationships, communications, taking risks, asking for what you want, and more makes up this episode. And we are almost at #300!

2 years ago

46 minutes 49 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Surprise! Podcast #297 Appears!

Podcast #297 brings all kinds of good things, like putting on a show for your partner, thinking hard about the connection of bisexuality and pegging, and a deep dive (pun intended) into lube options. PLUS, I finally found a lube option for you wide toy aficionados that measures up to my lube snob standards - yay! If you are going to put something in your body, make sure it's safe. That axiom applies to toys as well as lube! For those of you interested in different techniques to help open up to pegging pleasure, I'm hooking you up with Dr Carlton's butt clock technique, too. So effective! Enjoy podcast #297.

For Your Listening Pleasure!

* She waxes poetic about pegging, and wonders about positions and toys

* She wonders about the assertion that all men who enjoy pegging are on some level interested in the real thing

* Receiver/Giver Reddit shares of their first time pegging

* He discovers solo shower play and puts on a show for his wife!

* Discovering pegging at a later age has it challenges, and he’s looking for ways to make it easier and more enjoyable for her

* Lube info/opinions, from a man with decades of anal play experience!

* He’s having a hard time relaxing with solo play

Articles/Information

* Pegging Positions

* Ciren Virde Interviewed by Leyna Nguyen of Consenting Adults Podcast

* Venus Cuckoldress Interviews Ruby!

* Reddit Forum - Straight Pegging

* Podcast #112 for the Givers

* The Webinars!

* Newbie Solo Ass Play

* Dr. Carlton’s Butt Clock Technique on IG

Equipment

* Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo

* Pegasus Vibrating Dildos with remote

* Blush Vibrating Dildos

* Jim Support Sex Sling

* Spare Parts Sasha

* Sliquid Silk

* Butters Palm Grease Code PEGGINGPARADISE for 20% off!

* Njoy Purewand

Here in CA we recently did the whole stupid (IMO) time change thing again. I wondered what the hell happened because I thought we were getting rid of it. Turns out despite voters approving the measure,...

2 years ago

1 hour 2 minutes 45 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Podcast #296 Interview with Zach Budd

Pegging Paradise Podcast #296

My interview with Zach Budd, and his reflections on consent, anal receptive play, and where the two meet, are an interesting listen. The journey he took that led him to take a deep dive into exactly what consent means in our world is fascinating. We discuss why guerilla ass play and stealth sodomy are never okay, and how an enthusiastic yes is the only true consent. Last but far from least, Zach shares the tip of the iceberg on the subject of anal receptive play for men in the back community, a subject many of you have wondered about. Enjoy!

* Movember Month End Push for the Bodacious Tatas!

* Wrap Up of Soft Cock Appreciation Week with Michelle Rene

* Interview with Zach Budd

* Happy Holidays!

Articles/Information

* Consent, Kink and the Law - Zach Budd

* Soft Cock Week Resources!

* Gang Bang Podcast Part 1 - Michelle Rene

* Gang Bang Podcast Part 2 - Michele Rene

* Gang Bang Story From the Receiver

* Gang Bang Erotic Story

* Movember Donating Link

Equipment

* Help Support Pegging Paradise with these Affiliate Links!

* EnticeMe.Com - free shipping code Ryder

* Hismith Fucking Machines! 5% off with code WYWE97H3

* Giddi Award Winning Prostate Massagers

* Godemiche Custom Dildos

* Mr Hankey's Toys - the Big Ones!

* JimSupport Sex Slings and fetish furniture!

For those of you who have yet to make it to an Equipment Webinar and now find yourselves in the position of gift giving and being uncertain about which gifts - I scheduled one more Equipment Webinar for you on December 3rd, Saturday, at 10AM. That will leave you time to order and receive whatever you would like to stuff that present, stocking or derrière with - your choice! My preference is the derrière,

2 years ago

1 hour 8 minutes 18 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Podcast #295 It’s Not Hard!

Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #295

Podcast #295 is my offering to Soft Cock Appreciation Week, the brainchild of Michelle Renee at HumanConnectionCoach.com. For too long, there has been far too much emphasis on erections, how to get them, what to do if you don't have one, and pretty much everything that surrounds the constant quest for an erection. Let's celebrate soft cocks in all their glory! It's not hard, head over to the website and check out all the offerings from so many different sex educators and sexuality professionals. Officially begins November 13th and lasts through November 19th, which is when there will be a variety of events, and there are already resources and offerings to explore; a wealth of information!

Moved to donate to Movember? It's not hard:

Click here to Donate to the Movember Fundraiser for Ruby Ryder AND Soft Cock Appreciation Week!

Articles/Information

* Cam Fraser/Mish Middelmann Interview

* Rediscovering Life and Manhood After Prostate Cancer

* Movember's True North - Life After Prostate Cancer Treatment

* The Conscious Locker Room - Tully O'Conner - Podcast

* The Man Rules Podcast With Dan Griffin

* Movember Fundraiser for Soft Cock Appreciation Week!

* Soft Cock Appreciation Week

* The Case for Cock Owners Using a Strap-on

* Aneros Forum

* The Love Drive Podcast with Shaun Galanos - Excellent episode for Soft Cock Week!

Equipment

* Spare Parts Deuce for Cock Owners

*

I urge you to join me in celebrating soft cocks, slow sex, non-PIV sex, unhurried explorations of each other's bodies, and our own bodies! There are so many ways to have sex that don't require or involve a hard cock, a wet vagina, and a goal driven activity. Be good to yourselves!

2 years ago

47 minutes 43 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Podcast #294 Lex Shares About BIG Toys

Mr Hankey's Long John

Mr Hankey's Largo

Pegging Paradise Podcast #294

My Interview with Lex, IMO an expert on longer and wider toys. With his background of product designer, engineering, artistic creativity, constant curiosity and a large dose of chemical and physical science, Lex takes us on a very deep dive (pun intended) into this more extreme toy play. This podcast is a long one (another pun intended)! Right as I was putting this podcast together, I received a promotional email from Mr. Hankey's, and both the Largo and Long John are on sale 15% off! Lovely coincidence.

Articles/Information

* Sell used sex toys on Reddit * Circumference/diameter conversion* Sapiens - Book by Yuval Noah Harari* Movember is coming!

Equipment

* Nylon Syringe with Drench Tip for Lube Insertion* Mr Hankey's - Largo and Long John - scroll down - on sale!* X-Lube* "Great Chinese Toy for Stretching and Depth Training"* "Perfect Depth Trainer"* "My Personal Favorite Chinese Toy"* Black Latex Rubber Fisting Mitts* John Thomas Toys - UK - Goose Neck (other colors - search!)* PVC Goose for building toys (must cover for safety!)* Hismith Fucking Machine Coupon Code for 5% off: WYWE97H3* Square Peg Slink

2 years ago

1 hour 40 minutes 41 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Tickle Your Ears with Podcast #293

Podcast #293 - for your listening pleasure!

* He describes his sexual assault (trigger warning)* Short and sweet happy news!* He loves feminization and she's concerned* He introduces us to the 'Peg Pal' term!* Pegging Celebration Time!* They pegged before, but not for a while. This time was amazing!* Pegging Celebration Time!* New relationship and pegging is a happening thing!* Pegging Celebration Time!* After 3 years, it finally happened* Pegging Celebration Time!* Peggers from Belgium - He tells their story!* She wonders if he relaxes through the have to pee, if he will orgasm?

Articles/Information

* The Truth About Strapless Strap-Ons* Podcast #112 - For the Givers* All the Pegging Paradise Podcasts!

Equipment

* Lucky Glitter Dildo by Avant* Pink Aslan Leather Minx harness

Hope you enjoyed podcast #293!

Two more things...

Two Awesome Things - Sex Swings and Podcast #293!

