When you love someone, nothing you do for them feels like a sacrifice. Sacrifice is one of the most barren, self-pitying and self-aggrandising words. And when said, it puts a huge burden on the other person, and guilt-trips them. Plus, it makes the person saying it sound like a dumbass. A sacrifice is when you’re forced to sit on top of your husband’s funeral pyre so his soul can be cleansed. Jesus sacrificed his life so our sins can be erased. Whatever you’re doing for someone else, enjoy the fact that you’re making them happy. Don’t think of it as a sacrifice. Unless what makes the person happy is to harm you, in which case, don’t try to enjoy it. Walk away and show them the middle finger instead. Do everything with delight. Know that whatever is there for you, is for you to enjoy, without being guilt tripped that someone made a sacrifice for you.
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