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Substack Reconciliation or even trying to explain to a Golden Child your reality as a Scapegoat is challenging. They have been brainwashed and manipulated for too long. Narcissistic or dysfunctional parents triangulate their children and pit them against each other, making them compete for the parents' love and attention. The Scapegoat is targeted because they are strong willed, intelligent, empathic and compassionate truth seekers. The narcissistic parent hates these good qualities. So they brainwash the Golden Child sibling into hating the Scapegoat as well. They tell lies about the Scapegoat and project their own bad character onto the Scapegoat. The Golden Child believes every lie. The Golden Child is the weaker of the two, and is easy to manipulate and control. The adult Golden Child and Scapegoat siblings are usually estranged, with little hope of reconciliation. The Golden Child is far too brainwashed to wake up from the narrative fed to them. Their experience in the dysfunctional family is very different from the Scapegoat's experiences. If they don't manage to get together and compare notes, the Golden Child will never know the truth. The Scapegoat's reputation was already ruined by the narcissistic or dysfunctional parent when they were young children. Music: AestheticsMusician: SoulProdMusicURL: https://pixabay.com/music/-aesthetics-138637/ #goldenchild #estrangement #dysfunctionalfamily #narcissisticfamily #scapegoat #blacksheep #spiritualawakening #spirituality #brainwashing #scapegoating #emotionalabuse #siblings #siblingsinnarcissisticfamily #siblingsindysfunctionalfamily #estrangedsiblings #nocontact