In this episode of Rizz Pro Tips, we reveal why most men ruin the first date by talking too much about themselves and shattering the fantasy that got her to say yes. Discover the psychology behind why women come to first dates with an idealized version of you, and how trying to impress can backfire. Learn the powerful conversational strategy where you let her do most of the talking—3 to 4 times more than you—to build strong emotional connection and keep her interest alive. We unpack how to shift from "proving your worth" to being a skilled conversational guide, helping her feel genuinely heard and understood. This simple mindset shift could dramatically increase your chances of scoring a second date and mastering modern charisma for men.