Every couple faces relationship struggles—from missed appointments to moments of miscommunication. But the way we interpret those struggles often determines whether they turn into distance or deeper connection. In this episode of the Roadmap to Secure Love, Kim and Kyle explore how attachment styles shape our reactions when things go wrong and why secure couples repair quickly while insecure patterns can spiral into conflict. At Healing Moments Counseling, we know that life can be messy and t...
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Every couple faces relationship struggles—from missed appointments to moments of miscommunication. But the way we interpret those struggles often determines whether they turn into distance or deeper connection. In this episode of the Roadmap to Secure Love, Kim and Kyle explore how attachment styles shape our reactions when things go wrong and why secure couples repair quickly while insecure patterns can spiral into conflict. At Healing Moments Counseling, we know that life can be messy and t...
Episode 32-Why Pleasing Your Partner Could Be Hindering Great Sex.
Roadmap to Secure Love
12 minutes
5 months ago
Episode 32-Why Pleasing Your Partner Could Be Hindering Great Sex.
In this episode of The Roadmap to Secure Love, Dr. Kimberly Castelo and Kyle Benson explore a topic that resonates deeply with many—people pleasing and the impact on sex. Rooted in anxious attachment, people pleasing can show up in the most intimate parts of our relationships, often leading to obligatory sex, disconnection, and resentment. 🎙️ Kim and Kyle unpack the emotional, relational, and psychological effects of prioritizing your partner’s pleasure while ignoring your own needs. &...
Roadmap to Secure Love
Every couple faces relationship struggles—from missed appointments to moments of miscommunication. But the way we interpret those struggles often determines whether they turn into distance or deeper connection. In this episode of the Roadmap to Secure Love, Kim and Kyle explore how attachment styles shape our reactions when things go wrong and why secure couples repair quickly while insecure patterns can spiral into conflict. At Healing Moments Counseling, we know that life can be messy and t...