I have talked about my amazing sex swing before. You know, the one that doesn't require a hard point, is free-standing, and breaks down to a duffel bag so you don't have to have a dedicated sex play room...? I showcase it in every equipment webinar I teach, because besides being amazing for pegging, it's excellent for less able-bodied givers and receivers! A new company took over the brand, and now offers an affiliate program, which I of course signed up for pronto. They offer not only sex swings, but a variety of other sex furniture, too! Here's the link: Fetish Locker Sex Swings and Sex Furniture!

Movember Will be Here Soon!

Movember is coming right up and I will be doing my yearly fundraiser combined with gym workout (that's the 'move' part) again this year. My goal is $1K, and I have reached it twice in the past - with the assistance of a few tata pics. Just google tatas here at Pegging Paradise. and you will see what I mean. I hope you will join my efforts to raise money for Movember. They started off with an emphasis on prostate and testicular awareness, and expanded into men's health in general (men are not as good at taking care of their health because they are expected to just tough things out), and men's mental health (men are taught to compete, and follow a strict set of rules of masculinity, which leads to isolation and a lack of close friends = bad for mental health). They do amazing work!

2 years ago

49 minutes 4 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

An Auditory Delight! Podcast #292

Listen to Pegging Paradise Podcast #292!

Podcast #292 brings you new toys, discussion about dominant and submissive labels, and much more!

* Ruby discusses Sexual Dominance, Submission and Labels* Response to ED/age issues from #279* Response to wanting to feel pretty #291* His story about bisexuality and pegging with his wife* He wants his wife to get pleasure from pegging* New Strap On Me Clit Sucking Vibrating Double!* Listener shares many thoughts revolving around pegging* She wasn't fully on board with pegging and shamed/judged him...* Now she's fully on board, and he doesn't trust her

Articles/Information

* When Dominant Women Suck Submissive Dick* Review Strap On Me Bendable Vibrating Double* Review Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Clit Sucking Double!* The Truth About Strapless Strap-Ons* Tom Ford Quote About Male Penetration* 3D Model of Clitoris* Dr Carlton on IG about Poppers

Equipment

* New Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Clit Sucking Double* Strap On Me Bendable Vibrating Double* Lelo Enigma - Tiffany recommendation for Clit Sucking* B-Vibe Le Wand - My favorite wand

3 years ago

1 hour 3 minutes 39 seconds

Ruby Ryder – Pegging Paradise

Podcast #291 Rolls Into Town

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Podcast #291 Rolls Into Town!

So - Some great stuff with this podcast. My fascination with vulnerability continues. So I gathered together a number of shares about the emotional vulnerability felt by receivers during pegging. And then we have a celebration, too!

* To begin with, more suggestions for incorporating pain with pegging* Pegging after a prostatectomy?* Pegging brings up his lack of vulnerability in his relationship* Then, he sends a vote for men feeling sexy and beautiful!* He feels shame with his solo anal (esp big) toy play* He wonders about terminology for pegging partners* He seeks info to begin exploring depth play* Pegging Celebration Time!* Their first time was so emotionally satisfying for him!* He eloquently shares the intense emotions he feels from pegging* He shares therapist's suggestion about shadow work* And finally, he shares his anal story - from shame to thrills!

Articles and Information

* Figging - Wikipedia* Tiktok capsicum video removed, sorry!* Aneros Forum - register and then search for 'prostatectomy'* Podcast #35 - pegging after prostatectomy* Podcast #109 - discussion about PSA and prostate cancer* Podcast #168 - pegging after prostatectomy* Cam Fraser/Mish Middleman Rediscovering Life and Manhood After Prostate Cancer* Pegging and Aftercare* Big Toys and Stigma* Advanced Webinar for depth play info* Shadow Work Video #1 - Christina Lopes* Shadow Work Video #2 - Khetasar Love* Shadow Work Video #3 - The Quintessential Mind* Shadow Work Video #4 - Dr. Steve Mortensen* Map of Seminal Vesicle and Prostate #1* Map of Seminal Vesicle and Prostate #2* Ruby Rolls into an Interview - "In Bed With Lisa"!

Equipment

* Icy H ot* Shop for Big Toys at Mr Hankeys!

3 years ago

52 minutes 37 seconds