Vulnerability is scary, intimacy is scary—no matter how much we say we want it.
But today, how we shift our words to be soft, to be inviting, to be siren-y, like the Siren concept of creating a healing, creating the desire to make things happen. It’s activism, it’s girl power, it’s the inner strength of who we are as women. And yet, until we’re able to strip down, de-armour ourselves, really, we can come off as these warrior women.
If we are unconsciously acting in our warrior self, then most of us are also confused as to why men won’t come close—which is what we want.
So how do we de-weaponize our words?
De-armor our whole selves to let a man in?
Weaponizing words starts with us asking, ‘Why?’ ‘Why did you do that?’ ‘Why did you say that?’ ‘Why that shirt?’ That is passive-aggressive.
That is weaponizing your words. And it’s a learned pattern, handed down through generations of powerlessness.
We’ve had no choices except to weaponize ourselves in the most passive-aggressive, undercurrent, slimy, under-the-radar way of protecting ourselves and being heard.
This conversation is about unlearning all that—so that love can actually get in.
On Siren Island, Every day, you’ll have space to practice deep, feeling-based communication—for healing, for love, and for everything you want from your feminine energy.
Siren Island is here:
https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-community-program/
Love, Rori
